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Robert Firmin Obituary
Robert was born on Oct. 30, 1955, in New London, to Robert Firmin Sr. and Mary Firmin.
A Celebration of Life will be held at 3 p.m. on Thursday, July 7, 2016, at Ocean Beach, Port N Starboard, 1225 Ocean Ave., New London, CT 06320.
Please see Tuesday's edition of The Day for a full obituary.
Fulton-Theroux Funeral Home is handling the arrangements.
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Gary & Mary Sherman
July 31, 2016
Sorry For your loss,My Heart goes out to Jeff, and the rest of the family. I knew Bob ever since I was a child (Firmin's Family friends)
Barbara Thomas
July 27, 2016
To the Firmin family ,
My prayers and thoughts are with you all at the difficult time. Bob was such a likable guy and he will be sadly missed by everyone who he touched through his life..
God Bless
Barbara Thomas
Tri State Tournament 2013
Wes Firmin
July 22, 2016
Fathers Day 2016
Wes Firmin
July 22, 2016
Columbus Day 2015 Mahi
Wes Firmin
July 22, 2016
All 3 Robert W Firmin's
Wes Firmin
July 22, 2016
Grampy with Reese on the day she was born
Wes Firmin
July 22, 2016
Tri State 2013
Wes Firmin
July 22, 2016
Columbus Day 2015 Mahi Mahi
Wes Firmin
July 22, 2016
July 8, 2016
Wes,
so sorry to read about your loss. thoughts and prayers to you and your family
freddy levesque
Bob & Sara Hjort
July 7, 2016
To The Firmin Family :
Words cannot express our deepest sorrow for your loss. I feel incredibly touched by having had the chance to know Bob and the entire family. Bob always had that endless smile, words of wisdom, the Faith and the knowledge that few others had. He was true to word and convictions, never wavering, compassionate and very thankful of his wonderful family. Bob always made you feel at ease even in the most challenging situations. Rest Peacefully my friend, Enjoy the fishing ! Keep smiling !
Diane Hillyer
July 7, 2016
Dear Eileen, Wes,Nicole, Lauren ,Mike and extended family and grandchildren, Our hearts feel empty trying to wrap our heads around how we will all move forward without Bob being a part of our circle of family and friendship ~ We are grieving his loss with you all but will continue to keep his memory larger than life which is what Bob would want us all to do ~ Sending you love and hugs always as we celebrate the amazing "Bobby Bear" A one of a kind irreplaceable man that has given us a lifetime of memories to hold on to ~ We Love and Miss You Bob ❤❤❤ XO
Scott Fulton
July 7, 2016
As far a local families and businesses are concerned, especially in the East Lyme area, I can't begin to express my sincerest sympathies for your loss - on a personal and professional note, the Firmin family is, and always has been amazing. Losing Bob is a great tragedy, he has taught us all many wonderful lessons - I know his memory will live on with great pride and love.
Gladstone Family
July 7, 2016
Wishing the family our heartfelt sympathy. You are in our thoughts and prayers
July 6, 2016
Eileen and family, we are so sorry to hear the news. When we think of Bob we instantly see a smiling face. Whenever we saw him he was smiling. He was such a happy man living life to the fullest. He was so proud of his family. We know you are feeling such deep sorrow but because of the man he was and the life he lived there will be a time when you think of him and be at peace and smile his smile again.
Thinking of you all,
The Roselund Family
Glenn Olsen
July 6, 2016
Our prayers are with your family. I bet he has his fishing poles in heaven with my brother Carl and their friend Richard.
Phyllis Pezzolesi
July 6, 2016
To the family of bobby so sorry for your loss he was such a great guy
July 6, 2016
Wes and Family
Our deepest sympathies for you and your family at this time. Your thoughts will be in our prayers.
Dean and Shauna Nocery
Alison (Czelusniak) Bradshaw
July 6, 2016
Wes, Eileen, Nicole, Mike & Lauren,
I am so sorry to hear of Bob's passing. I was always very fond of him, and know that he will be missed by all who knew him. Thinking of you all during this extremely difficult time.
With deepest sympathy,
Alison
July 6, 2016
Our deepest sympathies to the Firman family. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Bob will be missed . Terri and Lionel Gelinas
Richard LaPorta
July 6, 2016
Bob and I have been friends since high school and I have been his customer since 1980. His service is always excellent (I wish I had more vendors like Bob). I enjoyed talking with Bob about our families, his boating and FL trips; as well as working with his wife Eileen and and sons Wes and Mike. His spirit and ethics will be missed.
Carol
July 6, 2016
Such a Wonderful man gone too soon. Genuine, caring, generous soul. No matter how busy Bob was, he always had time to chat. Bob will surely be missed.
