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for Jason Pagni
CJ
January 29, 2025
Miss my friend!! Love ya!!
CJ
Pete Draovitch
January 28, 2021
No words can describe what he brought to peoples lives. Missed more than anyone would ever know. Everybody Rides.
Ryan Sochacki
February 23, 2014
Dear Pagni Family,
Words can't express how sad I am to hear of your loss. Jason changed my life in countless ways, like he did for so many others, and I will always look at meeting him as a turning point in my life. I was about 14 or 15 years old (1996), a brash hockey player from Long Island, and somehow our paths crossed. He put together a team called the "Connecticut Blackhawks" and I was lucky enough to land on it. I actually found a roster a few weeks ago and I think every person on that team played college hockey and at least 5 played in the NHL. I still can't get over that he was in his mid 20's when he coached that team! He knew so many people and got us into the best tournaments. With his help, our team was able to play in front of about 8 Prep School coaches at their rinks so they didn't have to travel to see us play. We played at Choate, Avon, Taft, Gunnery, Kent, etc. It was an amazing experience. Because of that exposure, I was able to attend the Taft School and my life was never the same. When I think of New England hockey, I think of Jay and what he meant to my family and I. My prayers are with you all and he will never be forgotten.
Ryan, Frank, Andrew and Lorraine Sochacki
Shane Lachance
February 18, 2014
Love you Jay, you were and will always be the best brother! Life won't be the same without you but hopefully we'll meet again in our dreams. Love, Shaney Banana
Sue Pagni
February 13, 2014
He was my guy who loved everyone
February 10, 2014
To the Pagni family, so sorry for your loss.Pagsie will be missed.The Gennings Family.
Anna
February 10, 2014
Jason was one of a kind. He had a kind heart and soul. He will be missed. My deepest sympathies go out to the Pagni family.
Marjolaine Beyerle
February 8, 2014
Hi Jay I just heard and you will be missed by the quiet one Marjolaine Beyerle and to your family I knew jason for several yrs he was a great boss.
February 8, 2014
Just learned of Pag's sudden passing....We mourn your loss and extend our heartfelt sympathy.
Tony, Sheryl and Tyler Skroski
Brian Masterson
February 7, 2014
To Jason Wife and Kids, my deepest condolences on your loss. I know it hits deep and hard, but know you are in many peoples hearts and prayers today and beyond. To Susan and Shane, thank you for giving me the time to share with him as a child growing up in Wallingford.
Jason and I grew up together, played together with neighborhood friends for many years. We played hard with and against each other in hockey and baseball, among others, but had fun doing it. I remember many days growing up just playing in street corners, backyards, driveways until our parents yelled at us to get inside for dinner and bed. Sadly he and I did not connect much after he went to Avon, and I moved to Boston. From the sounds of many of what I have read over the past few days since his passing, he turned out to be a very good man and friend to many, a mentor, and of course a great father to his daughters and husband to his wife.
Upon reflecting upon Jay's passing, I can only try to smile and reflect on the days and years we spent together, and I wish that all that knew him can do the same. While it very difficult to move on, mostly with those closest to him, hopefully the joy that he brought to your lives in the time spent will help with the sad times.
You will be missed buddy.
February 7, 2014
It is so quiet without you my friend. You were my older brother that always looked out for me. You were always there when I needed you and you always showed up for the biggest moments. I still can't figure out how you knew my son was born in the middle of the night, when no one knew Amy went into labor. Not to mention how you managed to sneak on to the maternity ward without any detection. Only you. Words can't describe what you meant to me and how you impacted my life. As difficult as it may be, I will make our Annual pilgrimage to Quebec this year without you in body, but truly in spirit. I promise you that I will carry your torch to the north country and forever thru my life. You have my word that I will watch over Katie and the girls and Suzie and Shane. I love you and miss you so much Jay.
your brother,
Toddy Carroll
The Bowerys
February 7, 2014
Pags you were truly a legend and we will miss your great spirit and laughter. You made the trip to Florida fantastic for all of us. We will keep your family in our prayers always and enjoy Heaven as much as you enjoyed earth.
February 7, 2014
Pags, You will be missed. You made hockey fun for my son & he really appreciated your sense of humor. You were a great coach & a person of character. What you have built at H3 and with the CT Yankees will not be forgotten. Our thoughts & prayers go out to your family. The Staffords
logan hobs
February 7, 2014
Coach pagni a great remodel and friend +my favorite coach
John Cifarelli
February 6, 2014
Pags you will truly be missed as we have lost you way to soon. I will never forget our superbowl trips and you getting us ejected out of shea stadium. Those are memories that I will have forever. My heart and prayers go out to your family during this time.
