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Sonya Esther "Sunny" Fein

Sonya Fein Obituary

East Lyme - Sonya Esther "Sunny" Fein, 76, loving and loved wife, mother, grandmother, aunt, daughter, cherished friend, educator, family poet and lyricist, died Oct. 7, 2020, from the cancer she had kept at bay for the past twelve years.

She is survived by her husband Maier of 53 years; two sons, their spouses, three grandchildren and sister-in-law: Matthew, Lisa and Corey Fein; Michael Fein, Marjorie Feld, and Isaac and Nathan Feinfeld; and Arlene Ritter Sharkey. She was predeceased by her parents, Nathan and Beatrice Ritter; and her brother Kenneth Ritter.

A native Philadelphian, she moved to Connecticut in 1967. As an elementary school teacher and language arts consultant for over 25 years, she brought the joy of reading to countless children. After a short period teaching in Cheltenham, Penn., and Quaker Hill, she joined the Ledyard Center School in 1980 and retired from there in 2004. For over fifty years, she was an active member of Congregation Beth El in New London, where she served on the Board of Directors and several of its committees, while supporting programs such as the Torah Fund, Bikur Cholim and the annual Purim Dinner.

She graduated South Philadelphia High School and earned her undergraduate and graduate degrees in education from Temple University and the University of Connecticut, respectively. She volunteered for the Jewish Federation of Eastern Connecticut's Friendly Visitors Program and its Literacy Program in New London Schools.

Contributions in Sunny's memory may be made to Congregation Beth El at bethel-nl.org, the Jewish Federation of Eastern Connecticut at jfec.com, the Greater Boston Jewish Coalition for Literacy at www.jcrcboston.org/literacy, or the Detroit Jewish Coalition for Literacy at jcrcajc.org.

Services are private and under the care of the Thomas L. Neilan & Sons Funeral Home, 12 Ocean Avenue, New London. Please visit www.neilanfuneralhome.com to sign the guestbook or to share a memory.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Day on Oct. 8, 2020.

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Nessa

October 2, 2024

Missing you, and thinking of the special times, together. I love you, Sunny. Ness

Sherri Deman

October 4, 2023

Remembering Sunny
-Love,
The Deman Family Sherri Derek Julian

Stan Solinsky

October 13, 2020

To Maier and family: I was so saddened to hear of Sunny's passing. What a sweet and wonderful woman. I always enjoyed seeing her at Beth El, and I especially appreciated our chats about Philadelphia. She will be greatly missed. May her memory be a blessing.
Stan Solinsky

Sherri Deman

October 10, 2020

Sonny was 1 of the sweetest kindest people I have ever met she was always ready 2 listen 2 anything u had 2 say... she was funny & Sonny sent cards on every occasion birthdays holidays & special occasions & when there was loss of a loved 1 ...I received a beautiful card just less than 3 weeks ago from sonny 4 my husband's grandma who died & sonny said such beautiful & wonderful things about grandma... she remembered special times we had w/grandma & how much she loved grandma as well.. I cried as I read her beautiful card ❤I never got 2 than sonny 4 this card perfectly worded & just true feelings that sonny felt about grandma & me Sherri my husband Derek & son Julian it was almost like she was telling us how much she she thought of us all & loved us... it was like we saw Sonnys true self & how she truly felt .. it was special & different than other cards in the past.... almost like she gave us a special piece of her 2 remember he with...I will b 4ever grateful 4 her last words she sent 2 us in that card❤❤We love u Sonny & always will ... u were a special soul that were so lucky 2 have known...
thank u 4 just being u...

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Ness

October 9, 2020

Sunny and I, are 1st cousins. She was the sister I never had, my best friend, and my confidant. Sun, was always there for me-- in good times and bad. We shared a wonderful childhood, together. Whenever, Sunny would visit me in North Philly, I would run to her screaming her name. Sunny, Sunny, Sunny!! Then, give her a big, hard hug. Aunt Bea told my parents to tell me not to hug Sunny so hard. I always loved her with all my being, and always will. When she passed, she took a part of my heart with her. RIP my beautiful cousin. Till we meet, again......Love, Ness

David and Janet Anderson

October 9, 2020

October 9, 2020
Maier-
Our thoughts are with you and your family today at the loss of Sunny.
We will be sad not to see her walking in the neighborhood, at the boardwalk, or during those winter days when we were commiserating shoveling snow. We know of her struggle with cancer, yet she always had a kind word, a smile, and a concern for others.
We will truly miss her.
Our best,
David and Janet Anderson
East Lyme

Cousin Genessa (Ness) Frank Sugarman

October 9, 2020

Sunny, was much more to me than my first cousin. She was the sister I never had, my best friend, and confidant. Sun, was always there for me, in good times and bad. We shared a special and wonderful childhood, together. Sunny, was very special, and amazing. When I was little, I used to scream Sunny's name, 'Sunny! Sunny! Sunny'!!!!, upon her visiting me. Then I would give her a real hard hug. Aunt Bea, told my parents to tell me not to squeeze so hard. I will always love you, Sun, as I always have. RIP my beautiful cousin. Till we meet, again.....With love, Ness

steven fine

October 9, 2020

Marjorie and I are so sorry to hear about Sunny. She was such a nice, wonderful person. Our love and best wishes to all. She will always be with you in your heart..
Love, Marjorie and Steven Fine

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