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Dave
February 22, 2023
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Joanne Elaine Miceli
February 22, 2022
Cannot believe it has been four years. I still think about this man. This world needs more people like Wayne Vendetto.
Tony & Ann Gigliotti
March 9, 2018
Vendetto Family
We were saddened to read of Wayne's passing. He was a great person who will be missed by everyone that knew him. He was a true gift to the city of New London. He can now join his family in heaven. Rest in peace Wayne
Kathy "Zwicker" Miller
March 7, 2018
Wayne was a very special person. I met him in high school as our surnames were at the end of the alphabet and our homerooms were in the same hallway. He was always smiling!
Throughout the years I would see him around town or at Sears.
Then our paths began to cross more regularly when I was working at the courthouse.
He was a very friendly, warm, kind and special person.
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Alfred Mayo
March 5, 2018
I remember talking with Vendetto on many occasions when I did come down to City Hall, he was a such a nice person. He will be solely miss.
March 4, 2018
My condolences to the Venditto family.
Barbara Fredella
March 4, 2018
Mr. Vendetto was such a generous, kind, sophisticated and smart man. He was an integral part of what made old New London the great city it was. Losing someone like Wayne Vendetto is a great blow to the character of the city - he will be sorely missed.
--The Miceli Family
Debra Dyer-Perkins
March 3, 2018
I worked with Wayne at Sears in a different department and he was a great mentor and friend. After he retired, we'd run into each other and it was like no time had elapsed. A truly amazing man with so much generosity. He will be greatly missed.
Love to his family,
Deb
Leslie Barnes
March 3, 2018
As a fellow classmate of Wayne at NLHS, I have fond memories of sharing wonderful and fun times with him. My deep, sincere condolences I extend to his family and may he find a restful place now as he was certainly a giving, caring and loving man to all.
March 2, 2018
Dear Donna, Maureen,Joan, and entire Vendetto family, please know you are in my heart. So sorry for your loss. Can I do something to support you? Very best wishes, Betty Davis
Lisa Crowley
March 2, 2018
Mr.V. was simply the BEST ! He always greeted my with a hug and kiss. Growing up he was the neighborhood father. He would load all us neighborhood kids into his cadi and us to the duck pond to go ice skating. He also let us have shows for the kids in his basement. Mr. V will be so very missed by one and all. I hope all the stories and memories bring his family comfort.
Sandra Kenny
March 2, 2018
Condolences to the Vendetto family and his many friends..I have known Wayne since i was a kid. I loved his sense of humor and his kindness to all he knew..Rest in peace my friend ..you will be missed by many!
Peter Dimaggio
March 2, 2018
We are so sorry for your loss Peter and Susan Dimaggio
Ralph Sidberry Jr. and family
March 2, 2018
My deepest condolences to the Vendetto Family.
Vincent and Grissel Hodge
March 2, 2018
Our deepest sympathy to Wayne's family. His contributions to New London will never be forgotten.
Suzanne Michelin Anton
March 2, 2018
Vendetta Family,
My condolences for your loss as well as New Londons loss.
Sue Miceli Anton
March 1, 2018
New London has lost one of its greatest citizens. What a kind, generous person he was. Mr. Vendetto will be sorely missed by all.
Lydia Plona
March 1, 2018
To the Vendetto family,
Please accept my sincere condolences on the loss of your dear Wayne, such a wonderful man. I first met him when I worked at Sears as a teenager in the catalog department at the old Sears in the shopping center. When I graduated from NLHS (Class of 1974), Wayne made sure he was the one who handed me my diploma on graduation day; I remember feeling so special that he did that. Years later when I would come home to New London to visit, I would be sure to stop in to Sears to say hi to Wayne, because I knew he would be there at the bottom of the escalator with a big smile, a twinkle in his eye, and a warm "Hi Lyd!"
May Wayne rest well, and your memories give you comfort.
Orlando Perez
March 1, 2018
We are sorry to hear about Wayne. Our condolences, Perez Family
Marta Parsons
March 1, 2018
Joan and family,
John and I send our condolences. You and your family are in our thoughts.
