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Stonington - Rudolph J. Schaefer III, of Stonington and Key Largo, Fla., died Friday, June 10, 2011, in his home, surrounded by his loving family.

Mr. Schaefer was born on Aug. 29, 1930 in New York City to Rudolph Jay Schaefer Jr. and Lucia (Moran) Schaefer.

Rudie attended the Rye Country Day School, Choate, Washington and Lee and graduated from Hofstra University with a bachelor of business administration. Rudie also attended the Harvard Business School PMD Management Program.

After graduation, Rudie enlisted in the Navy in June, 1952. He served active duty aboard the USS MacGowen DD678 from 1953 to 1957 in the Middle East, attaining the rank of lieutenant JG. He remained in the Naval Reserves until 1969.

Rudie married Jane A. Isdale of New Rochelle, N.Y. at St. John's Episcopal Church in Larchmont, N.Y. in 1956.

Joining the F&M Schaefer Brewing Co. in 1957, he later served as president of the brewery from 1972 to 1975. His great-grandfather founded the F&M Schaefer Brewing Company in 1842.

Mr. Schaefer was involved, and worked on many boards throughout his life. He was vice president and board member of the New York School For The Deaf, board member of the United Hospital in Port Chester N.Y., the New Rochelle Hospital as well as L&M Hospital in New London. Rudie was also a board member of the Lincoln Savings Bank and the New London Savings Bank.

A philanthropist throughout his life, Rudie was especially proud of his work with the Mystic Seaport, serving as a trustee in 1975 and later president and chairman of the board from 1983 to 1989.

His love of the sea and yachting, sparked a life long interest in marine art. He was very proactive in supporting many aspiring marine artists. Rudie was instrumental in building the Mystic Maritime Art Gallery at the Mystic Seaport in honor of his father, Rudolph J. Schaefer Jr.

Mr. Schaefer was actively involved in many clubs and organizations including the Cruising Club of America, founder of the Stonington Country Club, Stonington Harbor Yacht Club, Ocean Reef Club, member and commodore of the Key Largo Anglers Club, New York Yacht Club. Former memberships include the American Yacht Club, Larchmont Yacht Club and the Shelter Island Yacht Club.

Rudie is survived by his wife, Jane; son, Rudolph J Schaefer IV; daughters, Martha H. Schaefer, Edmee S. Zahringer, Lucia S. Chase, Greta J. Schaefer; son-in-laws, Charles J. Zahringer and Mark M. Chase. Mr. Schaefer is also survived by his eleven grand children, Alexandra M. Schaefer, Rudolph J. Schaefer V, Helena K. Schaefer, Janie K. Schaefer, Lucia M. Zahringer, Charles J. Zahringer Jr.,Graham H. Zahringer, Kylie S. Zahringer, Frederick J. Zahringer, Max M. Chase, Dylan J. Chase. He is survived by his stepmother, Janet Udall Schaefer; brother, William M Schaefer; and sister, Edmee S. Combs.

He is predeceased by his sister, Lucy S. Pedersen; and daughter, Anne E Schaefer.

A Service will be held at 11 a.m., Thursday, June 16, 2011, at the Calvary Episcopal Church, 27 Church St., Stonington.

In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to Mystic Seaport, P.O. Box 6000, 75 Greenmanville Ave., Mystic, CT 06355 or Hospice Southeastern Connecticut, 227 Dunham St., Norwich, CT 06360.

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Published by The Day on Jun. 12, 2011.

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Barbara Gallagher

June 23, 2011

Dear Jane ~ You have my deepest sympathies and my thoughts. All of us had so much fun at the Seaport. Rudy will be missed.
Fondly,
Barbara Gallagher

gail delgado

June 20, 2011

Dear Jane and Family
My deepest sympathy to you and your family. Rudy will be missed - he always brought a smile and laughter with his wonderful humor . My prayers are with you.

