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Monsignor William J. Scheyd
Monsignor William J. Scheyd, 85, died peacefully on May 28, surrounded by his family and friends at Catherine Dennis Keefe Queen of the Clergy Residence where he resided for the past nine years. A priest of the Diocese of Bridgeport for 60 years, Monsignor Scheyd was born and raised in Bridgeport and attended St. Ann's Elementary School and Fairfield Prep. He completed his seminary studies at St. John Seminary in Boston, and later earned a Master of Divinity degree from the Boston Theological Institute. Monsignor Scheyd served in parishes throughout Fairfield County, including St. Mary Parish and St. Thomas the Apostle Parish in Norwalk, St. Augustine Cathedral in Bridgeport, and Saint Aloysius Parish in New Canaan. For 15 years, he served as Vicar General of the Diocese of Bridgeport, working closely with the bishops of the diocese and assisting on various diocesan committees and boards.
Active in ministry well past his retirement in late 2016, Monsignor Scheyd had a variety of other interests including cars and travel (including trips to the Holy Land, a trip to Rome where he had the honor of meeting Pope John Paul II). In addition to the many hats he wore as a Monsignor and Vicar, he also could be found on the beach every summer wearing a large straw hat and reading a book. Monsignor Scheyd was not only recognizable within the community for his good work, but also known instantly in public for his famous "mutton chops" sideburns.
Monsignor loved spending time with those he loved, especially his sister and her family in Fairfield, who enjoyed dinners together religiously every Thursday. He enjoyed summer vacations to the shore where he focused on being an amazing brother and uncle. He enjoyed good conversation with friends and family accompanied by delicious food. Monsignor loved to show off his cooking skills, and was particularly adept at omelets, and barbequed fish and shrimp. His passion for food extended well past his waistline to the most vulnerable, and he always made sure that no one in his community went hungry. He found great joy in serving the larger community in his role as Fire Chaplain, a position he held for 37 years in Norwalk, and 15 years in New Canaan. He also served as Norwalk Police Commissioner in the late 70s and early 80s.
Msgr. was extremely generous, and was always willing to lend a hand. Whether assisting first responders when tragedy struck, ministering to the injured, or supporting wherever help was most needed, his first priority was always caring for others. Blessed with a great sense of humor, he loved to laugh, and always viewed the world through a positive lens, urging others to do the same. His greatest gift was his ability to genuinely comfort others. His dedication to his Catholic faith was great, and he lived his life with purpose, bringing the strength and hope that comes from faith in Jesus to so many parishioners, friends, and strangers. He took great pride in helping to create Malta House, a residence and ministry for single moms and their babies.
Monsignor Scheyd is survived by his beloved sister, Barbara Scheyd Lasko; his nephew, Gene (Lynne) Lasko; nieces Anne (Steven) Barletta, Margaret (Michael) Harrigan, and Mary (David) Campbell; twelve grand-nieces and nephews; and one great-great-nephew. He was predeceased by his parents, William and Pauline Scheyd.
Visiting hours will be held on Monday, June 2 from 3:00 PM to 7:00 PM at Saint Aloysius Church, 21 Cherry Street, New Canaan, CT., followed by a Mass at 7:30 PM. A Mass of Christian Burial will be offered on Tuesday, June 3 at 11:00 AM at Saint Aloysius Church. In lieu of flowers, please consider a gift to Malta House, 139 W Rocks Rd, Norwalk, CT 06851 in Monsignor Scheyd's memory. For directions or online guestbook, please visit: www.Magnerfuneralhome.com

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Published by The Hour & Connecticut Post on May 31, 2025.

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Ginny Sorrentino

June 3, 2025

So sad for this loss. Knew him for years & basically grew up with him in Black Rock. He loved to laugh. Great memories Thoughts & prayers to his family.

Joan Carpenter

June 3, 2025

My sincere condolences to all of Monsignor Scheyd´s family. I´ve known Monsignor Scheyd since St. Ann´s grammar school. He was a wonderful friend and spoke at my husband, Gary´s, funeral Mass to my family and friends. He will always be remembered as a friendly, compassionate and God loving man. Billy, may you rest forever in our Lord´s arms.

BILL MCPHEE

June 3, 2025

Sincere sympathies to all of Monsignor Scheyd's family.HE was a regular visitor our house having coffee with my mother and her friends. Taught me Central Catholic High School and officiated at my wedding and my father and mother's funeral. GOD BESS HIM AND HIS FAMILY

Tom Pote

June 3, 2025

Pop scheyd thank you for 40 years of sobriety

Lynda

June 3, 2025

Monsignor Scheyd married us in St. Augustine´s Cathedral eons ago, however, eons before that, he snuck in with a group of kids from the neighborhood to see the Beach Boys in the stadium behind Central High in Bridgeport´s North End. No one dared argue with "the priest" or his group. It was a fantastic time and remains to this day one of my favorite memories. Rest easy after all your hard work.

