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Benjamin Hilario Obituary

Benjamin M. Hilario, 58, passed away February 11, 2010 in Indio, Calif. He was born on March 30, 1951 to parents Jesus and Guadalupe Hilario in Guadalajara, Jalisco, Mexico. He leaves behind his loving family: wife, Yolanda of Coachella, Calif.; sons, Carlos of Palm Desert, Calif., Ben of Mexicali, B.C. MX, Ben Jr. of Indio, Jesus, Raymond, Steven, Angel, Chris, Mark and Ivan all of Coachella; daughters, Elvira of Texas and Guadalupe of Coachella; his loving father, Jesus Hilario of Texas; brothers, Raul Hilario of Mexico and Jesus Hilario of Pico Rivera, Calif., Juan and Arturo Hilario of Guadalajara, Juan Hilario of Amarillo, Texas; and sisters, Teresa Vera of Monterey Park, Calif., Bertha Gonzales of Porterville, Calif. and Rosa Cuevas of Coachella, Martha Hilario of Amarillo, Texas. He also leaves behind 36 grandchildren and three great-grandchildren. Benjamin was well known in the entire Coachella Valley, he owned a landscaping business for the last 30 years. Benjamin will be deeply missed by all who knew him. Visitation will be on Wednesday February 17, 2010 from 4:00 PM and continuing through the night at his residence located at 85421 Valencia Lane Coachella, CA with a rosary at 6:00 PM. A Mass will be celebrated in his honor on Thursday February 18, 2010 at 8:00 AM at Our Lady of Soledad Catholic Church. Burial will take place at Coachella Valley Cemetery. All funeral arrangements are under the direction of Casillas Family Funeral Home, Coachella, CA.

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Published by The Desert Sun from Feb. 16 to Feb. 21, 2010.

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April 26, 2010

I Miss You Apa :( - Monique Hilario

Mrs, Alicia Cruz

February 19, 2010

Yolanda and all your children, I pray for god to give you strength to deal with your loss. I had the pleasure of knowng him through his chidren when they were little and he would pck them up from Headstart. He was a very nice person. Mark, Steven, Angel, Raymond, Ivan, Chris be there for your Mom. Love you guys. Mrs, Cruz

February 19, 2010

I AM VERY SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS. MY CONDOLENCES TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY PLEASE CALL 760-345-3118

Laura Waisler

February 18, 2010

I am so sorry to hear of Ben's passing. I send my condolences and support to his family at this time.

Laura Waisler

February 18, 2010

I am shocked by Ben's passing. He was my gardener for many years in Indian Palms CC. Sold our house in 2005 and have been traveling in our motorhome but do get back to Indio every year during the December Holidays. Ran into Ben at Walmart in La Quinta in January. Such a loss for his family. He was way too young to go to Heaven.

February 18, 2010

To the entire Hilario Family;
Our love and prayers go out to every single one of you during this very difficult time. We have known Benjamin for a very very long time; he was considered family as well as all of you. God Bless and stay strong!
~Islas Family

Lisa Calarco

February 17, 2010

Ben, Steven, Raymond and the rest of the Hilario Family, please accept my sincere sympathy for the loss of your Father. I am sorry that we could not make it to the services. Sincerely,
Lisa Calarco, Marissa Sarabia & Family

Raquel Galvan

February 17, 2010

Yolanda & family,
May the Lord be with you in this difficult time. Your family is in our prayers. Ivan & Marky we are here for you whenever you need anything were just down the street. God Bless you all....
Leo & Raquel Galvan Family

jesus hilario

February 16, 2010

Thankyou dad for showing me good work ethics and how to Be strong In times like these, I pray jehova can see good in your heart and remember you in Paradise. Love you mom and brothers. From your brother jesus hilario

February 16, 2010

To the entire Hilario Family,
My love and prayers are with you all during this difficult time. I love you all. I pray for God to fill you all with peace. I have learned from my own loss that by talking about good times and keeping memories alive helps heal your soul. My love goes out to all of you.
Love, Davina, Brianna, Alyssa,Leiah and John John.

Louie Lopez

February 16, 2010

Our condolences goes out to you and your entire family. God Bless and stay strong.

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