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John Rende Obituary

John L. Rende, Sr.

John L. Rende, Sr., age 88, late of Lockport, passed away peacefully at his residence Friday, December 12, 2014, surrounded by his loving family.

Born in Joliet, lived in Lockport since 1955. Retired from Lemont's Citgo Refinery after 38 years of service. He also owned and operated Rende Electric. A very proud United States WWII Veteran; he was a supply Sergeant in the US Army, Honorably Discharged in May, 1946. During his time of service, he received 3 bronze stars (cluster), The American Theatre Ribbon and the European, African and Middle Eastern Theatre Ribbons. He also received 2 overseas Bars, Good Conduct Medal, and the Army of Occupation Medal (Germany). Life member of Lockport VFW post # 5788.

John was a VERY active member of St. Joseph's Church in Lockport, where he ushered over 55 years, and also was active in Holy Name Society and the American Italian Cultural Society in Crest Hill. He was an active supporter of the LTHS Athletic Programs, his grandchildren's numerous arts and sports events. He loved to fish, hunt, watch sports, and do his electrical work. John was a loving and devoted husband, father, grandfather, great-grandfather, brother, brother-in-law, uncle, and dear friend.

Preceded in death by his loving wife of 63 years, Josephine "Jay" P. (Traina) Rende; a grandchild; his parents, Gaetano and Concetta (Loizzo) Rende; and two sisters, Infant Francesca, and Elvida Walker.

Survived by his devoted children, Jo Ann (John) Kohlhagen of New Lenox and John Jr. (Marcia) Rende of Morris; four grandchildren, Zak (Pamela) Kohlhagen, Zoe (Al Martinkus, fianc ) Kohlhagen, Brittany (Darren) McMillin and Ryne (Megan) Rende; two great-granddaughters, Natalie and Alyssa Kohlhagen; a great-grandson, baby McMillin due December 2014; a brother, Joseph (Corrine) Rende of Lockport; and a sister, Frances Pavnica of Joliet; and numerous nieces and nephews also survive.

The Rende family would like to thank Joliet Area Community Hospice and John's caregivers Antanas Buivydas, Wanda Hammerquist and Bonzena Bucko for their exceptional care and support.

In lieu of flowers, memorials to the Rende family, so that they may give to the various organizations that John loved in his name, would be appreciated.

Funeral services will be held, Thursday, December 18, 2014, 9:30 a.m. from the O'NEIL FUNERAL HOME CHAPEL, 1105 E. 9th ST. (159th ST), LOCKPORT to St. Joseph Church, Lockport for Mass of Christian Burial at 10:00 a.m. Interment Resurrection Cemetery, Romeoville. Visitation Wednesday December 17, 2014, from 2:00 until 8:00 p.m. Family and friends can sign the online guest book or to attain directions at www.oneilfuneralhome.com.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Herald-News from Dec. 15 to Dec. 16, 2014.

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Gayle Pesavento

December 9, 2019

Sending a hug, JoAnn. Holidays without a loved one are always difficult. Prayers for peace and comfort.

Sharron Mattera

April 21, 2019

John and Josephine were the nicest couple. I met them at Silver Cross and we became instant friends. After I moved to Mesa we stayed in touch by phone. They were so sweet together. I am so greatful to have known them.

Gayle Pesavento

December 21, 2014

So very sorry for your loss. Sending my love and prayers.

December 20, 2014

Sending hugs and prayers to you and your family, Jo.

Mike Mahoney

December 17, 2014

John, sincerest condolences for the loss of your father.

Sandy and Greg kipphut

December 17, 2014

JoAnn and family, With deepest sympathy on your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Chuck Elliott

December 17, 2014

John,
Sorry to hear of your father's passing.
Thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Donna Virklan

December 17, 2014

JoAnn, so sad to hear about your father. May he rest in peace. Many blessings to you and your family.

John Dzak

December 16, 2014

On behalf of JoAnn's Lockport H.S. classmates, I send our love and prayers on the passing of one so dear! We hold you extra close to our hears in this time of loss. Your LTHS classmates.

Joe Affrunti

December 16, 2014

John and Joann so sorry to hear about your dad my thoughts and prayers are with you and families he was a great friend to our family for a long time

BOB BASARICH

December 15, 2014

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Don Shepherd

December 15, 2014

JoAnn & John........just wanted to tell you how sorry I am to hear of your dad's passing. He truly was one of those born in the greatest generation. I remember talking to your dad about his WW2 experiences. His eyes lit right up. And I loved that your dad called a spade a spade. I can remember going out to the plant to get advice from my dad on something that of course could not wait. Your dad was right there with him to speak up. Those were the days! The world will be a little more empty without him, but I know your mom sure is happy! Take care and God Bless.....

Fred Clayton

December 15, 2014

Joe, so very sorry to hear that your brother John has passed.Please accept our very deepest condolences to you and all your family. Fred Clayton.

December 15, 2014

To Joanne and her family, my sincere condolences, it is never easy to lose someone you love and it is worse when you lose a parent! It's been quite sometime since I last saw your dad, but I understand you have had the good fortune to spend a great deal of time with him since your retirement, what a treat and I am sure you enjoyed the time. I know he will be sadly missed by you all. Remember the good times, celebrate his life, his accomplishments, his smile, sense of humour, his favourite foods and pastimes, and the family he raised. Lots of Love... Darlene

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