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Mary McDermott Obituary

Mary I. McDermott, 89, of Cascade, Iowa, passed away peacefully with her husband Earl by her side on Tuesday, June 27, 2023, at Accura Healthcare Center in Cascade, Iowa. Visitation for Mary will be held from 9 to 11 a.m. on Saturday, July 1, 2023, at St. Martin's Catholic Church in Cascade, Iowa. The Reiff Funeral Home in Cascade, Iowa, is assisting the family with arrangements. Mass of Christian Burial for Mary will be held at 11:30 a.m. on Saturday, July 1, 2023, at St. Martin's Catholic Church in Cascade, Iowa, with Rev. Mark Osterhaus presiding. Services will be live streamed at 11:30 a.m. at the following link www.stapastorate.org. Burial will be held at the Calvary Cemetery in Cascade, Iowa. Mary was born on Jan. 22, 1934, in Hopkinton, Iowa, daughter of John and Lena (Puetz) Uhlenkamp. She was a graduate of Winthrop High School in Winthrop, Iowa. In 1955, she was united in marriage to Lavern Goedken in Winthrop, Iowa. He later preceded her in death. She was united in marriage to Earl McDermott on Aug. 24, 1963, at St. Pius Catholic Church in Cedar Rapids, Iowa. Mary was a loving wife, mother, grandmother, and second mother to some. She truly enjoyed attending her children's and grandchildren's sporting events, and spending time with her family. She was a great cook, who always made sure that everyone had a meal. Mary loved to socialize and visit with friends and was ready to hear a good joke. Mary was a very devoted and faithful person and was a member of St. Matthias Parish in Cascade, Iowa. She was also a member of the Catholic Daughters of America Our Blessed Mother Court #1926 in Cascade. Mary was also a very thoughtful and caring person to everyone. She spent her time caring after others such as her mother, aunt, and uncle as they got older, and she also delivered meals for Meals on Wheels. Those left to cherish her memory are her husband, Earl McDermott of Cascade; five children, Rick (Cheila) Goedken of Cascade, Dave (Shirley) Goedken of Robins, Greg (Theresa) McDermott of Omaha, Neb., Scott (Jill) McDermott of Robins, and Marty (Rachel) McDermott of Spring Lake, Mich.; 19 grandchildren; great-grandchildren; four siblings, Esther (Terry) Wilson of Scottsdale, Ariz., Anthony (Diane) Uhlenkamp, Grace Knipper, both of Edgewood, and Rita Mae Uhlenkamp of Peoria, Ariz.; brothers and sisters-in-law, Arthur Hermsen of New Vienna, Alan (Margie) McDermott, Jerry (Shirley) McDermott, Maureen McDermott, all of Cascade, Howard (Carol) McDermott of Monticello, Bob (Barb) McDermott of Show Low, Ariz., Viola Tschirgi of Marion, Rose Marie (Lynn) Wolf of Marion, and Joe (Paulette) Goedken of Cedar Rapids. Mary was preceded in death by her parents; her first husband, Lavern Goedken; a son, Joseph McDermott; daughter-in-law, Diana Goedken; siblings, Henry, Donald, Joseph and Veronica Uhlenkamp, all in infancy, Joyce Hermsen, and Elizabeth "Betty" (Arthur) Schaul; fathers and mothers-in-law, Raymond and Lenore (Dolphin) McDermott and Aloys and Sylveria Goedken; brothers and sisters-in-law, Alfred Knipper, Kenneth McDermott, three sisters-in-law in infancy, Betty (Jack) Vance, Florian (Darlene) Goedken, Wilma (Herb) Burkle, Mary Ann (Joe) Wichmann, and Carl Tschirgi. In lieu of flowers, a Mary McDermott Memorial fund has been established. The family would like to give a special thank-you to Hospice of Dubuque, nurses and staff at Accura Health Center and Riverbend Assisted Living Center in Cascade, Rev. Mark Osterhaus and Lois Andrews for all the wonderful care and support they gave to Mary. Online condolences sent to the family at www.reifffuneralhomeinc.com.

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Published by The Gazette on Jun. 30, 2023.

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Phyllis Jensen

July 28, 2023

Earl and family, I am so sorry for your loss! Mary and I go back to grade school days at Winthrop, Iowa; graduating in the Winthrop Class of 1951. I especially remember the several days both of you spent with Lee and I after you dropped Greg at a basketball camp (I think in PA) many, many years ago. Mary was one of my dearest school chums. My love and prayers are with you. Phyllis Jensen

Randy Kurt

July 20, 2023

So sorry to hear this news. You have my sympathy.

