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Joy Steele Obituary

JOY COGDELL STEELE Iowa City Joy Cogdell Steele, 91, of Iowa City, passed away on Dec. 20, 2018, at Crestview Specialty Care in West Branch. No services are planned at this time. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the Southern Poverty Law Center and to the Audubon Society. Joy was born in Atlanta, Ga., on Jan. 17, 1927, the daughter of Rexford Cogdell of Inverness, Ala., and Eleanor Elizabeth Cogdell (Black) of Luverne, Ala. Joy graduated from Sydney Lanier High School in Montgomery, Ala., in 1944. She earned an A.B. degree from Huntingdon College in Montgomery in 1948 and an M.S. degree in English from Auburn University (then Alabama Polytechnic Institute) in 1950. After moving to Iowa in 1967 with her husband, Oliver, and her five children, she continued her studies and eventually was awarded a Ph.D. in English from the University of Iowa. She became an instructor in that department, teaching evening and distance-learning classes for a number of years. She especially was proud of the work she did teaching literature to students in rural Iowa as part of the distance-learning program. Her particular field of study was 20th-century American literature. As a mother, Joy was patient, kind, nurturing and funny. She encouraged arts and crafts and tirelessly found creative ways to educate and entertain her five children. Vacations always were a healthy balance of museums, monuments and historical places mixed in with beaches and mountain trails. Any excuse to be outside camping, hiking, chasing butterflies, walking along seashores she would take. She instilled in all of her children a lifelong love of learning and a deep respect for nature. In retirement, Joy enjoyed spending time with her husband, Oliver. They were avid bird-watchers, often walking at Kent State Park but from time to time traveling farther to other states to see migrating birds. At home, they read mystery novels together and enjoyed visits from their children and grandchildren. A true child of the South, she loved grits, okra and pecan pie (especially from the pecan tree in her mother's yard). Joy and Oliver gave to many charities that focused on the natural world and social justice issues. For more than 50 years, Joy was a devoted parishioner of Trinity Episcopal Church in Iowa City. Joy is survived by her children, Christopher (Monica) of Ely, Minn., Mark (Janet Lilly) of Greensboro, N.C., Eleanor of Iowa City, Andrew of Staatsburg, N.Y., and Paul (Anne) of Austin, Texas; and her beloved grandchildren, Emma, Jimmy, Elizabeth, Grace, Samuel and Theo. Joy was preceded in death by her husband, Oliver; her brother, James Cogdell of Luverne, Ala., and her son-in-law, Kirk Walther of Iowa City.

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Published by The Gazette on Dec. 26, 2018.

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Cecile Kuenzli

December 21, 2019

Dear Eleanor,
I still think of Joy every time that I walk or ride down Court St.
I also miss having contact with you and still wish you would call or write when you have time.
Best wishes,
C.

Joy Steele

January 15, 2019

Dear Eleanor,

I am writing on this site as I don't have any other address for you.

I just want you to know how sorry Ruedi and I are are for the loss of Oliver and Joy, not to mention Kirk's loss too. The last several years have been really rough for you. I wish that you still lived across the street so we could have a cup of tea and talk.

I didn't know your father except as a senior figure in the English department when we arrived in town. Your mother was always friendly and gracious when our paths crossed. She once shared her recipe for chess pie with me after I ate a piece of one she had made. it was a taste revelation for me and I count her recipe among my treasured recipes.

Please know that Ruedi and I think of you often and fondly.
Cecile Kuenzli

December 26, 2018

My deepest sympathy for your loss. May God help you to heal during this difficult time. Ps. 147:8 He heals the brokenhearted; He binds up their wounds.

December 24, 2018

Very sorry for the lost of your loved one May God the hearer of prayers comfort you during this difficult time and give you strength. 2 cor. 1:4

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