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Matthew James "Matty" Pillion

Matthew James "Matty" Pillion obituary, Naples, FL

Matthew Pillion Obituary

Matthew "Matty" James Pillion, beloved son of Margaret A. Pillion and the late James S. Pillion, passed away April 6, 2025, surrounded by his loving family. His passing leaves a deep ache in the hearts of his family and friends who loved him dearly and will miss him always.

Matt was a graduate of Glastonbury High School, Class of 1999, where he was co-captain of the soccer team and made many lifelong friends. He graduated summa cum laude from Quinnipiac University where he was awarded Best Senior Thesis. He worked in technology sales in several cities including Washington D.C., New York City, Boston, and Naples, Fla.

Matt was a man of deep feeling and immense charm. He was known for his sharp wit, his encyclopedic knowledge of history and politics and a contagious laugh and smile that touched everyone he knew.

Matt loved the beach and enjoyed fishing and boating in Black Point where he spent decades of memorable summers with his family and many childhood friends. Matt will be dearly missed but never forgotten by those that knew and loved him.

Besides his mother, he is survived by his sons, Griffin and Owen; and their mother Kerry Pillion, of Sudbury, Mass.; his sister Kate and husband Ryan Mertel of Portland and daughters, Caroline and Lauren; his brother Jed and wife Jessica Pillion and sons, Jack and Grady, of Stow, Mass.; his godfather Tom McMahon of Cypress, Calif.; and many aunts, uncles and cousins.

Services will be private and at the convenience of the family. In lieu of flowers, the family kindly requests donations be made in Matt's name to https://davidlawrencecenters.org/donate-now/our-donors/, David Lawrence Center, 6075 Bathey Lane, Naples, Fla. 34116.

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Published by The Day on Apr. 27, 2025.

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Barbara Sill Sandifer

May 9, 2025

I am deeply sadden to hear of Matty's passing -he was one of daughter's - Christine - dearest of friends in high school - he was one of the most polite and friendliest of fellows - always with a big smile. I can picture him at the senior prom fashion show - he was so handsome! I send all of you my deepest condolences. May he rest in peace.

Theresa (Sombric) Westgard

May 6, 2025

Such wonderful memories with your family. Getting Blizzards at Dairy Queen and spending time with your big sister Kate at Black Point. Favorite memory of you Matty was when you egged your own house after watching a Nickelodeon episode. Your Mom´s response in disbelief, priceless "Who eggs their own house Matty?". Hope you now rest in peace.

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Sabrina Dixon

April 30, 2025

Matt,
Thank you for being such a gentleman and so caring just like a big brother to all of us, I had some great times with you and learned a lot thanks so much for your great smile and laugh may you fly high and free love you brother.

Liliana hidalgo

April 30, 2025

Matt was an amazing guy , truly sweet and kind , we will miss yous so so much my friend.

John McMahon

April 30, 2025

I will always have the fondest memories of Matt. I´m thankful for the time we had together as kids and to be able to watch him become a man that always lit up the room when he came in. I´m so sorry, family, that we won´t have him with us on earth, but my prayers are with the Pillions that God comforts you and that you keep hope that we will see Matt again.

Larry Durham

April 28, 2025

I loved doing crosswords with Matt and just engaging in actual conversation. Highly intelligent and great sense of humor. I´ll miss you buddy. My condolences go out to your family.

A.P.

April 28, 2025

Matt's sharp wit and subtle humor made him unique among the people we worked with in D.C. Sending sincerest condolences to his family.

JoAnne Soules

April 27, 2025

Dear Kerry,
Sending sincere sympathy to you and the boys.
Love,
JoAnne and Harry

Bruce and Vivian

April 27, 2025

Although our friendship was short lived Matt was an extremely intelligent man with a great sense of humor and tremendous work ethic. He will be missed by many of us in Naples. May he rest in peace.

Virginia Cicolini

April 27, 2025

May his memories comfort you in the days ahead. My deepest sympathy to the entire family.
Ginny Cicolini

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