Marta and John Brennan
Mike Xirinachs
March 1, 2018
He taught me so much in my early days as a journalist...so generous with his time and knowledge of the system...always a smile....a very special man. So sorry to the family for your huge loss.
March 1, 2018
Donna and family,
We are so sorry for your loss.
Daphne Nielsen and Henry Resnikoff
Valerie Hodge-Pierce
March 1, 2018
Rest well in peace Wayne. You have earned your wings my friend!
Ginger Bates
March 1, 2018
Vendetto family
Sorry to hear About your Brother
(-=< Ray Hamilton >=-)
March 1, 2018
Dear Donna and the entire circle of Wayne's family n' friends,
I was born and raised in Buffalo, but when drafted for Viet Nam, I joined the Submarine Navy, which soon enough (1974) landed me in my new home, New London. And, since then, among the many influences I can gladly recount, the Vendetto family has been a fun and pretty indelible one. More so with Mickey and Donna through numerous mutual affiliations, than Wayne, but Wayne was always a familiar and friendly acquaintance as well, and will be missed.
Having lost both my parents and understanding the hole left behind, regardless the inevitability or forewarning, pray this helps some wee bit...to allow...enable...the grief! And the grief will come, the pain unfortunate, but as necessary; embrace it and let it work its magic, while remembering the depth of it is a yardstick of not only the impact of your loss, but the breadth of the love it represents. So truly sorry to hear about Wayne. At least now he's at peace with our Lord definitely keepin' y'all in my prayers!
When my mother died, even after a years-long battle with cancer, I was shattered by the loss...inconsolable...she was my mentor! I like to think that I got my character from my father, but my mind and its capacity from m'dear sainted mother!!! BUT, "If your faith assures you she's in heaven, then what are the tears all about?!?" I hold eternity dearly close...a cherished, hard-won prize...but, in the interim, that answer lies below.
SELFISH TEARS
(I Eulogize My Beloved Mother - March, 1989)
Today we cry...must admit they're selfish tears.
You see...our faith assures your journey's done.
But it's not for you we mourn, at all, my dear;
It's for those of us you've left behind...alone!!!
We share your joy...share your happiness at rest,
Your painful fears now for forever stilled.
You've fought the good fight, passed the final test,
But you've left behind a hole that can't be filled!!!
So, until we each rejoin you some someday,
And, while your memory buoys us through those years,
We'll miss you...but continue on our way,
And, from time to time, we'll cry our selfish tears!!!
Ray Hamilton (c) March 19, 1989
My fond, sincerest condolences and prayers,
Bill Satti
March 1, 2018
Wayne may you Rest In Peace. Thank you for all your years of service to our region and especially New London. Thoughts and prayers to you and the entire Vendetto family.
David Deckler
March 1, 2018
To wayne and the entire Vendetto family Iam very sorry to hear of your fathers passing!! he was a great man and a loss to human kind! he always had a good word for me especially when i was getting sober he helped me out!! may he R.I.P. As he would always say to me "TAKE IT 1DAY@ A Time!!
Michael Sylvia
March 1, 2018
I am so very sorry for your loss. His service to the people of New London always be an inspiration to our town.
Anna Stefanski
March 1, 2018
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.
dave lamoureux
March 1, 2018
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
March 1, 2018
Wayne, I will miss your visits at the store & bumping into you at Mr. G's. Working with you all those years was a pleasure.
Love always, your "Guinea Brat". AKA Julie Mei
March 1, 2018
To Wayne's family, so sorry to hear of Wayne's passing. He always had a smile, a wave and a few words whenever I saw him after church or outside Harbor School. Sincerely Marie Aguiar
Gina Debona/carter
March 1, 2018
Wayne has known me since I was a baby.he was a great family friend.i will dearly miss him.r.i.p wayne.
Stephen & Susan Besade
March 1, 2018
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.
Bill Klinefelter
March 1, 2018
To the Vendetto family sorry for the passing of Wayne he will be missed a lot
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