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Michael Allen Shafer

1953 - 2023

Michael Allen Shafer obituary, 1953-2023, Grand Island, NE

Michael Shafer Obituary

Michael Allen Shafer

CASA GRANDE, AZ - Michael Allen Shafer, 69, died at his home in Casa Grande, AZ on May 8, 2023, of thyroid cancer. He was born in Grand Island, NE on Aug. 12, 1953, to Harold and Twyla (Stoddard) Shafer. Mike attended school in Grand Island, graduating in 1971 from Northwest High School. While enrolled at UNK for one year he played college football.

The next chapter of Mike's life took him to Lincoln, NE working for his father as an iron worker on the Bob Devaney Sports Center. He returned to Grand Island to raise his daughter, Jennifer. During these exciting and challenging years Mike built race cars, drove sprint cars, worked at Railcar, and Larry's Steel and Welding.

Mike's lifelong interest in history and politics led him to serve on the Grand Island City Council from 1990-1994. He had always dreamed of becoming a history teacher and coach returning to UNK to complete his studies. Mike also attended classes at Hastings College while an assistant coach to their football team, winning a national championship. Mike graduated from UNK in 1995 returning to his alma mater, Northwest High School, as a history teacher and coach. During his time as a teacher, and coach, Mike had an impact on hundreds of his students sharing his personal life story and challenging them to pursue their dreams and to never give up. He was extremely proud that his daughter, Jenny, became a teacher.

Mike married Debra Mettenbrink on July 6, 1998, on the beach on Cape Cod, Massachusetts. Together they settled into country life in Grand Island while sharing time with their family and friends. Mike opened his slot car shop in the old B&M building spending many evenings racing with his dear friends. He was an avid golfer, racquetball and pickleball player, motorcyclist, car enthusiast, and collector of memorabilia. Mike's love of history took them on many adventures together as they traveled.

Mike took every opportunity to honor veterans and their causes. He made several motorcycle trips to Washington, DC with NVAR and rode with the honor guard for military funerals.

After retiring in 2016, Deb and Mike spent their winters in Arizona. Mike continued to live his dream until the very end, sharing his love with family and friends, old and new. Summers were spent enjoying camping trips, attending concerts, returning to Cape Cod, and staying connected with dear friends and family. Mike also served on The NWHS school board after retirement.

Mike is survived by his wife, Debbi, daughter Jennifer and husband, Mike Ehlers, who was his forever racing buddy. He is also survived by his stepson Duston Larsen (Anai ) of Santa Cruz, Bolivia, and granddaughter, Paris Alexa Larsen, brothers Mark (Cindy) and Matt States, and several nieces and nephews. He was preceded in death by his parents Harold Shafer, Twyla and Frosty States, his sister, Michele Larsen, and his in-laws Norma and Elmer Mettenbrink.

According to Mike's wishes, a private family burial will be held. Everyone is invited to join us in honoring Mike's memory and celebrating his life on August 12, 2023, at Moonlight Ridge Vineyard, 8150 US-281, GI, from 4:00-8:00 pm.

An educational scholarship will be established in Mike's name. In lieu of flowers, please make memorial donations to: Michael Shafer Scholarship Fund, Five Points Bank, 2015 N. Broadwell, Grand Island, NE 68803

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Grand Island Independent on May 24, 2023.

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Colleen

May 22, 2025

Aww Mikkie you are and were one of a kind ...I. Miss you always ..in Casa Grande I hang out with Deb,Max and Millie, and you are mentioned frequently..You are forever young !! love ya forever !!

Colleen

May 19, 2024

Aww Mikey, I still get very teary eyed when I think of you, and especially reading you obit.. which was excellently composed. Even though we were pals for a few short years, you and Debbie became very special to me .. I hold your beloved Milli and Max and feel your presence very much. I will always remember you, and will forever continue my relationship with Debbi!! Until we meet again to "tip" our shot glasses of "Kissed Carmel" or your yummy peanut butter whiskey..

Melody Beckman

August 13, 2023

Uncle Mike Rest In Peace. Until we meet again you will always be in my heart.

Jim & Debbie Freeburger

June 3, 2023

Thinking of you Debbi, at such a sad time..sending my love and sympathy to you and yours. I cherish our old memories together..Love Debbie.

Colleen

May 26, 2023

Mike and Debbie have been a wonderful addition and gift to my life !! We shared lots of happy hours, with a little alcohol thrown in.. and overall joy. Mike would share his little "smirk" with me, especially when I would play with their adorable dogs and they would dance and bark with joy ..

Mike & Deb Cleary

May 25, 2023

We are sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Mike & Deb Cleary

Monica Ayoub McClure

May 24, 2023

Debbi and family of Mike I am so sorry for your loss. I hope the many wonderful stories and memories of Mike will be of great comfort to you. Again I´m
I´m sorry for your great and sad loss.

Margi Scripture Ross

May 24, 2023

I grew up with Mike as our mothers were best friends. Many cross country vacations in our pickup campers. Wonderful memories. Then we had new memories sharing winters in together at Palm Creek in Arizona
Mike was so many things : kind compassionate patriotic fun encouraging loving. He always made me feel special and that is a special gift. I will miss him and his wonderful hugs.

Pam and Dan Girard

May 24, 2023

We are so blessed to have known you Mike. You are forever in our hearts Dan and Pam Girard

Melody Beckman

May 24, 2023

Uncle Mike, we are going to miss you. Rest in peace.

Jeff and Karen

May 24, 2023

Oh Mike and Jenn I know your hearts are broken but to have loved and lost is better than never to have loved at all Your great memories are forever

Colleen and John Schroeder

May 24, 2023

Our deepest sympathy to the family of Mike Shafer. He will be missed by so many! Mr. Shafer was an AWESOME man!! Both of our daughters had the privilege of having him for a teacher and absolutely loved him!! He had such a unique style of teaching. He gave every student the chance to freely express themselves without the fear of being ridiculed, etc. He taught his students to respect each other and each other's right to exercise freedom of speech in a civil manner...He encouraged them to follow their dreams...to reach for the stars...and never give up!! Anyone who knew Mr. Shafer knows what an AMAZING individual he was! THANK YOU for sharing this WONDERFUL man with our children and community. May God carry you through the difficult days ahead. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. God Bless.

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