Pat and Maryjo Cannon
February 6, 2014
Pags was a true hockey legend ! Always looking out , to better someone else ! Nobody gave more to the amateur hockey scene than Jay, he touched so many lives ! Jay will never be forgotten ! To his wife and children , your in our prayers , God Bless .
Kerry Parent
February 6, 2014
Jay had such an impact on so many people and will never be forgotten. My prayers and thoughts are with his family at this difficult time.
Pete Draovitch
February 6, 2014
Jason Pagni
Pags was truly one of a kind. When I heard the news, I was sick. How could a guy so full of life be taken away so soon. He made people laugh, was NEVER to busy to stop to say hello, and helped out as many kids as you could ever imagine. There was nobody I ever saw that was liked by every different type of class of person like Pags. You just wanted him around. I missed not getting my annual Super Bowl weekend phone call. He was an unconditional friend. He liked hockey, golf, Avon and friends, but nothing did he love more than his 3 girls. Today we lay to rest one of the all time greats. Katy, Maddie and Gabby, I am so sorry for our loss. Pags KEEP PUSHIN
Joe Pereira
February 6, 2014
Pags- You were the best. You gave me my first opportunity with Hockey Opportunity when nobody else did. You always had fun hanging out with the boys. The rinks won't be the same without you. You will be missed Pags.
Joe
Joe Pereira
February 6, 2014
Pags - You were the best. Gave me my first opportunity to play with Hockey Opportunity when nobody else gave me a chance. We always had a good time with the boys. You will be missed.
Joe P
Ben Syer
February 6, 2014
Pags you will be deeply missed. I loved seeing you in the rinks as you always brought a smile my face. You had the unique way of bringing energy to a room. You made everyone you spoke to feel important. My thoughts and prayers our with your wife, daughters and entire family. Benny Syer
The Migliore Family
February 5, 2014
We are heartbroken that Jason is gone from this world. Prayers for strength go out to Kate, Gabby, and Maddy. He loved you all so very much!
John, Lauren, and Bauer Swift
February 5, 2014
To the Pagni Family, We are deeply saddened by the loss of Pags. Bauer loved Coach Pag's sense of humor the most. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Donald Hornish
February 5, 2014
To all the Pagni Family. My thoughts and Prayers are with you. Pags was a true beacon of light and I will always remember how he would light up the room with his smile and humor. Many laughs and moments I still think about to this day when we attended AOF together.
John, Lauren, and Bauer Swift
February 5, 2014
To the Pagni Family, We are deeply saddened by the loss of Pags. Bauer loved Coach Pag's sense of humor the most. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Mike Pomichter
February 5, 2014
To my good buddy Pags, A true friend and ambassador to the game of hockey. You will be sorely missed. Gone way to early. RIP my friend
Peter,Cathy,Jared Simon
February 5, 2014
To the Pagni family : we are so sorry to hear of your terrible loss. We are forever grateful for the time that Jason spent with our son, and with us as hockey parents. He made hockey so much fun
Ken, Dawn, Kevin Bunting
February 5, 2014
We will always remember the many happy days Jason spent coaching our son. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. May you be comforted in the days ahead with many wonderful memories. With deepest sympathy, The Bunting Family
Liane and Dave Sidwell
February 5, 2014
So sorry to hear about the passing of Coach Pagni.
Our son Cameron played for Jason and the CT Wolves.
Rest in peace.
The Sidwell Family
Mark Goble
February 5, 2014
You will be missed. Many laughs and fond memories remain with me from our days at Merrimack. My thoughts and condolences to your family and your many friends.
Damian Fox
February 5, 2014
Go-to guy.. The man everyone wanted in their foxhole.. Equally at ease dining at the Four Seasons or Contois. Treated rink mangers and hedge fund managers with the same courtesy. Could tell a story with just a look.. Nobody funnier.. Girls--- You will hear stories from your dads friends for the rest of your lives... You will laugh hard and know that he will always be looking after you..
The Kelly Family
February 5, 2014
Our sincere condolences go out to the entire Pagni family during this extremely difficult time. Coach Pagni was truly “one of a kind!" He had such a positive influence on our lives. His passion for hockey, generosity and good natured spirit will be forever remembered.
Tracy Marello
February 5, 2014
My deepest condolences to Jason's family. Especially his wife and kids who i had the joy of driving for a couple of his outings. He was so happy to surprise his kids to One Direction up at Mohegan. He wanted me to get them to think we were going to cut down a tree and see a gingerbread house. He was a very nice guy and i am so so sorry for your loss. Limo driver
Glenn Adamo
February 5, 2014
Our deepest sympathy and prayers for Kate, Gabby, Maddy, Sue and the Pagni Family. Pags was a one in a million and will be sorely missed...with love from the Adamo Family
Michael & Judy Pyskaty
February 5, 2014
To the Pagni and Bossidy family, our hearts and prayers go out to you for your loss. Our prayers are so God may help you through this diffecult time. MY GOD BLESS.
