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Vincent Miceli Obituary
He leaves his wife, Maureen, of 53 years; his two sons, Stephen (Jerry) and Michael (Peggy Stone); three grandchildren, Shanna (Terrence) Hargrove, Stephen Miceli Jr. and Samantha Miceli; a great-grandchild, Sa'Mya; and a host of nieces and nephews.
Vincent was born on Dec. 27, 1926, the son of Vincenzo and Santa (Spinnato) Miceli.
He was preceded in death by his parents; and his sisters, Mary Simpson and Nicoletta Martin; and brother, Joseph Miceli.
Vincent, a lifelong resident of New London, graduated from the former Chapman Technical School in 1947. He served in the Navy during World War II where he was stationed in Corpus Christi, Texas. After returning from the war, Vincent worked at the former Under Water Sound lab at Fort Trumbull in New London for 38 years, retiring as a fireman in 1985.
He was a member of the Knights of Columbus and a member of the Eastern Connecticut Board of Softball and Football Officials. He coached girls softball and basketball at the New London recreation department for many years and umpired for local women's softball teams until he was 86! He was a New York Yankees and Giants fan, as well as a great fan of the UConn Women and Men's basketball teams. He enjoyed gardening, bowling and playing cards with his wife and friends. Vincent was a blood donor for the American Red Cross, giving over 23 gallons of blood in his lifetime.
His family will receive relatives and friends from 2 to 4 p.m. Sunday, Feb. 1, 2015, at the Impellitteri-Malia Funeral Home, 84 Montauk Ave., New London. Family and friends are asked to gather for a memorial Mass of Christian Burial at 11 a.m. Monday, Feb. 2, 2015, in St. Joseph Church, 17 Squire St., New London. Interment is private.
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Memories and Condolences
for Vincent Miceli
Alex Papathanasiou
February 12, 2015
Michael,
I just heard of the passing of your dad. I am so sorry for your loss. It's been a long time since St. Marys school, my friend. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
February 6, 2015
I remember Mr. Miceli as a quiet man who was always very polite and easygoing. People like him we need more of and I'm sure he inspired others to be good and polite as he did me. Missed, but remembered by this man.
John Hill
February 2, 2015
The funeral Mass this morning was beautiful and to see his family together was inspiring. The love for him by them was something to see. The resurrection figure set on the Urn really caught my eye. We were childhood
friends growing up, we on Division St. and he just around the corner on Woodbridge St. My brother Tony and our cousin Reese Caruso would try to out rassle him to the ground but to no success. His knee would make such a loud crack as he kneeled in St. Mary's Church before going to confession that we thought he would not be able to get up. I can say without hesitation that he was an honest man. He will now rest in peace with brother Joe and sisters.
Shanna Hargrove
February 2, 2015
Nonno, I miss you more than words can say. You were always around as I grew up. I know I spent much more time with you and grandma than I did mom and dad! All my photos have either you and grandma in them, or I am at your house doing something! :) But they were the greatest times. Your kisses, hugs, that tight hand squeeze when I would sit on the floor at your feet while you sat in your favorite chair...all memories I'll cherish, plus more. I am so blessed that I was your oldest granddaughter. We had a special bond. I know I was your "pet." But you loved all of us the same. You were an amazing man. A quiet demeanor but your presence was always known. The dream I had of you the night you died will stay with me forever. You were sitting in your favorite chair and squeezed my hand real tight and said "I'll see you soon..." But then I was in the garage opening the side door and I was looking for you, but couldn't find you. I know you are now in my heart and memories. Your legacy lives on through us all. I'll catch up with you later, nonno. Love always and forever.
Mary Brock
February 2, 2015
Uncle Vinnny,
Thanks for the memories, you were such a huge part of my life, I will miss you and love you always.
Love, Sis, Jim and Family
Peggy Stone
February 2, 2015
I miss you so much Vincenzo. I was so blessed to have you as part of my family and life. Love you. XOXO
Michael Miceli
February 2, 2015
My Dad was born to Sicilian immigrants in 1926 right here in New London. He grew up during the great depression which might explain why Dad was a master Jerry rigger, tape and hose clamps were always around. It's hard to find any of his rakes, brooms or shovels without some type of repair.
In 1944 at the age of 18, like most young men did then, he joined the military to fight for his country. He came home, finished high school and got a job doing gardening work at the Sound Lab. He progressed to the pipe shop and eventually became a fireman there getting to retire before he was 60.
Looking back at old pictures reminded me of how extremely lucky I was to have Vincent Miceli as my Dad. Even though he worked a lot I have so many great memories of my childhood with him. Bus trips to Yankee, Shea and Schaefer Stadiums, family picnics with the K of C at Waterford beach, him in the pool with all of us kids at Uncle Barry and Aunt Rita's annual 4th of July picnics, sledding at Caulkins Park, even across the whole park one year on his back! Going to Ocean Beach back when it was so busy they had police officers directing traffic. He would ask to go to his favorite parking area, in the shade under the trees, and the police would always say "go ahead Vinny." Him swimming under water so far that I wondered if he'd ever come up. Fishing and hanging out at the firehouse and sliding down the pole. The pictures and his grand daughters reminded me they also got to spend so much time with him too, camping and hiking in the woods, going on vacations to Canada and California.
I always thought he was older than other fathers but my Dad was the coolest one of them. Somehow, he always found time for us. Everyone who knew him always had the highest admiration for him. I don't remember him ever getting really angry even though I gave him plenty of reasons. He would offer advice, a simple “Why don't you quit smoking” and such. And that would be it; he was never pushy or preachy. But of course I was smarter and rarely heeded it and often made poor decisions. He let me learn life's lessons and always supported me. And I always felt his love.