Gloria and Greg Otting

July 2, 2023

Earl and family,
You are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time! So sorry for your loss.

Scott and Lori Casey

July 1, 2023

So sorry for your loss. Mary was such a wonderful lady! Our sympathies to each of you and may God help carry you through.

Mary Jo Rea Jordan

July 1, 2023

So sorry for your loss. Prayers for Mary and the entire family.

Kyle White

July 1, 2023

My prayers and condolences go to the McDermott family and friends. May God bless you with loving memories of Ms. McDermott and carry her impactful spirit with you throughout your journey in life.

Carl and Patty Puetz

July 1, 2023

As some people journey through life they leave footprints wherever they go, footprints of kindness and love, courage and compassion, humor and inspiration, joy and faiththis is Mary’s gift she left behind. A Trail bright with hope which invites us to follow. With sincere sympathy , love and prayers.

Joe & Sheila Gnat

July 1, 2023

Sorry for your loss. We're thinking of you

Mary Hendrickson

July 1, 2023

Our thoughts and prayers are with the family. Treasure the many memories and blessings.
In prayer , mary and Jerry hendrickson

Ron and Pat Roling

July 1, 2023

Our deepest sympathy on the passing of a lovely person and the heart of a good family. We're sure that she is already greatly missed.

Lara Beecher Fisher

July 1, 2023

Mary had a beautiful smile and more beautiful soul. So sorry for your loss.

The Remys

July 1, 2023

Sorry for your loss

Macaela Smith

June 30, 2023

Prayers and thoughts of a wonderful lady! So fortunate to meet her a few years ago; she has company above. In my prayers McDermott family . RIP Mary

Rhonda and Mark McCullough

June 30, 2023

Our deepest sympathies to Earl and all of the McDermott families. Mary was such a lovely lady. Mom always spoke so highly of her. May your memories now be treasures.

Rick and Jo Fitzner

June 30, 2023

Mary provided so many wonderful memories to so many people! We feel blessed to have some of those memories. Hopefully sharing them will help you during this difficult time. Sending our love, thoughts and prayers and gratitude to all of you for giving us that opportunity!

Donna Maas

June 30, 2023

Bob and I are so sorry to hear of your mom's passing. May all those precious memories you cherished with your mom be a comfort during this difficult time. Dave and Shirley, know you are in our prayers. God bless you.

Brian Wichman

June 30, 2023

I always enjoyed Aunt Mary’s smile.

Our sympathy to the family. We pray God provides comfort.

Kelley and Brian

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Jalen and LaShya Courtney-Williams

June 30, 2023

To the entire McDermott Family, May the love of friends and family carry you through this difficult journey. May God bless you all with comfort & the best of memories. In loving memory of a beautiful soul.

Tom and Judy Flaherty

June 29, 2023

Earl and family. Tom and I are so sorry to hear about Mary’s passing.we have many great memories of ballgames and Creighton trips with you Earl. Our thought and special prayers are with you.

Bill Smith

June 29, 2023

Dear Earl, Greg and family. Very sorry about your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

R. JON FITZNER

June 29, 2023

DEAR EARL AND FAMILY. MY SYMPATHY FOR YOUR LOSS WITH MARY'S PASSING. I ENJOYED MANY VISITS AND A COUPLE OF BUS TRIPS WITH MARY AND EARL DURING GREG'S WAYNE STATE YEARS. IT WAS OBVIOUS THAT MARY WAS A SALT OF THE EARTH TYPE PERSON AND WAS SO PROUD OF THE WONDERFUL FAMILY SHE AND EARL RAISED. I KNOW YOU ARE ALL BLESSED WITH HER MEMORY. MAY THE PEACE OF THE LORD SURROUND YOU.

Barbara Hacke

June 29, 2023

Earl and family. John and I would like to express our deepest sympathy in the loss of Mary. I am going to be in Oklahoma and will not be able to make the wake but will be thinking of you and your family and will keep you in my prayers. Mary was a special person and such a good friend and bowling companion. She will be missed by many. May all your great memories keep you and your family sustained at this sad time.

Katie Grier

June 29, 2023

So sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Michelle Hosch

June 29, 2023

McDermott Family
Extremely saddened to hear the loss of Mary. Prayers and thoughts to all of you at this very difficult time.
Thinking of you all
Michelle Hosch

Donna & Tom Klocke

June 28, 2023

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Michael Delohery

June 28, 2023

My deepest sympathies and condolences to all the McDermott family. They say your legacy is the family you leave behind and Mary, hit many home runs with her children and grandchildren alike. I know she will be truly missed but the memories of the love she gave and shared will last forever. May she rest in peace.

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