Jim New
February 5, 2014
Pag's you were my true friend. We will never forget you. Man we had some Fun!You will be missed by all. Our prayers are with you and your family.
Jim New and Family.
February 5, 2014
We are utterly stunned by this sad news. Our prayers are with you Katie and your sweet little girls.
Our deepest love and sympathy,
Nancy and Dave Hainsworth
Michael Ceppi
February 5, 2014
Pags....Rest in Peace my old friend. You were a great friend, teammate and always made us laugh. I'll never forget all the great times at Merrimack. You were one of a kind and you will be missed by many. I'll be thinking of you and your family during this tough time. Cep
February 4, 2014
My most sincere condolences are with you at this of need and the time to come. You and all your family are in my prayers at this most sorrowful time. Words cannot express the pain I am feeling for you and all your family. Marcia White ( Erin Carmody's aunt)
Marcia White
February 4, 2014
My sinersist condolences to Katie, Gabriella, & Madelyn, and all his dearest family & friends?, at this most difficult time in your lives.
Marcia K White (Erin Carmody's Aunt marcia)
Much love & peace for the time to com.
Kerry Garea
February 4, 2014
Kate, Gabby, Maddy and Pagni Family,
Please know you're all in our thoughts and prayers and we are always here for you....
With deepest sympathy,
Kerry & Nico Garea and The O'Keefe Family...
Jeffrey Moore
February 4, 2014
I had the pleasure of knowing Pags during my 2 years at the Gunnery School. He was an incredible person always knowing how to make someone laugh. I randomly saw him a few years ago at the Beanpot. My thoughts and prayers are with his family.
David Russo
February 4, 2014
My deepest condolences to the Pagni family. There are just no words. I had the pleasure of working with Jason over the past 10 months. He was a caring, kind, and generous person who will be missed by myself and so many. Each day was filled with fun and laughter, and no matter how busy, he always took the time to ask how myself and my family were doing. We lost a bright light. May he shine upon the family and watch over them. We will "keep pushing."
Angelina romano-estrella
February 4, 2014
So sorry for your loss. He was a great person and wil be missed. So sorry for you loss!
February 4, 2014
Katie,Gabby,Maddy,Sue and Shane Our condolences on the passing of Jason. He was truly a unique individual who brought light and laughter to all who came in contact with him. We had great times during our youth hockey days, and at Avon Old Farms. We looked forward to his appearance at our annual summer cook out on Cape Cod. He was a great friend to our son Todd. We will all miss him dearly. Our prayers are with the entire family. Ann and Rich Carroll, Cape Cod , Ma.
Joshua Ralby
February 4, 2014
My sincere condolences to the family. I had the pleasure and honor of knowing Pags for 4 amazing years. He will be deeply missed. My thoughts and prayers to all.
Robert and Gina Hall
February 4, 2014
Kate, Gabby and Maddy. Our thoughts, prayers and deepest condolences are with you and your families.
Matt Kelly
February 4, 2014
To the Pagni family I was able to spend time with Pags after college and we played many men's league hockey games together. He was a genuine friend and a hell of a prankster. We will all miss him.
Kristin Berry
February 4, 2014
So sorry for your loss. A terrific man taken too soon.
Christopher Berry
February 4, 2014
I can't believe you're gone! I will always remember our "fun trips" and all the times we just escaped getting into trouble as kids. My thoughts and prayers go out to your family.
Peter Pietrandrea
February 4, 2014
I had the pleasure of knowing "Pags"! I played in a few golf tournaments with him and if you knew him, lets just say, we won all of them. I had dinner with him that Wednesday prior to his passing and we had a lot of fun, me being the brunt of his ball breaking,we laughed! He bought us dinner that night. Had I known that that would have been the last time I would see him I would've fought him over who was going to pay. A great guy and I will have a lasting memory of that night especially when he showed us the video of him teaching his daughter how to drive a golf cart. You could see that he loved his daughters by the look in his eyes! Going to be missed by all!
Matt Murley
February 4, 2014
So sorry for your loss, "Pags" was a great coach and an even better friend to me through the years, thoughts and prayers are with you and the family.
karen and roberto carrasco
February 4, 2014
To the family of Jason Pagni,
We are so sorry for your tragic loss.
Debbie Roos
February 4, 2014
Words escape me...Jay always had a smile and a kind word.... The world was brighter because of you....
otto hornish
February 4, 2014
Jason and 2 of my sons attended old farms together, and remained friends. we saw Jason at this past yrs. old farms classic. he used to come to our house for pasta and hockey games with fellow team mates. a fine young man who brought joy and laughter to all.
