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Paul Hill

1954 - 2023

BORN

1954

DIED

2023

Paul Hill Obituary

Groton - With deep sorrow, the Hill/Cote family announce the recent passing of our brother Paul after a long struggle with the disease of alcoholism. Let there be no blame or judgement. He was a kind and sensitive soul with a terrible illness.

Paul was the youngest of four Hill children, born in Westerly, R.I., Jan. 18, 1954, to the late Fred and Ida Hill. He grew up in North Stonington and was a student at Wheeler Schools and Norwich Free Academy. In high school he shone quietly as a cross country star and in his senior year was one of the team captains. At UConn he majored in Chemistry and went on to have a long career as a chemist at Pfizer in Groton.

Paul was a scientist who also loved biology and botany. He especially liked growing dahlias and primroses. He was a fisherman from an early age, learning from our dad, Fred Hill. Like Fred, he was passionate about trout fishing, tramping into the woods alone, enjoying the silence and peace he found there. He loved animals, especially cats and owned several during his life, including Princess, Ketha, Titan, and Mia, a stray he rescued from a snowstorm.

Paul was a man of few words, but he was the funniest one in our family with a quick dry wit he maintained until the end. He was tall and handsome, athletic and fun. This is how we'll remember him.

He leaves behind his sisters, Kathie Cote and Barbara Hill; his brothers, Brian Hill, Hilaire Cote, and Jimmy Kloczko. He was close to his nephews Adam Cote and wife Susan, Steve Cote, and the late Samuel Cote. He had life-long friends who will miss him along with his family.

There will be no calling hours. All are welcome to join us at a service of remembrance at 11 a.m. Saturday Nov. 4, at the First Baptist Church of North Stonington, 793 Pendleton Hill Road. Burial will be handled by the Cremation Society of Connecticut.

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Published by The Day on Nov. 2, 2023.

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Lori J Crandall

November 28, 2023

I was so sorry to hear of Paul's passing. I got to know him,through giving him haircut's over the years. He was very sweet and kind, I will miss seeing him.

Michael Castaldi

November 8, 2023

so sorry to hear about my great friend Paul aka Chief. keeping him and family in our prayers in Pennsylvania

Mary Gorton

November 5, 2023

You brother sounds much like my own brother. I appreciate the way you wrote this obituary. I am sorry for your loss.

Mick Mahoney

November 5, 2023

So sorry to hear of Paul's passing...our cross-country teams competed against each other in high school where his running talent was impressive...in subsequent years I came to know Paul as a guy with a kind heart who often shared his wry humor and insights....RIP, Chief.

Sylvia

November 4, 2023

Paul, you are safe in my heart.
Sylvia

John Devine

November 4, 2023

Chief !!!!

Barbara Sitter

November 3, 2023

I worked with Paul at Pfizer and remember him as a kind soul. Rest in peace, Paul.

David B Damon

November 3, 2023

I have fond memories of working with Paul on projects at Pfizer. He was a kind and thoughtful coworker. I remember too many times standing on the 18th tee at Shenny and seeing Paul in his retirement years working on his gardens. Rest in peace, Paul.

Ronnie Whitcomb

November 3, 2023

Paul, it was a pleasure and honor to know you and laugh with you. I will remember your wit and kind heart. My heartfelt love to family and friends. I thought of you as my brother. Good night sweet soul.

Maureen Bjorkland

November 2, 2023

I remember Paul as a quiet but witty man with the ability to make me smile every time. Rest in peace, Paul
Maureen Crofts Bjorkland

Wes Clark

November 2, 2023

I am so sorry to hear about Paul´s passing. I got to know him well from my days working at the Par 4 restaurant. He was a good customer and became a friend. Paul had a great sense of humor and a kind heart. I have so many fond memories of Paul. I pray the Lord Blesses his family and his many friend with the comfort and peace they need at this time.

Merja Helen Lehtinen

November 2, 2023

Paul is a gentleman and kind soul always willing to lend his strength and heart. My deepest condolences to.his family.

Rick Cedrone

November 1, 2023

Hey,Paul. We had some fun times growing up. Great times fishing,hunting and just goofing off. Myself and all our friends will always have fond memories of you. Be at peace now brother. Ricky

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