Oakdale - Nancy Carol Hess of Oakdale peacefully passed away at home Sunday, Sept. 20, 2020. Nancy was born a Christmas baby Dec. 25, 1948, in Lawrence, Mass. to Kenneth and Charlotte Burrows of Uncasville.

Her father predeceased her. Nancy is survived by her mother Charlotte; her husband Donald; her children, Craig Gronlund of Newington and Christy Magee (Gregory) of San Juan, P.R.; her stepchildren, Heidi Corey and Jessie Andrews (Craig) of Woodstock, Becky Billington of Danielson, and Gretchen Hess of Putnam; her brothers, Kenneth Burrows (Nancy) of North Stonington and John Burrows of Uncasville; and her grandchildren, Gavin, Meghan, Avery, and Kobey.

Nancy loved women's health and her circle of friends, especially the "Nancy's" and her nursing school classmates, Pauline, Jeanne, and Michel. She also adored her patients and dedicated herself to providing them access to quality health care. She graduated from Montville High School in the class of 1966, and she graduated from the Lawrence General Hospital nursing program with her Registered Nurse License. She joined planned parenthood as a clinician after they sponsored her for her A.P.R.N. Certification. She eventually worked her way up to clinical coordinator while getting her Bachelor of Science in Psychology at Eastern Connecticut State University. She later joined private practice and worked for the offices of gynecology and obstetrics in Hartford and then for Drs. Amdur and McKnight of New London. She retired in 2010 to help on the family farm, Valchris Farm.

Nancy enjoyed her time off, whether walking at 5 a.m. with her sister-in-law robin, or practicing yoga on the beach. She became a PADI certified diver to spend time underwater with her husband and son. She created beautiful memories on trips to Bonaire and little Cayman Islands. She enjoyed traveling, drinking wine in California, spending time cruising the rivers of Europe, and attending cooking school in Italy.

Her husband would like to thank the Helen & Harry Gray Cancer Center of Hartford, the Dana-Farber Cancer Institute, and especially the Center for Hospice Care in Norwich for their compassionate care.

A private service for family will be held at 11 a.m. Sunday, Sept. 27, at Woyasz and Son Funeral Home in Montville. A celebration of Nancy's life will take place at a future date. In lieu of flowers, please donate to the charity of your choice in her honor or to the patient care fund at the Center for Hospice Care in Norwich.

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Published by The Day on Sep. 24, 2020.

Memories and Condolences
for Nancy Hess

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16 Entries

Ron Marcolini

October 20, 2020

Don
So sorry that you lost such a beautiful and gracious partner. Her Facebook posts were always so positive.
I fondly remember an early class reunion. It was so nice to see you two just beginning your relationship.
Later, at the 2006 reunion picnic, you two were so happy in cordially hosting our class in your lovely and imaginative custom-built home. In your second career there as organic farmer, she told me that your work ethic inspired her to work hard to keep up with you!
Despite her condition in recent years, she continued to be the delightful, welcoming Nancy we all love so much. Bet you had much to do with that. We're so glad you both returned often to Florida. We so enjoyed visiting with Nancy and you down there back in 2015 [also the Silva's and Records'].
We all lost a welcoming classmate and warm friend with Nancy's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Ron and Pat Marcolini

Rebecca Gross

October 3, 2020

Don, I am so saddened to hear of Nancy's passing. Please accept my sincere condolences and know my thoughts are with you. With sorrow, Rebecca Bissonette Gross

Sue Awezec

Planted Trees

September 28, 2020

Nancy, when I think of you, I see your smile, hear your laughter, feel your hugs...and I am thankful that this warm, positive, courageous woman has called me her friend these many years. I will remember the life lessons you taught me and you will live on in my heart forever.

Barbara McCarthy

September 26, 2020

To Don and family,
I have no words to heal the loss but know I'm thinking of all of you during this sad time. Nancy was a sweet person and will be missed by many. Please know I care and am thinking and praying for you all . May God wrap His loving arms around you to help you through this difficult time.

September 25, 2020

Don and Family,
I was SO sorry to hear about Nancy's passing! She was a truly wonderful, caring, loving, kind and thoughtful lady!!!
Don, you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers!
Cheryl (Parker) Elmer

Sandra Calabro

September 25, 2020

Nancy was a beautiful, caring clinician that I was honored to work with. She made the world a better place. Sincere condolences to her family

Suzanne Guida

September 24, 2020

years ago when I volunteered in the Produce section at Fiddleheads Food Co-op in New London I remember eagerly anticipating the beautiful asparagus that Nancy and Don would bring from their Farm. It was the most beautiful asparagus ever; I can see it in my mind's eye. My condolences to Don and all the family.

Kent Ward

September 24, 2020

Don,
Our deepest sympathy for the loss of your wife and friend.
Leah and Kent

Sheila Carey

September 24, 2020

Nancy was a true friend; Ed and I so looked forward to Don and her yearly winter visits to Florida. H err light was bright and shining, and now, no less so....as she patiently (a great attribute of hers!) waits for us on the steps of heaven.

Anne Albee

September 24, 2020

Nancy was a wonderful mentor who became a true friend. Later, my personal HC provider. We shared ideals, stories and NP sisterhood and many great memories. Rest in peace, Nancy. And peace to Don and your entire family.

Liz (Malinowsky) Lambertson

September 24, 2020

Words are so hard to come by now, but the sadness at Nancy's passing is so deeply felt by all who were honored to share her bright light. She gave of herself, always, no matter what life chose to send her way. My heart goes out to Don and the family.

mike kobelski

September 24, 2020

My condolences to Don and Family She Nancy was a cheerful Lady may you rest in peace

Maureen Robertson

September 24, 2020

I'm saddened to see the passing of Nancy. I was a patient of Nancy's for many years in Hartford. I absolutely loved her and was sad when she left Hartford. I was always amazed when she would check in with me on personal things. How the heck did she remember those things about me when she had so many patients? She must of taken the time to write personal notes to herself to pick up where we left off during the next visit. She was the best!!

Pamela Livingston

September 24, 2020

Nancy was a beautiful person inside and out. I very sad to hear this news.
I will always remember her joy, kindness humor and friendship. With deepest sympathy

Lyle FLECK

September 24, 2020

I am greatly saddened by the news of Nancy's passing. I became Wayne GRONLUND's diving partner and met Nancy, Craig and Christie while attending the U.S. Coast Guard Academy in New London, CT I spent many weekends at their home as a cadet. The world has lost a very bright and shining light of such a fine person. My sympathy and condolences to her family for their loss.

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