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Darryl Douglas McDaniel

1995 - 2020

Darryl Douglas McDaniel obituary, 1995-2020, Ithaca, NY

BORN

1995

DIED

2020

Darryl McDaniel Obituary

Darryl Douglas McDaniel

On July 14th, 2020, Darryl Douglas McDaniel, also known as "Heavy D", the man most likely to drop anything he was doing to help anyone in a moment's notice, passed away tragically and unexpectedly. Darryl was born on November 17th, 1995 to Janey Elizabeth Schweizer and Darryl Lee McDaniel in Columbus, Ohio, laying down the seed for what would grow into the biggest Ohio State fanhood in the world. While much of his family resides in Ohio, Darryl spent his upbringing in Ithaca, New York where he lived with his grandparents Elizabeth Grove Schweizer and Dr. Fredrick William Schweizer. Dr. Schweizer became a hero and role model, helping Darryl become the man we all came to love. Darryl deeply valued loyalty and his family; though his definition of family extended beyond those he was related to by blood. His commitment to taking care of his loved ones brought those around him closer together.

Heavy D's smile was always larger than life; from his early days at Cayuga Heights Elementary playing basketball and running the bases in Cal Ripken's little league, all the way through his work with the Paul Schreurs Memorial Program along side community activists like Eloise Barret and Jhakeem Halton, he always had a habit of befriending anyone he met. He always managed to excel in anything he put his mind to and spread laughter along the way. He loved to travel, driving for hours at a time (a trait he certainly inherited from his mother) to visit friends wide and far. A guy who was larger than life, literally and figuratively, Darryl ran his own security company - Top Flight - with a natural sense of entrepreneurship, expanding it into a serious operation with just the help of a few friends. Darryl brought a refreshing burst of energy into any situation he encountered - from athletics to music - and his passions were as wide and diverse as the multitude of friends he cultivated over the course of his incredibly meaningful life.

Darryl had a way of making everyone feel as if they'd known him for a lifetime, always there to lift you up. His smile was what drew you in; his fun, goofy demeanor brought people together in an irreplaceable way. He was the light in every room. Many looked up to him for the strength he had to get through his life challenges and continue to keep the glow he carried with him. He was always available to lend a listening ear or to help talk through any difficult circumstance, without placing his own problems ahead of others. He used his own challenging experiences as a way to make others feel safe and more at home. His all-or-nothing, not-a-moment-wasted attitude attracted the love of all different kinds of people. While he passed away far too early, his legacy will live on in the countless number of people he helped and impacted all over the world.

Darryl lives on through his siblings Ashley, Andrew, Darryl, David, Demetri, and LaTresa, his mother Janey Elizabeth Schweizer, and the spirit of his father Darryl Lee McDaniel as well as his grandparents Gloria McDaniel, Leroy McDaniel, Elizabeth Grove Schweizer and Dr. Fredrick William Schweizer. His memory will be cherished by all of his family members and friends. His legacy will persist in the memories of the multitude of people he helped throughout his far too short life, though those who were lucky enough to witness that legendary smile will surely never forget his charm. A strong and open-hearted friend - a loving and selfless brother. We'll never forget you D.

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Published by Ithaca Journal from Jul. 17 to Jul. 18, 2020.

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Russia

July 11, 2021

I miss you alot brother wish you were here.

Jackie Richardson

July 29, 2020

Darryl, you are forever in my heart. I will never forget your smile, brilliance, laughter and how really real you kept it. When I think of you, it is with authentic admiration, genuine respect and love. You shone so brightly and will continue to do so on the other side. It is hard, at times, for me to believe that you have moved on. Rest easy young King.

Eloise Barrett

July 25, 2020

Still can't believe that you won't be popping up somewhere with open arms and a big bear hug. Sending love and prayers of strength and comfort to the family and friends of Darryl McDaniel. May the memory his bright smile light up these dark days ahead.

Phil lip camp bell

July 21, 2020

You were a good friend to me, but I considered you way more than that. You were my family. My brother. We used to have so much fun double dating and hiking and mudding in the jeep with Latasha. I'll never let your memories fade , they'll always be with me D. Until we meet again, I love you brother.

Bill Moss

July 21, 2020

I coached Darryl when he played football at Ithaca High School. He was truly a team player and gave everything he could. I watched him grow into a young man with a helpful spirit. He would drop me a line once in awhile just to see how I was doing. He always refered to me as Coach Moss, his coach. Proud to have coached/counseled him, one of "my guys", he will be missed.
Bill Moss

jim Atsedes

July 20, 2020

Darryl's passing has been quite a shock to my wife Margie and me. We watched him grow up with his grandparents, and always enjoyed Darryl. He made us very proud as he became a wonderful young man, and was looking forward to watching his career grow. Many will miss him.

David Lykhvar

July 20, 2020

He was one of my best friends I can't believe he's gone you were just at my brother's funeral why? Why so soon: '(

Rae Williams

July 19, 2020

Darryl will be missed. I remember him as a student at Ithaca High School. Darryl made his peers laugh while we, staff, pulled our hair out because of his playful nature that often spilled out at the most inconvenient times. As a staff member I could not help but laugh at his jokes and playful nature, never mean, just wanting some attention and to break the ice in the class. A co-worker and I were just talking about Darryl on Friday, not knowing he was no longer with us. I will remember that incredible smile that would often light up the hallways of IHS, but more importantly, I will not forget the conversations we had when the room or halls were quiet and he needed to just express himself. Rest In Peace Darryl, until we chat again.

Jimmie

July 19, 2020

rip man heart breaks for losing a young brother to soon.

Sami

July 18, 2020

I love you Daryl and thank you for being there for me when I needed you the most you are such an amazing spirit and I will continue to light candles for you to got to to heaven you were too good for this world and everybody knew it from the beginning

Delshawnee Harris

July 18, 2020

I remember your birth and how proud your daddy was of you
Such a cute baby and a handsome young man
Your parents and grandparents were so proud of you and how smart you were
You will be missed by so many. I know that you are in heaven now with them and your cousin T, fly high angel and watch over your momma and siblings. With love & respect, your auntie

Sherese McDaniel

July 17, 2020

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.

Momma Love

July 17, 2020

D
You are soooo loved by so many, you will be deeply missed and forever loved!
You got Gpa now to look after you... please Rest Easy the Hard times are over.... your home honey... i love you forever!! My baby you'll always be.

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