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Theodore Wydler Obituary
Teddy truly was... one of a kind. To have known him was a gift itself. He touched so many people and made their lives fuller. He was a friend, a father, a teacher, the neighbor everyone wishes they had, and the kind of man every man can only strive to be.
If you were lucky enough to have known him then you probably have your own "Teddy stories" and if you did not know him, you most likely know someone who did. Be it stories of his childhood, Pensacola, Fla., the silica mines, his crazy brother Emil, wacky adventures with his family, trips to the casino, dirty jokes and poems about "little johnny" - they will pop into our memories from time to time and make us smile.
Teddy was an amazing stone mason. The many beautiful paths and walls that he built throughout the Mystic and Noank area will remain for years to come.
Teddy absolutely loved his family, and that love equally returned from his eight children, Susan Poulin of Westerly, Cheryl Shea of South Carolina, Donna "Cookie" Peterson (passed Nov. 26, 2010 after her own battle with cancer), Jay Jackson of Washington, Alan Jackson of Florida, Tracy Jackson of Stonington, Heidi Perrino of Florida, and Cindy Garbarino of Stonington; his nineteen grandchildren; twenty great-grandchildren; and three great-great-grandchildren.
In his final days, he was at his home in Mystic surrounded by his family, friends and the wonderful care of Hospice. Scattered around, were photos, cards, flowers and gifts brought by the many people whose lives he touched. On the mantle was a stick figure valentine he drew for Grace in 1987 on a piece of slate, found on a job. On the table was a book - "Bogues Alley" pieced together containing his family history, images of his predeceased brothers and sisters - Emil, William, Eleanor Palardy, Beverly Steele, Grace and Doris Wydler; His father, Emil Wydler, and mother, Grace (Bogue) Wydler.
He was the handsome, blue eyed man working and whistling about Mystic with that mischievous gleam in his eye and a smile on his face. Happy and strong through the very end, Teddy was a real character...truly...one of a kind.
Please join the family from 4 to 8 p.m. Sunday, May 26, for a celebration of Ted's life, at the Knights Of Columbus Hall on Hatch Street in Mystic. Bring your stories and kind words to share with family and friends.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Center for Hospice Care Southeastern Connecticut, 227 Dunham St., Norwich, CT 06360.
The Dinoto Funeral Home, 17 Pearl St., historic downtown Mystic, is assisting the family.
To share an online note of remembrance with Teddy's family, visit www.dinotofuneral.com
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Memories and Condolences
for Theodore Wydler
I love you Pop.
Jay Jackson
June 15, 2013
Dad (Teddy) was the true meaning of "Father". I can't think of anyone I could be more proud of than my dad. He spent his life sheltering and feeding a menagerie of crazy kids and showed us that our troubles were just minor inconveniences and a good reason to laugh. I cant help but shed a tear when I realize I won't see him any more, but then I remember what life was like with him and I just start smiling and laughing.
Randy McGuire
June 13, 2013
My story starts with a beat up red pick up truck, a shetlon pony, a bunch of kids, and a drive thru mystic with Teddy at the wheel blowing the horn every 5 seconds. How we ever held on to that pony in the bed of that truck is beyond me. I'm sure we were on our way back from getting ice cream and I'm sure Teddy paid for it. Thanks Teddy. The best neighbor any kid could ever ask for. Rest in peace.
Deb, George and Zack Bridgham
May 28, 2013
Cindy and Family - your father was a wonderful and funny man- Our thoughts and prayers are with you all
Deb, George and Zack Bridgham
Lisa (McGuire) Wilson
May 28, 2013
I truly believe that there is no one in the world like Teddy, and there never will be. He was crazy in all the best ways someone can be. Fun cannot begin to describe him. He made life on High Street the envy of our town...bringing us to Janeiros for ice cream in the bucket loader of his tractor, playing games with us all the time, and basically taking us in. Tea and toast at the Wydler's house will always be remembered! Give Grace a kiss for me!
Janet Manning-Woodard
May 25, 2013
Your father was such a giving man and wonderful role model for us while growing up. He was such a hard worker and his love of his wife and family was always evident in everything he did. I am so sorry for your loss.
Dawn (Oddo) Silva
May 24, 2013
I was friends with Cindy many, many, many years ago (in elementary school) and I remember Mr. Wydler (and Mrs.) always made me feel so welcome in his home. May his memory live on in your hearts.
Helen McGuire
May 22, 2013
To all the Wydler Kids....
I hope you realize how lucky you were to have had Grace and Teddy for parents. They were the BEST! The McGuire family was blessed, having the Wydler family as our neighbors. We all have such good memories to share.
