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Kazmiera Vandale Obituary

Ballouville - Kazmiera "Kay" Vandale, 89, of Ballouville, passed away Thursday, Dec. 29, 2011, at the Village of Waterman Lake.

She was born Jan. 16, 1922 in Harrison, N.J., daughter of the late Philip and Mary (Lacz) Grzysiewicz. She married Roland Vandale at St. Anne's Church in Ballouville in 1942, and was a communicant of St. Anne's Church in Ballouville until its closing. Kay was a member of the Daughters of Isabella and was an avid church patron and volunteered at the church. She enjoyed crossword puzzles and loved to garden. She retired as an LPN from Westview Nursing Home.

Kay is survived by her husband, Roland; her three sons, James Vandale and his wife, Renae, of Sterling, Roland "Danny" Vandale and his wife, Joan, of North Stonington, and Mark Vandale and his wife, Debra, of Shelburne Falls, Mass.; her daughter, Nancy Young and her husband, Dan, of Gilbert, Ariz. She also leaves 11 grandchildren; nine great-grandchildren; and one great-great-grandchild.

Calling hours will be from 9 to 10 a.m. Wednesday, at the Gagnon and Costello Funeral Home, 33 Reynolds St., Danielson, followed by a Mass of Christian Burial at 11 a.m. at St. Joseph Church, 350 Hartford Pike, Dayville, followed by burial at Holy Cross Cemetery.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in her memory to Home and Hospice Care of Rhode Island, 1085 N. Main St., Providence, RI 02904.

To share a memory with her family, "Light a Candle" at www.gagnonandcostellofh.com

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Day on Jan. 1, 2012.

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Kelly R/Linda G -- Activities - VWL

January 6, 2012

We are so sorry for your loss. Kay was a special lady who will be missed. She holds a special place in our hearts. We loved to make her laugh. Our deepest sympathy to her family.

Candace Cassio

January 4, 2012

My thoughts and prayers are with the family during this difficult time.

Darlene & Bob Gannon

January 3, 2012

I will always remember Kay with a smile; she always could make you laugh; was a loving and gentle grandmother - and of course her knitting and cooking skills were legendary. I believe she would not want you to grieve but instead celebrate her life! Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Sandy Rickey

January 2, 2012

Kay was such a lovely lady, loved by all, will be remembered always. My sincere sympathy to the entire family.

Allan Warrender

January 2, 2012

To the Vandale family. Do not mourn her passing, but instead celebrate her moving on to another life !!! She was awesome as a wife and mother, not only to you, but to all of us that were growing up with you ! A part of our life has been taken away, but we will all be together again someday !!!

Walter Armstrong

January 2, 2012

I remember the smile that they shared when they talked about the days that they worked together. and I sure that they are smiling together today,jumping for joy to see one another again. Walter

lisa skellinger

January 2, 2012

To the entire Vandale family. Your mother was a great women. Please remember the good times you had with her and remember she is an angel watching over you until we meet again. I am so sorry for your lose. Lisa Skellinger and girls.

Robin/Debbie McAteer

January 1, 2012

Renae, Travis and family: When my grandmother passed, many years ago, a friend sent the following words to me. I keep them posted by my desk. I hope that you can take the same peace and comfort from them that I do. IN MEMORIUM

In countless gentle, kindly ways she lived a sermon all her days. Believing in the folk she knew and making friends her lifetime through
Enjoying life, its works and fun, she sought the best in everyone. Living her faith from day to day, she sowed good seed along the way.
Now death has set her spirit free in fields of immortality, to claim a task of greater worth than any she had known on earth.

MISS ME_BUT LET ME GO

When I come to the end of the road, and the sun has set for me, I want no rites in a gloom-filled room. Why cry for a soul set free?
Miss me a little, but not for long and not with your head bowed low. Remember the love that we once shared. Miss me, but let me go.
For this is a journey that we all must take. And each must go alone. It's all a part of the Master's plan, a step on the road to home. When you are lonely and sick of heart, go to the friends we know, and bury your sorrows in doing good deeds. Miss me, but let me go.
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edward allan

January 1, 2012

Celebrating a life well lived. We will cherish the memories forever.

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