The Byrne Family,
John, Carol, Ian
Jeanine Braun
July 6, 2016
Eileen and family - we're so sorry to hear about Bobby. So many memories of good times over the years and at the Cape, with all the "boys" hoisting a beer and having so many laughs. Donny and my Dad loved spending time with Bobby, and always remembered great stories of all-nighters out on the deck of the boat searching for tuna, car shows, and plenty of fish stories.
He will be sorely missed, but try to focus on the great memories of a genuinely wonderful guy...he's looking down now with Donny, Poppy, Jimmy Stevens, Dick H, and his Dad toasting us all and sending his love...
Love, Jean and Jeanine Braun.
mary anne Alfieri
July 6, 2016
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998
American Heart Association
July 5, 2016
May your memories of the wonderful times you shared with your loved one comfort you and your family, today and always.
July 5, 2016
There really are no words... Praying for all of you. Deb and Moe Grenier
Pam Thompson
July 5, 2016
I'm so sorry about his passing, he was sooo good to my dad, and made it a point to attend my dad's funeral after a tough morning at work. I will always remember what he said to me that day. I will always remember him.
Dwayne
July 5, 2016
I always looked forward to seeing Bob in the gym. His positive outlook made an impact on me and others he talked with. He found something good in every situation. An awesome guy that will be missed.
Dana Barry
July 5, 2016
Eileen,Wes, Nicole, Mike,and Lauren,
I am so sorry about the passing of your husband and father. He was and will always be an amazing Man. You guys were the family my dad and I never had. We spent so many amazing times together which I will always cherish. Thank you for letting me be part of such a warm and caring family. Bob will be truly missed and never forgotten. You guys will always be in my heart.
Love Dana
Paula Broughton
July 5, 2016
I am so very sorry to hear of Bob's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this sorrowful time.
Stephen & Susan Besade
July 5, 2016
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.
Lauri Meitzler Canales
July 5, 2016
I am so sorry to hear of Bob's passing. We were neighbors growing up, but our families lost touch when we moved away. What a beautiful write-up on his life and loves. My heartfelt condolences to the whole family. - Lauri (Meitzler) Canales
Donna Levanti - Rix
July 5, 2016
Eileen and family,
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you in this difficult time.
Donna Rix
Pati Ferguson Dawes
July 5, 2016
Simply amazing man. Kind, generous and genuine. Let's not forget, Fun loving. My most deepest sympathies to the entire Firmin family, especially Eileen, children and grandchildren.
Mary Ellen Leone
July 5, 2016
I am so sorry for your loss Eileen & Wes. Also to the rest of your family, I know how much he will be missed.
July 5, 2016
To the Firmin Family,
We were very sorry to hear of Bobs passing.Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
All of us at NAPA
PARTS,WATERFORD
Paul and Kim Hurlock
July 5, 2016
To the Firmin Family,
We are so sorry to hear of the loss of Bob. He and his family are well known in Niantic and have helped out many throughout the years.
We hope your memories are held close and this very difficult time. Our condolences to the entire family.
July 5, 2016
Bob I will certainly miss you. You were the best. Love you Aunt Jean
John & Nancy McKim
July 5, 2016
We were so terribly sorry to hear about Bob's passing. He will always be kept alive in your hearts and minds, and he will continue to live on through all of you. Please know that you are remembered in our thoughts and prayers.
Barbara Burns
July 5, 2016
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Laurie and Bob McGrath
July 5, 2016
To the Firmin Family, especially Eileen and Mike. We are so sorry for your loss. There are no words. No one has ever made us feel as welcomed or valued as customers as Bob and Eileen Firmin. We lost a Dear Friend and Heaven wins again. For all the care, for all the help and for all the pep talks, we cherish You and talk of you often. Two years ago when our latest relic of a camper couldn't make it to Hammonassett from our home in Clinton we had it towed to Firmins once again, because he was the only one that could and would fix it. Bob spent two days On fixing it without it costing a fortune, because none of his work ever did. He saved our vacation and he showed what caring about People is all about. He always made me feel safe, in this world That is priceless. You have raised your family with wonderful values and Love, that will help them carry on. Until we meet again Bob. Love, Laurie and Bob McGrath
Bob in Alaska 2014
Greg Schaller
July 5, 2016
James Chambers
July 5, 2016
So sorry to hear Firmin family. Bob was a great guy and we really enjoyed knowing him. Please accept our condolences.
The Chambers family
Mary Anne Alfieri
July 5, 2016
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998
Paul and Pat Kelbaugh
July 5, 2016
Our heartfelt sympathy. He was a great guy and we'll miss him.
