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1946
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2022
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Raymond Gray Obituary
He was born in West Lebanon, N.H., Sept. 27, 1946, the son of Raymond Jessie Gray and Ruby Kimbel Gray. He was the husband of Cynthia Tuplin Gray who survives him. He was predeceased by his first wife Edwina Gray in 2007.
Mr. Gray was employed by the Coca Cola Bottling Company as a driver for 49 years.
In addition to his wife Cynthia, he is survived by a stepson Howard Kocol; daughter Pauline Cole; sisters, Deborah Evans and Cheryl Farar; three grandchildren. He was predeceased by a daughter Mary Catherine Gray and two brothers.
Calling hours are from 5 to 7 p.m. Monday, Jan. 9, 2023, at the Thomas L. Neilan & Sons Funeral Home, 12 Ocean Ave., New London. There will be a service during the calling hours at 5:30 p.m. A celebration of Ray's life will be held from 1 to 5 p.m. Saturday, Jan. 14, at the Waterford VFW. Condolences may be shared on Ray's memorial page at www.neilanfuneralhome.com.
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Memories and Condolences
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Art Ryone
January 9, 2023
Rest in Peace my friend. I am so proud and honored to have spent 45 years working alongside you. One of the best drivers to have ever worked at Coca Cola New London. Art Ryone
Ann Engelhardt
January 9, 2023
So very sorry for your loss. Ray will be missed. Prayers to all. Ann Engelhardt
Jeanette
January 7, 2023
Mr. Ray gray. You'll be missed.What a great man. Thank you for being there for me andvmy family. You we're just so kind and loving. We'll miss you so much. Ipray for you're family and wife to protect them n heal their hearts. Love always s.i.p.
Kimberly Burkhalter
January 7, 2023
Uncle Ray I miss you everyday! I miss our talks that we shared! I'm going miss the joking around!
I promise we will take care of Aunt Cindy!
You are angel watching us from above, until we meet again love you always
Bonnie Jurzyk
January 7, 2023
Uncle Ray I Miss You And Your Funny Conversations We Had And You Wearing Shorts In The Winter Time And I'm So Glad That You Got To Meet My Daughter At McDonald's For Her First Birthday Fly High Beautiful Angel And Continue To Watch Over Everybody Till We Meet Again Love And Miss You ....
Jim Shake
January 7, 2023
Another legend gone too soon. There was nobody that ever opened a store receiving door in Southeastern CT that didn't know Ray. He was known and loved be all that were fortunate enough to get to know him. A big, gregarious guy that worked hard and always had a smile on his face. My condolences go out to all of Ray's family and friends. Go in peace Ray, God Bless.
Tonya Souza
January 6, 2023
My uncle words can´t even begin to say how much you are going to be missed and how lucky god is to get an angel like you. I can´t thank you enough for all you have done for us. I will always cherish all the wonderful memories we have and I love you with all my heart. Say hi to everyone and don´t worry we´ll be here to help Miss Cindy through this. Until we meet again keep riding with the angels
Tiffany
January 5, 2023
Ray! All the memories of the girls waving to you as you would beep and wave to them! You sure did know how to brighten someone´s day even in the smallest ways. Cindy my heart is with you. Ray I know you´re in your glory!
Ellie Rix-Greczkowski
January 5, 2023
Ray,
Rest in peace and enjoy your reunion with loved one who went on before you into eternal life. You have such a kind and gentle soul and will be greatly missed ~ love you ~ Cousin
Toni Grillo
January 5, 2023
The family of Ray.
Ray was the nicest and kindest man. He was such a gentleman to all.
Heaven has gained another angel.
R.I.P. Ray.
Toni Grillo
cynthia marie gray
January 4, 2023
My loving husband I know your safe, God has you in his loving hands and is protecting you from any pain and I miss you and love you with all my heart and soul.
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