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Shirley Hammer

1929 - 2016

Shirley Hammer obituary, 1929-2016, Palm Springs, CA

BORN

1929

DIED

2016

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Wiefels Palm Springs Mortuary

690 South Vella Road

Palm Springs, California

Shirley Hammer Obituary

Shirley Hammer

On Friday, April 8th Shirley Hammer passed away peacefully at her Palm Springs home surrounded by her children. Shirley was born on July 23, 1929, to Wesley and Cecile (Bump) Henderson in Des Moines, Iowa. Shirley grew up on a farm in Madrid, Iowa, where as a young girl, she raised Red Duroc hogs, claiming the grand champion prize at the Iowa State Fair. Shirley attended secretarial school in Des Moines, Iowa where she was awarded a degree. She was working for an insurance company when she met her future husband, Joe W. Hammer. Shirley and Joe spent 52 wonderful years together until his death in 2001. They raised four children, spending half the year in Clare, Iowa where they farmed and the other half at their winter home in Palm Springs, CA. Shirley was past president of the Palm Springs Republican Women, the League of Women Voters and the founder and past president of the Palm Springs Writers Guild. An avid ice skater in her 60's, Shirley was a member of the Desert Blades, and also enjoyed ballroom dancing throughout her 70's. In later years she would enjoy dinner nearly every night at her favorite restaurant, Billy Reed's in Palm Springs where she had many friends. Shirley was preceded in death by her husband Joe in 2001 and their eldest son, Jim, in 1998. Shirley is survived by three children, daughters Cynthia and Marianne Hammer, son Joe Hammer, three grandchildren Sterling Hammer, Elizabeth Hammer and Caroline Hammer, and numerous nieces and nephews. Shirley will be missed by those who knew and loved her. A wake and rosary will take place Thursday, April 14, 2016 at Wiefels Palm Springs Chapel. A full Catholic funeral mass service will be held at Our Lady of Solitude Church in Palm Springs, CA on Friday, April 15, 2016 at 1pm with a graveside service to follow. Interment will be beside Shirley's beloved husband, Joe, at Desert Memorial Park, Cathedral City, CA.

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Published by The Desert Sun from Apr. 14 to Apr. 15, 2016.

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Dorothy Griffin

May 17, 2016

Joe and family---we were so sorry to read about your mom in our Sunday paper, we had not realized you lost her a month ago. So hard to let go of a mom---we are still struggling and it has been over a year. Joe---I truly apologies, but we could not find your address to send a card--so when you get a moment, please email me or call with your number and address.
Again--we are so very sorry for your tremendous loss--we will keep you in our prayers.
Dorothy
[email protected]
515-571-7283

May 16, 2016

So sorry for your loss, keep in touch. Linda Wright and Brenda Sorenson

April 16, 2016

I'm so sorry for your loss. At times such as this, we sure appreciate comfort. May you find it through God's words at Psalm 147:3, 5.

Cindy Vogel

April 14, 2016

Shirley is waltzing in heaven and I know she is happy. I wish Marianne and entire family prayers for comfort during this time

April 14, 2016

Our prayers and thoughts are with your family. May God continue to bless us all.
Clint, Lori, Miranda, and Alex Miller

April 14, 2016

Wonderful memories of Shirley and Joe. They both are in our prayers
Marie Robertson and Rosemary Smith

Nancy and Lydia Steichen/Nieves

April 13, 2016

Dear Joe and family,

We are so sorry for the loss of your mother. Take the time to celebrate her life that touched others and left many memories.
With love, Nancy and Lydia

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Apr

14

Wake

Wiefels Palm Springs Mortuary

690 South Vella Road, Palm Springs, CA 92264

Apr

14

Rosary

Wiefels Palm Springs Mortuary

690 South Vella Road, Palm Springs, CA 92264

Apr

15

Funeral Mass

1:00 p.m.

Our Lady of Solitude Church

Palm Springs, CA

Apr

15

Graveside service

Desert Memorial Park

CA

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690 South Vella Road, Palm Springs, CA 92264

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