Stephen Joseph Miklos

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Stephen Miklos Obituary

Stephen Joseph Miklos, 61, Norwalk, passed away on May 12 in Norwalk. Born in Norwalk, in 1953, he was the son of Joseph Miklos and the late Lorraine Miklos. Stephen attended Central Catholic High School in Norwalk. He earned a degree in Theater from Southern Connecticut State University, and a Juris Doctor degree from the University of Connecticut. He worked for 30 years as a software programming developer, first at Cognitive Systems in New Haven, and then as a Vice President at CitiBank in New York City. He was passionately interested in technology, academics, acting, and all things regarding music. His talent always was a deep belief in sharing his knowledge, and he inspired others to explore these magical worlds. He was involved in acting with the Gaslight Theater and Something Players. He was a long-time volunteer tutor of English as a Second Language in the Norwalk area. Stephen’s dedication and expertise as a longtime woodworker, and devoted music lover also led to a second career after retirement. His finely crafted and artistically executed “Carrot Creek Music” hand-made mountain dulcimers and other musical instruments for playing traditional folk music were enjoyed by players across the United States. He participated as a performer and workshop teacher in Dulcimer festivals across the region, and was a key member of the organizing committee of the annual Nutmeg Dulcimer Festival in Milford, CT. Stephen is survived by his wife, Pamela McRae Miklos of Norwalk, CT; his father, Joseph Miklos of Virginia Beach, VA; his brother, Michael Miklos and his wife Monica Miklos of Norwalk, CT; his sister Pat Miklos of Clinton, CT; and many nieces and nephews. He is pre-deceased by his mother, Lorraine Miklos; and his brother, James Miklos. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Friday at 10:30 am at St. Matthew Church, 216 Scribner Avenue, Norwalk. In lieu of flowers, donations in his memory may be made to: Literacy Volunteers of Norwalk, One Beldin Avenue, Norwalk, CT, 06850. Please visit www.collinsfh.com/obituaries to leave condolences.

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Published by The Hour on May 14, 2015.

Memories and Condolences
for Stephen Miklos

7 Entries

Sudha Kailar

December 29, 2024

So sad to learn of Steve Miklos' passing. Yes I am late to learn and learned by googling to name to find out what he is doing now.

Steve was my manager at Cognitive Systems, and he was the best. He gave me a great start in career. He was a humble man; I did not know that he was a lawyer! He let us bring out the best in us by not interfering in our creating technical work. I recall with fondness his passion for technology, and how he gave me opportunities in both technology and marketing work with his manager Tolya Gershman to present to big banks in NYC. Steve Miklos loved theater and I recall he and a fellow colleague from another group joining Shakespeare on the Green in New Haven CT.

RIP Steve Miklos. You went a tad too early. Your memories are a blessing to all of us.

Robert Urban

May 8, 2023

Another fond memory: Steve played Van Helsing to my Count Dracula in Gaslight, Greasepaint & Co.'s local theater production of the original B'way play DRACULA. He was great in the role. Here we at rehearsal. I think the year is around 1970.

Robert Urban

May 8, 2022

Fond memories of Stephen: From left to right: Yours truly on flute, Tony Scalisi on bongos, and Steve on guitar. Performing at I think the Central Catholic High School sophomore year talent show - (which we won!). Steve was an amazing musician ~

Robert Urban

May 16, 2015

R.I.P. Steve - My best friend at Central Catholic High; just about the smartest person I've ever known; the guy who introduced me to the music I spent the rest of my life with; who onstage played Van Helsing to my Count Dracula; talented bassist, guitarist, flutist; musical colleague with whom I shared the most memorable performances of my high school days; who kindly drove me to school every day in that crazy old car; who took me to my first Fillmore East concert; philosophical sparring partner; brother and even father figure - Steve never let my weirdness get in the way of his befriending me, and of kindly sharing his immense talents, insights and intelligence.

A young Stephen with his father, Joe, and Uncle Tom at the Naval Academy.

Catherine Miklos

May 15, 2015

When I told Gabi that Stephen passed away, I reminded her of Stephen, her cousin with the eye patch that told her he was a pirate. Throughout my girls' lives, he always engaged with them in conversation as though their voices had value. Gab's eyes watered at the news - of the beautiful, talented man that always made my children feel valued. He will be missed.

May 14, 2015

Steve and I were best friends back in the CCHS, Gaslight days, we had so much fun as musicians, actors, but most of all, being friends.
Though I haven't seen Steve in a long while, he has always been close to my heart.
What a great family with Steve, Mr. and Mrs. Miklos, and the children. I'm just wishing that I could play one more tune with Razza.
My Best,
Larry Flynn
Norwalk

Kathy O'malley

May 14, 2015

You will always be remembered.

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