Amy Trudeau
February 4, 2014
Dear Kate,
I am so very, very sorry for your loss. There truly are no words. Please know that you and your girls are in my thoughts and prayers.
With deep sympathy,
Amy Trudeau
lorraine williams
February 4, 2014
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
February 4, 2014
Jason was a young man who left lasting impressions, created great memories and left laughter in our hearts. No words can express this loss, he was a dear young man.
The Tozzo Family
Rosemary DeRoy
February 4, 2014
To the Pagni and Bossidy Families, I can't put into words how very sorry I am for your loss of Jason. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. May God be with you.
February 4, 2014
Kate and Family:
Jason was a special person who will be dearly missed. He was always smiling and always optimistic about every aspect of life. I am proud to have worked with him and to have called him my friend... With a very heavy heart...
Stephen Donovan
Jessica Chauvot
February 4, 2014
Dear Kate,
I was so very sad to hear of Jason's passing, Kate. You, Gabby and Maddy are in my constant prayers during this awful time. You have my most profound condolences and deepest sympathy.
Wendy Richard
February 4, 2014
No amount of time or distance can take away the wonderful memories of Jay. Sue,Shane the Pagni family&friends, you are all in my prayers.
Nick,Ron,Alex,Cynthia Vecchio
February 3, 2014
Jason took my sons interest and love for the game to a new level in a very short time.Thanks Coach Pags Our hearts go out to his family.
John Bossidy
February 3, 2014
Dearest Susan & Family,
There are no words…our love, thoughts, prayers and sympathy. Aunt Madeline & John Bossidy, Anthony LaMattina, Sissy & Joe Tobin, AnnMarie & Rick Unkel
Suzanne Sullivan
February 3, 2014
The Sullivans send our thoughts and prayers to the family. He was a great guy, always smiling. He will be missed.
Corey Roche
February 3, 2014
My thoughts and prayers are with all the family, so sorry for your loss
Bobbi and Ron CIslo
February 3, 2014
To the Pagni family
Our deepest condolences and heartfelt sympathy are with you.
Dean Capuano
February 3, 2014
To the Pagni Family,
The world has lost a beacon of light. Pags had a way to light up any situation. Weather it was through his sense of humor or the way he would prove he always had your back. My deepest sympathy-
CJ ,Lynn,Kailey,Jack Marottolo
February 3, 2014
To the Pagni Family,
Our hearts go out to all of you during this extremely difficult time. Pags was a special man who will be missed. He lived his life his life to the fullest and his caring heart touched all that knew him. When we lose someone we love , we gain an angel that we know. The Marottolo Family
Jim Barquinero
February 3, 2014
The Pioneers of SHU will always and forever be grateful for the support and enthusiasm that Jason provided our institution. We will miss his contagious personality that embodied a "joie de vivre" whenever he was in our presence.
Our thoughts and prayers are consumed with the sorrow being experienced by the enitre Pagni family. We are so very, very sorry for your loss.
Lisa Close
February 3, 2014
Sue,Shane and family.. My deepest condolances for the loss of Jason.. Thoughts and prayers for you all...
Gina,Joe,Juliana, Joey Seaman
February 3, 2014
We will miss Jay so much!! We are so saddened beyond words. He will never be forgotten by the Seaman Family!!! Kate, Gabby and Maddy we love you and will always be here for you! xoxoxo
Annmarie Mongillo
February 3, 2014
To the Pagni Family,
Jason was one of kind, my son Johnny loved him as a coach and person he looked up to. We all have very fond memories of our many hockey trips, especially the PeeWee Quebec Tournament! He will be missed by many.
Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this very sad time!
Tony and Annmarie Mongillo, Johnny Hotchkiss
Robert Dietter
February 3, 2014
My thoughts are with you. A great friend .Have many fond memories
Kristine (Tyler) Mullin
February 3, 2014
Sue, Shane & Family,
Such a painful loss to endure. We share in your sorrow and pray you can find peace in your hearts. We have such wonderful memories from Forest Rd~
Most sincere sympathy,
Kris (Tyler)Mullin & husband, Jim, and daughters Dena & Kelle.
February 3, 2014
Jason, you will be missed by many. Thank you for letting "the girls" play wiffle ball with you in the old hood! My thoughts are with Shane and Sue, your family and many friends. Kelle (Tyler) DeRico
Edward Murphy
February 3, 2014
Very sorry to hear of Jason's death. Our thoughts and prayers are with Kate and her Family. Ed and Elaine Murphy
CAROL RICHARD
February 3, 2014
SO VERY SORRY TO HEAR OF YOUR LOSS.
SINCERELY, WENDY RICHARD'S MOM, CAROL
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