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Nicholas Polites Obituary
"Nick" was the beloved son of Darlene Tashea of Waterford and James Polites of Scranton, Pa.
He will be remembered for his deep and heartfelt discussions about life and God and for his incredible talent as a self-taught musician, specializing in guitar and piano. Nick was also known for his amazing artistic ability, both in drafting and drawing. He loved fishing, friends and family most.
Survivors include his beloved little brother, Matthew Tashea, and his step-father, Todd Tashea, both of Waterford; his aunt and uncle, Lenette and Eric Strong of New London; cousins who loved him dearly, Kevin and Katie DiMaggio and Kayla Strong, all of New London; and his dearly loved "Nana" of Groton; many aunts, uncles, cousins, and true friends.
A memorial service celebrating his life will be held at 12 p.m. on Saturday, Oct. 6, 2007, at the Groton Bible Chapel, Toll Gate Road, Groton. All family, friends, and acquaintances are invited to attend. Nick's family also invites you to view and sign an online condolence book at Legacy.com.
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Memories and Condolences
for Nicholas Polites
Catherine Mosher
October 19, 2007
Nick and I grew up together ever since we were 5 years old.I remember all of the things we used to do together,going down to the park in Bel Aire where we used to live. He tried to teach me how to play the gutiar,we used to listen to music,and I would always admire all of the drawings that he used to do, it was an unbelievable talent.And as all kids do we used to get in trouble together for not listening to our parents, and not coming home when the street lights would come on.I even still have the scar over my left eye when Nick and i thought it would be a good idea to throw sticks into the trees out front and watch the hellicopters come down. Unfortunally the stick also came right down into my eye.Lol. I learned my lesson the hard way.Darlene, you were like another mother to me, and a really great role model, and friend.Todd I also remember you but unfortuantlly we didnt have the time to get to know each other that well, I wish we had the time to do so.I want to say that I am schocked and very upset to hear this happened, I just lost my childhood bestfriend.I had never heard from Nick again when he moved away from me, but I had always wondered how he was, and what was he doing.I am so sorry that this tragity had to happen to someone with such a big heart and so many self tought talents,and a really good friend.I know we all move on to a better place and I know that he is surrounded with people that love him as much as i did, and we all do.Rest in peace my friend, and God bless you and your family,and God help overcome the pain,hurt,and loss of Nick,someone we all truly loved.I love you Nicky, and you will always be in my heartand prayers. Love always, Cathy.
Darlene
October 10, 2007
We watched the stars under the night sky...
We talked about God's love...
We told eachother "I love You!"
I'll see you soon my beautiful son.
I love you so so so much.
Mommy
Nick's Little Brother Matthew
October 7, 2007
I love you Nicky.
You give me hugs and kisses.
I miss you Nicky.
You have nice day in Heaven.
Love,
Matthew
Lisa Collins
October 4, 2007
There are no words I can think of to express my sympathy for all of you during this time. I feel blessed to have gotten the chance to meet all of you and ask for Gods perfect peace to surround all of you like a blanket as you move on through this difficult time. You are and will remain in my prayers.
Tami and Brian Umland
October 2, 2007
Darlene, Todd and Matthew,
We are so sorry for your loss. You are in our prayers as you walk along this path of processing and understanding God in with a new perspective.
Cristian Balarezo
October 2, 2007
Darlene, Todd and Matthew:
We are very sorry for your loss. All of our love, thoughts and prayers are with your family during this difficult time.
Love, The Balarezo Family
(Cristian, Libby, Juliana and Madalyn)
Anitra Jamila
October 1, 2007
Earth has no sorrow that Heaven can not Heal. My prayers and love are with you in your time of sorrow. May the Lord Jesus who is the Prince of Peace...grant you Peace that surpasses all understanding. May God bless and keep you.
Barbara Montgomery
October 1, 2007
Darlene, Todd and Matt,
We fondly remember "Nicky" as a sweet, caring boy. Our thoughts and sympathy are with you.
Alice Manville
October 1, 2007
Darlene & Todd,
My heart goes out to you! I can't even begin to imagine what you are going though. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Kate O'neil
September 30, 2007
To Darlene, Todd,& Matt;
I'm so sorry for your loss. I have never dealt with death for someone so close. But I can imagine the immense pain you must be feeling, and say that if there is anything I can do to help in any way, Please let me know.
Love Kate
Esther
September 30, 2007
I will always remember Nick for his love of nature and the arts. To Nick's loved ones: You are in my heart and my prayers.
Melissa Malinoski
September 30, 2007
Nick,
I never had the chance to meet you, but i wish i did i've heard so many great things about you. I also know you were loved beyond belief by many especially your mom Darlene, shes is a great person and i love her to death, i'm very lucky to have her as a sister-in-law, her words are so precious, and her love is so strong.Just know you will be missed. Sometimes the good die young. Your in a better place , and one day i'll see you there,
Melissa
Spiridon Vitos
September 30, 2007
I was in the Royal Hellenic Navy with Nikolas Polites.(1956-1966)
Any relation ?
"God Bless Him "
S.V.
Brotherly Love Summer 2005
September 30, 2007
Summer 2006
Mom
September 30, 2007
Darlene
September 30, 2007
"...In Christ there are no goodbyes
In Christ, there is no end,
So we'll hold on to Jesus
with all that we have,
To see you again..."
Cherished and loved always
Mommy, Matthew and Todd
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