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Shel Wappler Obituary

In loving memory of Shel Wappler, who passed away at home on Wednesday, September 2nd. A gentle man in every sense, Shel touched many lives with his humor, warmth, unconventional spirit and determination to stay rooted in the present moment. A gifted and beloved teacher, he taught 5th grade at Columbus Magnet school for 10 years and later achieved a life-long dream by becoming a certified Merchant Marine Captain. A dedicated water man, one of his proudest achievements was sailing his beautiful Agnes from the coastal village of Gweek, in Cornwall, England, to the harbor in South Norwalk. Shel’s passion for the sea and sailing was a constant presence in his life - providing joy, solace, challenge, satisfaction and deep connection to the world and the people he loved. Shel will be deeply missed by his best friend and wife, Karen Burns-Wappler; his gifted and beautiful children, Sam, Ivy and Will; parents, Reinhold and Jane Wappler; siblings, Sarah, Amy, and Peter; in-laws, Carol and James Burns, members of the Kerschner Family, many nieces and nephews, friends and his four-legged companions Theo and Petey. Shel was a graduate of Greens Farms Academy, Bates College and received a Master’s Degree from Sacred Heart University. A memorial service in celebration of his life will be held on Wednesday, September 9th, at 6:00 to 8:30 p.m. at The Shore and Country Club, 220 Gregory Boulevard, East Norwalk, CT 06855. www.shoreandcountryclub.com; 203-866-5157. In lieu of flowers, the family requests that contributions be made to: Shel Wappler Scholarship Fund @ Columbus Magnet School 48 Concord Place Norwalk, CT 06854 The Hoyt-Cognetta Funeral Home & Crematory has been entrusted with arrangements. Please visit www.norwalkfh.com for more information.

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Published by The Hour on Sep. 7, 2015.

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September 18, 2015

My sympathy goes out to the Wappler family during your bereavement. May God's loyal love comfort and help you through this difficult time.
( Psalms 119:50, 76)

~D. Reynolds

The Neisler Family

September 11, 2015

He was an inspiring teacher to our son Cameron in 5th grade at Columbus. We are so sorry to hear of his passing. Praying for shel' family.. He was a wonderful, gentle man.

September 9, 2015

My thoughts goes out to the family, I'll miss our friendship. Linda

Debbie Okun

September 9, 2015

My thoughts and prayers are with you all. It has been many years since I last saw Shel and the rest of the Wappler family but you have always been in my heart! xo

Nina Rodriguez

September 8, 2015

Shel was my teacher. It was only fifth grade, but I can say with certainty that he changed the course of my life for the better. Much love and gratitude...

Martha Moses

September 7, 2015

I will always carry the memory of Shel the summer i babysat Waldo
It was time to pick up Karen and I had prepared the house with welcome back flowers,etc. Suddenly, Shel arrived and insisted he was going to pick you up. I knew then a proposal was in the works.

The Barosky Family

September 7, 2015

With sincere sympathy to his survivors, may he rest in peace.

September 5, 2015

Dear all,
How blessed I was by Shel's friendship; no words can convey the warm memories I hold of Reinhold, Jane, Karen, Sam, Ivy, and Will.
Jean O'Dell

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