John&Linda Banta
July 5, 2016
John and I were very saddened to hear of Bobs Passing. Our condolences to the all of the Firmin Family.
July 5, 2016
Eileen and Family: Sincerest sympathy for the loss of such a beautiful, friendly and loving man.
God Bless.
The Hosmer Family
July 5, 2016
DEEPEST SYMPATHY WES, MIKE AND FAMILY. THE ROMANO FAMILY.
John and Allison Hislop
July 5, 2016
Eileen and family, John and I send our deepest sympathy. Bob was a very kind man. He will be dearly missed by all who knew him.
David Czelusniak
July 5, 2016
Thoughts and prayers with you all...so sorry for your loss.
Barbara Cane
July 5, 2016
My sincere condolences to the Firmin family. I am so sorry for your loss.
Michael Porretta
July 5, 2016
My Dear sweet cousin Eileen and to all of your children I am so sorry for your loss of Bob he was a very good friend and always very good person the LI sound will miss his very much I love you all so very much and will see you Thursday ,be strong Eileen love cousin Mike
Linda (Younger) Walker
July 5, 2016
I am so very sorry to all of Bob's family and friends for the loss of such an amazing man. He was truly one of the best and will be greatly missed. He was full of life and it was an honor to have known him. Keeping Eileen and his loving family in my thoughts and prayers during this most difficult time.
David & Debbie (Mostowy) Dunning
Debbie (Mostowy) Dunning
July 4, 2016
Eileen, Wes, Nicole, Lauren, & Michael,
Our deepest condolences on the passing of your husband, father, grandfather & one of my favorite classmates (ELHS'73).
A na ke aloha e hola mai i ka eha a hoolana ae i ka manao.
(May love and compassion heal the hurt and uplift the heart.)
Love, Hugs & Aloha Spirit to the Firmin Family
Nancy Conley Darrow
July 4, 2016
Eileen and family, I am so sorry about Bob's passing. He was a good man. I haven't seen you guys in a while but just know that I will be thinking about and praying for all of you. Love, Nancy
Arlan Keefe
July 4, 2016
Tom and I would like to extend our condolences to everyone in the Firmin family on the passing of your husband and father. Such a loss for your family and our community....may you all find comfort in each other and the wonderful memories you share...
Gary Bergeson
July 4, 2016
My thoughts and prayers go out to the Firmin Family, I am deeply sorry for your loss
Patty Gates
July 4, 2016
Eileen and family so sorry for your loss. I went to school with Bob from Elementary through High School. Prayer for family and friends, may he Rest In Peace. Continue to share your memories it does.....
Bill & Beanie Simons
July 4, 2016
More than once Bob insisted I take the "Rolls Royce". Thanks for always being there for us Bob, Rest in Peace.
Our condolences to Eileen, Wes, Nicole, Lauren and Michael.
Jerilyn Duefrene
July 4, 2016
I am so very sorry to hear of Bob's passing. I will keep the entire Firmin family in my thoughts and prayers. Godspeed Robert W. Firmin.....
Susan Morris
July 4, 2016
Such a sad time for our whole family.We are so very sad by my brother Bob's and my Uncle Bobs passing.Such a great loss to everyone.
Love Sue and Justina
Tom&Mary Mason
July 4, 2016
Our deepest condolences to the wonderful family of Bob Firmin, so sad to here this tragic news ,and pray God will keep you all safe and comfort you in this time of need.
Steve & Deidre Baker
July 4, 2016
Bob was the most honest mechanic in the area. Worked with him many times when he would respond to accidents. We will miss him. Our best to his family. He is now on his final cruise.
Jim & Gail Coleman
July 4, 2016
We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.
Sharon Reagan
July 4, 2016
Eileen and family, So very sorry to hear about Bob.My deepest sympathy to you and your family.He had a HEART of GOLD.God must have needed another angel. Or he would not have called him back home.you have all of the wonderful memories,you and he shared together.He was a KEEPER.....
July 4, 2016
Bob and I were in the same High School class at ELHS and he was a great guy. My children knew his son Wes and probably his other children, and always had nice things to say about them. My thoughts go out to the family at this difficult time....cherish the time you had him with you.
Jane Simmons Marolda, Salem, CT
Mary O'Brien
July 4, 2016
It was with such sadness that we heard about our neighbor's death . Bob will be so missed by us as we lived below him in Naples. We always enjoyed seeing him go up and down the stairs , always stopping to chat a moment. We know how much he enjoyed life , especially how proud he was of his family .Eileen, our deepest sympathy goes out to you and your family . We cant even imagine how Mary is doing and all of you . Keep all the memories of this special man close to your hear. Mary and Mark O'Brien ( Naples Fl )
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