May 21, 2013
Heaven Has a New Angel...Say Hi to Grace for us. Ted was The Best.
Keith and Sharon Marsie
Debbie Holmes
May 21, 2013
To the family of Teddy Wydler: My sincere and deepest sympathies go out to all of Ted's family. It was an honor to know him and and he could always make me laugh. I will never forget his stories, his jokes, his never ending sense of humor. "To live in the hearts of those you love, is not to die." May god bless Ted - he is now with the love of his life and at peace. What a truly courageous man and someone I'll never forget!
With heartfelt sympathy, Debbie Holmes, Noank, CT
Beverly Morrone
May 21, 2013
I am so sorry for the lost of your father. He was one of the best. Always cheerful and loved to hear his stories and jokes. Had coffee many of times with him at D.D. He will be missed by all the lives he touch. He was the best. You and your family are in my prayers. God needed a mason and and he was the best.
May 21, 2013
I'm so sorry to hear about Mr. Wydler's passing. I was reminiscing with my brother Joe about our neighbors from years ago, the beauty of the stone walls that Mr. Wydler built on Harry Crandall's yard next door. My prayers are with you.
-John Johnson, Colchester, CT
Gentry Cooke
May 21, 2013
Every time I drive by the house my parents built on Pequot Avenue in Mystic, I stop and look at the wall Teddy built; he was my mother's cousin. It gave them such pleasure. He was such a wonderful person and quite the character.
Steven Post
May 21, 2013
I had the honor of knowing Ted when I was growing up. He left a very positive impression on me. My condolences.
HOWIE DIBBLE
May 21, 2013
To my good friend Teddy, I will miss you great sense of humor.
david wydler
May 21, 2013
Teddy cousin david wydler Jr and sr miss you lots you will always be that rugged kind hearted person had the pleasure of being related to and have known love 6ou teddy >
Vickie & Stephan Ambrosch
May 20, 2013
Cindy and family ... Thinking of everyone at this time ... We were so fortunate to have known him. He will be surely missed. Love Vickie & Steph
Sandra Palardy
May 20, 2013
I'm so sorry for your loss, may the many happy memories bring you comfort & peace. Eleanor Palardy was my Grandmother, RIP Teddy.
Joe Johnson
May 20, 2013
I sorry that I can't be there to visit with you all at this time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your loss.
Cole Helton
May 20, 2013
Cindy and Family
Teddy is the "One of a KIND" friend that
we will all remember for ever.
Bill Taylor
May 20, 2013
Years ago Teddy helped us clear the tangle of locust and bittersweet from the back acre at 15 Elm St. Neighbor-lady came out her back door screaming,"It looks like a bulldozer went through here!" She was by no means pleased. But at the moment, Ted went by, smiling and waving, on his, um... bulldozer. He was a wonderful man
May 20, 2013
In loving memory of a wonderful person. I will always miss you. Doug Startz St. Petersburg Fl.
sharon damato
May 20, 2013
Thinking of you sweet Cindy. We are so very sorry for your loss. Love, Sharon and Jeff
May 20, 2013
Teddy , You never failed to make me laugh and your simple ways of looking at life where a insperation to me .
Also your depth and value for family is something that i could carry over in to my life , thank you Harald
kim coscia
May 19, 2013
A wonderful, loving soul, with the greatest sense of humor. I will always remember the times watching boxing!!!!
Gary Allison Streeter
May 19, 2013
POP! Just saying his name brings a smile to our faces! That sly smirk, those wonderful eyes, and his genuine interest in all made us all feel part of his world! We will miss you Pop, and will always be reminded of the many jokes, stories and smiles! Hugs!!!
Bob Keeler
May 19, 2013
I had a lot of good times with Emil and Teddy. He will be sadly missed. From another Bogue's Alley kid - Bob
linda mcelroy savago
May 19, 2013
Sorry for your loss. Remembering our neighbors from many years ago in Mystic. I new the whole family...went to school with some and have fond memories of them.
Brenda Burroughs
May 19, 2013
Teddy was such a kind soul. I will miss that smile. RIP
colleen mileski
May 19, 2013
In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.
Becky Parfitt
May 19, 2013
Neal and I were saddened to see this. We first met Teddy at one of Cookies Christmas partys. What a character ! Funny... May the whole family and his friends find peace in knowing he is with two wonderful souls, Grace and Cookie.
Mary Anne Jackson
May 19, 2013
I will miss seeing Teddy's youthful,strong presence about the roads of Mystic..his works and talent will live on forever. God be with his family in the loss of a great man.
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