He taught me the value of work. Besides his full time job at the Sound Lab, he had his other ventures. Officiating football, basketball and of course softball. I remember cutting lawns with him in his gardening business. Going with him to umpiring games, both whether I wanted to or not. He gave me my appreciation of sports and the joy of seeing your team win.
He lived his whole life here in New London and he lived it to the fullest. He didn't travel a lot because he didn't need to. He was happy where ever he was and did the things that brought him joy. Going to local games when he wasn't umpiring them, watching his "girls" on TV, bowling, playing cards and just spending time with his family and friends.
He was such a great lover of all children and animals and especially his family. He would always make funny faces at babies to elicit a smile. Like his Mom and Dad did, he celebrated his 50th Anniversary, with the Love of his Life, Maureen. Together only 6 months before being married they were meant for each other. They gave me and my brother a loving home and even though they didn't have a lot of money we never wanted for anything.
Dad was very religious and spent his exemplary life going to church and living as God wanted his children to do. By obeying his greatest commandments from Matthew Chapter 22
: Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.' and 'Love your neighbor as yourself.' That was Vinnie.
His kiss on the lips meant the world to me.
He was my Dad and for that I am so proud and grateful.
Vinny Easter 2014
February 1, 2015
Vinny at nephew's christening 1961
February 1, 2015
Vinny and Miceli family 1961
February 1, 2015
Vinny 1946
February 1, 2015
Vinny, brother-in-law Tucker and mother, Santa
February 1, 2015
Vinny and his father Vincenzo
February 1, 2015
Vinny in the Navy @ 1940
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Vinny and brother Joe 1951
February 1, 2015
Vinny and Miceli Family portrait around 1940
February 1, 2015
Vinny and family @ 1946
February 1, 2015
Vinny as a child
Joanne Casteel
February 1, 2015
The world feels different without Uncle Vinny. For such a quiet man, he had a huge presence. He was easy to love and we will miss him.
--Joanne & Isabella Casteel
January 31, 2015
Maureen, so sorry, I know how much you must miss your buddy!! I will miss my birthday partner!!! Our prayers are with you and your family.
Love you,
Nick and Marie
Alice Thornton
January 31, 2015
Our prayers are with you during your time of sadness. We know he will comfort you and carry you through. He is only a whispered prayer away.
Bob & Patty Buttermore ( Maynard)
January 31, 2015
We were sad to hear of Vinnies passing. We have great memories of him at softball for many years.
Donna Bienkowski Smith
January 31, 2015
To all of the Miceli family especially "our" Sammi girl: We are so sorry for the loss of your beloved husband, father, grandfather. We are mourning with you as a family and we stand with you in your grief. My Dad has told me a lot about Mr Miceli and I vaguely remember seeing him as an umpire in my younger years. And of course Samantha has told us about him over the years as well. We are here for you all in anyway you may need. Our prayers, love, sympathy and open arms are available anytime. With Love, Donna, Chris, Dylan, Logan, Ryan Smith xoxox
Ronald & Earleen Soccoli
January 31, 2015
I would like to send my condolences to the family. My life was enriched with having Vinnie as my friend. Spent many, many hours discussing sports with him. If it is any benefit to the family, he is not gone but just waiting for us to catch up.
January 31, 2015
dear maureen, so sorry for your loss, sincerely dino dart in fla!!
he was a bit of a jokester with a beautiful smile!
Michael Miceli
January 31, 2015
in the Navy
Michael Miceli
January 31, 2015
with his granddaughters
Michael Miceli
January 31, 2015
Wedding Day
Michael Miceli
January 31, 2015
Vinny's boys and grandchildren
Michael Miceli
January 31, 2015
50th Anniversary party
Michael Miceli
January 31, 2015
He loved all of his pets too.
Michael Miceli
January 31, 2015
Relaxing at the beach
Michael Miceli
January 31, 2015
Dad used to be a football official too.
Michael Miceli
January 31, 2015
Out to dinner a few years ago
Michael Miceli
January 31, 2015
Peter and Betty Gilmore
January 31, 2015
Dear Maureen and family. We are so sorry for the loss of Vinny. He was a very nice person and always enjoyed his company
when we were neighbors. With Sympathy
Betty and Pete Gilmore we are away on vacation till February 15th,
danny morgan
January 30, 2015
vinny you were a gentleman and life mentor. see you on the field.
January 30, 2015
a great man and friend. will be missed at the softball field. i always looked up to you. peace.
Janet Smith
January 30, 2015
I was sorry to read of Vinnie's. passing. For years I saw him as an umpire in the girls league. On the field or off he always gave me a smile. My prayers are with you.
January 30, 2015
Maureen, Michael, Peggy and Samantha sending heart felt prayers your way for your loss of such a sweet man. There is nothing I can say to ease the pain I know all of you are feeling. I love you guys!
Penmans
January 30, 2015
Maureen and family, it is with a heavy heart we send our condolences to you all. This Earth has lost a great man and you all have gained an awesome Angel! Our love to you all.
Dan, Dawn, Emilee & Taylor
Gina Anton
January 30, 2015
My condolences to all of you during this very difficult time. God Bless.
Maureen Penman
January 30, 2015
Maureen. So sorry for your loss! Vinnie was a great guy can remember him on the softball field and church since I was a little girl.
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