Sharon Wimmer

June 16, 2011

Our deepest sympathies to all the Schaefer family. Everyone at Rhythm has you in their thoughts and prayers. Love to you all, may you find comfort and strength in the arms of each other.
Sharon, Cat, Leslie and everyone at Rhythm Cafe

June 15, 2011

Dear Schaefer Family-

Thoughts

Colleen D.

June 14, 2011

I had the pleasure of meeting Mr. Schaefer when I worked for an office in Mystic years ago. He was one of the loveliest, most down-to-earth, and gracious people you could ever hope to meet. I have never forgotten that. Just a true class act. Rest in peace, Sir.

Ron Brissette

June 14, 2011

To my dear friends Marcus,Lu, Grets and Mar, so sorry for the loss of your dad.
Our deepest sympathies to you and the rest of your family.
Ronnie & Susan

June 14, 2011

Dear Jane and family.
My thoughts and prayers are with you at this sad time.
We had lots of great laughs over the years.
May Rudy rest in peace.
Oren

Nancy & Russell Eaves

June 13, 2011

Rudie will be sorely missed, he had such an infectious smile, humor, wit & warmth about him. Our thoughts & prayers are with the family during this difficult time.

Commodore's Weekend 2005

Carol & Ted Ellis

June 13, 2011

Dear Jane and family, Another good friend has left us. Rudy kept alive memories of sailing on the Schooner Yacht America. Smooth sailing Rudy. With our deepest sympathies, Carol and Ted Ellis

Eileen Mullray

June 13, 2011

Dear Jane and family
We are so sorry for your loss. It has been a tough year or two.
My fond memories are of Rudie playing the drums at the Angler's club. Eileen and Dan Mullray

Brian KIrkpatrick

June 13, 2011

jane and family, saddened to hear of rudies passing. he had so much energy he could light up a room. i can picture stu is waiting with a fishing rod in hand.

David Bosworth

June 13, 2011

So Sorry to hear of Rudie's passing. A true gentleman and a man of good humor and passion for fine art. We'll miss his gentle nature and his keen eye. My condolences to the family.
David Bosworth

Susan Stone

June 12, 2011

So sorry to hear about Rudie's passing. I knew him through the Seaport gallery when I worked there. My deepest sympathies to Jane and the family.

June 12, 2011

Dear Jane & Family . Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Rudy was a true friend to all who knew him . We must remember " It is Life to Life " ! and we will miss his joyful friendship.
With our deepest condolences .

Richard & Eloise Herriott

Denise Scarnati

June 12, 2011

To the Schaefer Family,

We were saddened to hear of Rudy's passing .His smile always led the way wherever he went, and the jokes and stories always followed. Nothing made him happier then telling stories about his beautiful family. We will miss seeing him around town. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

The Scarnati Family

Diane Buhr

June 12, 2011

We were so sorry to hear of Rudie's passing. Greta, you and your family have our deepest condolences.
Diane and Marv

June 12, 2011

Dear Jane and family,
Rudie was a highly resepcted and valued member of Lincoln's Board of Trustees. On behalf of all those who knew and worked with him in Brooklyn please accept our condolances.
The Lincoln 20yr + Alumni Club.

June 12, 2011

Uncle Rudie made everyone feel special. He called all the boys "Gov" . He always had terrific stories. I am deeply saddened with his passing. I am blessed to have him as my uncle.

My heart aches for the Schaefer Family. -Tommy Combs

June 12, 2011

We are so sorry to lose a good friend, good neighbor, fine citizen. We'll miss him - his solid, happy, generous aura. Our prayers and empathy are with you Jane and all the family. Shelley & Bill

Shannon Deperry

June 12, 2011

Dear Jane and Family, So very saddened to here of Rudie's passing. He is one of my very favorite people. His infectious smile and quick wit always brought a smile to those around him. Hold your memories close to your heart they will comfort you. Now heaven has a special Angel. Rest easy Rudie my friend you will always be loved.

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