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Vanessa Aybar Obituary
She is predeceased by her father Angel Aybar Sr. She is survived by her mother Donna Santiago; her brothers, Angel and Anthony; as well as her sisters, Samantha, Enid, and Amanda. She leaves behind her six loving children, Anthony Hamlin Jr., Elijah Hamlin, Marcus Rivera, Juanessa Rivera, D'ahnise White, Grace White; and her amazing dog "Honey".
There will be a memorial service for Vanessa at 6:30 p.m. Friday, Aug. 14, at T.H.E Church, located at 207 Bank Street, New London.
The Thomas L. Neilan & Sons Funeral Home, 12 Ocean Avenue, New London, is assisting the family with the arrangements.
Online condolences may be shared with Vanessa's family at www.neilanfuneralhome.com.
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Michelle Eleazer
July 29, 2025
Vanessa you are missed a great deal I always think of you I wish that I knew your children so that I could help them along the way in life because it is not the same without your mother or father being there when there is good times and bad times life is a struggle and these days it is quite difficult for a lot of us especially when you cannot pick up the phone and call Love You
Michelle E
July 29, 2023
Missing your presence and beautiful smile I remember when I first met you Vanessa and I will always from here on God rest your soul and watch over your family Love Michelle
David sosa
April 17, 2023
Hi my favorite baby cousin of mine I just want to said is I´m going to miss u so much u always be my baby cousin I love u so so much it hard to said goodbye to u take care of yourself
Love ur cousin
David sosa
Michelle
August 6, 2020
Vanessa this truly hurts my heart I haven’t seen you in years tears are here we talked last year very briefly and I was so glad to see you . Now you are no longer here I cannot believe you are not present please lord watch over her family and her children I truly will miss your beautiful soul God Bless Love Michelle
Sherrell
August 5, 2020
Vanessa was like a big sister to me, no matter how long it had been since I’d seen her she always greeted me with a warm hug & whispered some kind words. She’s truly a light to all those that knew her, she’ll be greatly missed
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