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Richard Alan Kay

1965 - 2023

BORN

1965

DIED

2023

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Richard Kay Obituary

Mystic - Richard Alan Kay, 57, died Feb. 16, 2023, in Westerly, R.I. The youngest son of the late John Edward and Martha Fern Mikesell Kay, Richard was born in New London and raised in Groton.

Besides his parents, Richard was predeceased by his brother Larry (2018); and three sisters, Sherry (2005), Kathy (2007) and Verona (2017).

Richard is survived by his companion Elizabeth Brodeur of New London; two brothers, John J. Kay (Cheryl) of Groton and Gregory W. Kay (Dorothy) of Westerly, R.I. He is also survived by two sisters, Paulette Shirley of Groton and Lisa Swigart (James) of Dalton, Mass.; as well as many nieces and nephews.

Please see Richard's full obituary at devanny-condron.com.
Published by The Day on Feb. 21, 2023.

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Russell Lamon

March 14, 2023

Just learned that my childhood friend passed. Rich was a good spirit. My best to the family. Found this picture of Rich, sometime in the mid 1980's this was taken. We used to go canoeing on lakes all kinds of adventures early on there. He was always smiling.

Keith and Sharon Marsie

February 23, 2023

Sincerest Condolences.

Sheryl L Ilvento

February 23, 2023

Richard was my best friend when we were little we did everything together my sincere condolences go out to the family which I also knew because I spent half my life in the Kay household. I haven't seen Rich in yrs but you never forget your first best friend and I will remember him miss him and think about him in my heart always .R.I.P. besties

Sheryl Ilvento

February 22, 2023

I am shocked and sorry to here about Richard my best friend when we were little we did everything together my sincere sympathy goes out to his family which I also knew all of them from spending half my childhood in the Kay house , I haven't seen him in years but have never forgot him either im sorry I cant attend the funeral if it was local I would be there my deepest condolences

Beckloff Family

February 22, 2023

Elizabeth and Family, our family is truly sorry for your loss, Richard was, is and always will be known as a good man with a big heart. We are thankful to have known him.

Alfred P Mayo

February 22, 2023

The Mayo's want to send our condolences to the Kay's Families who we all knew growing up.

Maryann (Mary) Beckloff

February 21, 2023

Rich was one of my neighbors when I was growing up - he was one of the sweetest people in our area! He was always telling us jokes, if we were outside in the summer having water gun fights he would join in with us. Rich is going to be by all who knew him. My thoughts, prayers, love and condolences are with Elizabeth and the rest of Rich's family during this time.

Devanny-Condron Funeral Home

February 21, 2023

We wanted you to know how much we care. Please know that we are here for you.

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