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Betty Jones Obituary

Betty Jones
Long time Wilton resident, Opera Singer Betty Jones, 89, died on November 7, 2019 at Norwalk Hospital with her loving family by her side. Born in Plainfield, NJ, the daughter of William and Mary Powell, she graduated from Plainfield High School in 1947, Sarah Lawrence College in 1951 and received an Honorary Doctorate from Green Mountain College in 1992. While at Sarah Lawrence, she met the love of her life, Eugene (Doug) Jones.
Shortly after getting married in 1954, Betty and Doug moved to Wilton, CT where they recently celebrated their 65th Wedding Anniversary. Armed with a degree in art, she started painting at home, appeared in numerous Wilton Playshop musical productions and became the soprano soloist at the Wilton Congregational Church. In 1970, CT's Governor John Dempsey appointed Betty as the first Black Woman on the University of Connecticut's Board of Trustees.
A Wilton neighbor heard her sing and arranged for an audition with the Boston Opera Company. As a result, on March 12, 1971, Betty made her first professional opera appearance in Boston at the age of 41, singing two small roles in "Louise". Her first major role was "Aida" with the Seattle Opera Company in 1972. Other major companies include: San Fransisco, Chicago Lyric, Mexico City, New York City, Chautaugua, Washington, DC Opera, etc., as well as companies in Italy, Germany, England and Australia.
In 1978, on exactly five hours notice, Betty substituted for an indisposed Roberta Knie to sing the leading role on Reiza in a concert version of "Oberon" at Carnegie Hall opposite Nicolai Gedda. Two days later as she was packing to leave for Weisbaden, Germany to sing Tosca, she was offered a contract with the Metropolitan Opera to cover Leonie Rysanek as the "Empress" in their new production of Die Frau Ohne Schatten.
In 1986, the Connecticut Commission on the Arts presented Betty Jones with its coveted Arts Award and a 30 minute television special on her life was shown on CT Public Television throughout the state. Past recipients include the legendary contralto Marion Anderson, jazz pianist and fellow Wilton resident, Dave Brubeck and the noted historian Barbara Tuchman.
In 2014 Betty published her autobiography "The Music In My Life", an inside look at entering the difficult world of being an opera singer when past the age of 40.
Betty is survived by her husband Eugene (Doug) Jones, children Jeff and Janet and grandchildren Samantha, Brandis, Wesley and Hunter. She also leave numerous friends who appreciated her sense of humor and sassy attitude as well as her spiritual and family values. She brought joy to everyone around her.
A Celebration of Betty's life will be held on Friday, November 22, 2019 at the Wilton Congregational Church, 70 Ridgefield Road, at 1:00 p.m.
For directions or to leave an online condolence for her family, please visit: www.Magnerfuneralhome.com

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Wilton Bulletin & The Hour on Nov. 12, 2019.

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Jeffrey Sisk

November 21, 2019

Betty was such an awesome lady, full of life and an incredible sense of humor. I will always remember who she would walk into the store with a straight face and then tell a sassy joke and then she'd have a huge smile on her face and her eyes would sparkle. Just beautiful.

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Joel Hutzler

November 20, 2019

Lois & I were friends with Doug & Betty for about 40 years. By chance we even vacationed in Hawaii together (unplanned) perhaps ten years ago. Betty was a one-of-a-kind. There never will be another. Her talents with music, her ribald humor, and sense of comedy will be missed along with the friendship between our families. My late wife Lois helped edit her book and my son Michael helped Doug with his Power Point presentation of her book. Unfortunately, the last few years were not kind to her.

Debra and Tim Davis

November 20, 2019

Dearest Jack and Jill Sister Janet-

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Our hearts and prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time.

Our Deepest Condolences,

Len Merullo

November 19, 2019

It was always a pleasure to see Betty's smilin' face. She constantly lit up SHYC with her charm.
She'll be missed.

Deborah Thomas

November 17, 2019

Betty and Doug were friends of my mother and father Isabelle and Lee Chandler.We were members at Wilton Congregational Church in the 50's and very early 60's.
On occasion as a teenager I would baby sit for the Jones "kids".
Fast forward to our wedding day August 26, 1961. Betty graciously lent her beautiful voice to our ceremony, singing "Panis Angelicus".
Several years ago we met after all those years at a Music and Arts concert at Christ and Holy Trinity Church, Westport.How time flies . Love the ones you're with.Oh Betty the world has lost a treasure indeed
Deepest sympathy to your family
Kent and Deborah Chandler Thomas

Sylvia Corrigan

November 13, 2019

Betty was my voice teacher for 15 years. She was a good friend, and a fine teacher. On top of that, she had a wonderful sense of humor!

She often attended my performances, and I enjoyed working with her.

I learned much about singing and life from her, and I was impressed by her knowledge and wisdom. The stories she shared about opera experiences, funny mishaps and challenges were priceless.

Her voice as an opera singer was gorgeous: I had the privilege of hearing her in a recording of Oberon.

Memories of her will always be treasured.

Betsy Heibler Pantaleo

November 13, 2019

Always laughing. My Mom worked for Doug Jones, Betty's husband. She was great friends with both Betty and Doug. Doug,My Deepest condolences. I will always remember Bettys' Smiles and her outrageously great laugh! She will be missed by all. With love, Betsy Heibler Pantaleo.

November 12, 2019

Betty and Doug were great friends of my parents, Dorothy and Alan Murphy. My sincere condolences to Doug, Jeffrey and Janet at the profound loss of this wonderful lady. I will remember her always. Hazel Murphy Morgado

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