Deborah bell

June 3, 2025

Rip william scheyd

Carol Zurhellen Bryan

June 2, 2025

My condolences to family and friends upon hearing of his passing. Monsignor Sheyd was associated with St. Matthew´s in Norwalk, where I first met him, in the early years of our parish. He was also my guidance counselor and religion teacher at CCHS in Norwalk. Monsignor always had a smile and a friendly word for everyone who was fortunate to know him; a truly spiritual man. I last saw him about 6 years ago at my home parish of St. Andrew in Stuart, FL, as he was concelebrating our Ash Wednesday Mass with Monsignor Blase Gintoli (a retired priest in our parish). Such a surprise to see him again! We spoke after Mass, and was genuinely surprised that he remembered me from so long ago. May his soul rest in eternal peace, and let perpetual light shine upon him.

Carol Zurhellen Bryan

Michael Beres

June 2, 2025

Along with others The eulogy Monsignor spoke at my Father funeral service in 2001 was
Example setting.
Father Bill as my brothers and l called him was truly loved and respected by so many, he will be missed.
May he Rest in Peace

Bob Rush

June 2, 2025

We are so honored to have you officiate our marriage 50 years ago. Thank you for your friendship. May you rest in peace.
Sincerely,
Frances (Wirth) and Bob Rush

Bob & Jackie Langner

June 1, 2025

I remember Monsignor Scheyd when he came to my parent's house for my going away party when I went into the military. That was 1966. He also gave me a St.Christopher medal which I still have. Later, 1983, he along with Fr.Martin officiated at our wedding. We will sure miss his smiling face. RIP

Bob Whitney

June 1, 2025

Dear Father,
It was pleasure cooking for you at St. Thomas Church.
May God be with you,
Bob

Walter Harrak

May 31, 2025

RIP Father Scheyd you were a true friend to my Mom [Angie] and my Dad [John] , you will be missed.

Allison

May 31, 2025

Monsignor Scheyd was at St Mary's when I was a kid. He was always so kind & special. We all loved him. God bless

Ed McManus

May 31, 2025

May eternal reat and peace be granted unto you Monsignor Scheyd for all your sacrifices, devotion, and for your always enthusiastic spirit.

Larry Porricelli

May 31, 2025

God bless Father Scheyd, he was a close friend with my father and always a comforting visitor to all of us, his smile was as big as his heart, his humor hilarious. Father Scheyd began his work in the church at St. Matthew's Church in Norwalk when it was a new parish where he was loved by everyone.

Donald J Lako

May 31, 2025

I knew him,when l was 10 y.o. at Notre Dame Day Camp,as Brother Bill. Pray For Us.

Gary Matregrano

May 31, 2025

Our sympathy to Father Scheyd's family. I knew him from when I was a young teenager. He freguently would visit with our gang and would take us to CYO and let us use the gym. We knew him as "pop" Scheyd. We never saw him without a smile on his face, He officiated when my wife Sharon and I were married. A true man of God. Our loss is Heaven's gain. RIP father.

Jane Halloran Ryan

May 31, 2025

Sincere sympathies to all of Monsignor Scheyd´s family and friends. Monsignor was a good friend to both of my parents and knowing my mother´s love for Hummel figurines, brought her two serving trays with their designs. He was also a wonderful friend to my father after my mother´s passing many years ago. May he rest in peace.

Frances C. Uva Parishioner

May 31, 2025

Dear Monsignor Scheyd´s
Family and Friends,
Please accept my deepest sympathy on the passing of Father Scheyd. He was my family´s pastor for many years at St. Aloysius Church.
He gave beautiful homilies. I can still visualize him in my mind, at the pulpit, turning his notecards. His words were
powerful and his message was
sincere.
He is now resting in Our Lord´s
Kingdom after being commended for a job well done...
Sincerely,

Linda Lasprogato Ball

May 31, 2025

So grateful for the friendship and religious guidance of this wonderful, holy man. Our family was blessed to have his presence at every wedding, funeral baptism and crisis large or small. May he rest in the arms of God.

Tony Bossone

May 31, 2025

I knew Monsignor from his time at St Mary"s A very compassionate man always friendly & helpful...He is now in GOD's hands RIP Monsignor

Michael Milne

May 31, 2025

Gene,
Very sorry for your loss.

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