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November 2, 2017
Dave was a fine Gentlemen who encouraged me early in my career in Ithaca as a Radio Broadcaster having moved here from Michigan. His wife Joy and Dave are two of the most gracious people I have been blessed to know, and Dave certainly is the toughest, kindest, most successful Ithacan to grace our community in many a decade.
I was away when Dave passed and am just now learning that he's no longer with us in our community. I think of Dave often and will continue to do so, as his courage, patriotism, and love for others, presents him as an outstanding role model.
I had what many in our staff thought might be, the unenviable job of calling on J.S. Barr & Associate's Boss for their radio advertising business. How wrong they were as I muddled through my sales pitch in the presence of the intimidating Dave Barr. After testing my cahones he not only placed a swell order with WTKO, but he became a trusted friend. Only once did Dave give me advice, and I didn't listen. It cost me!
11/2/17 Jim Gilmore, Cayuga Heights
Chris Knauer
September 18, 2017
My sincere sympathies to the Barr family. Dave was a wonderful man and friend who I enjoyed many hours with on the softball fields and the basketball court. His sincerity and sense of humor are traits that I will always remember. God speed Dave!
Guy Van Benschoten
September 4, 2017
Also a member, following in his father's footsteps, of Tornado Hook & Ladder Company #3, Ithaca, NY. He, his dad, and Mr. Button taught me the words to "The Fireman's Band" a nonsensical song of firefighting camaraderie when I was a young Bunker in # 3s room in the early 1970. We would sing a chorus whenever our paths crossed. Trust he and the other #3s members are tuning up now inside the Pearly Gates. A Good Thought for a Good Man & Family.
Nick & Michelle Nardi
August 31, 2017
Joy and family,
Please know that David touched so many people in Ithaca throughout the years in such a positive way. He will surety be missed. Our condolences to you all.
Sam Minor
August 30, 2017
Joy, just learned from my brother Dr. Ron Minor of the Cornell Vet School of Dave's passing. Bev and I are sorry for your loss.
At the same time reading his obituary brought back so many fond memories of our eight years in Ithaca during the 1960's. What great fun we had playing slow pitch at Stewart Park twice a week during the summer season. And we had a pretty good team, too.
We would never have guessed his age as Dave was always so full of life and so enjoyable to be and play with.
What very fond memories of our time with Dave and you during those years.
Very best wishes, Bev and Sam Minor
Bill and Patti Finnerty
August 30, 2017
I first met your Dad at the Commons Market while walking the beat in 1980. I knew right away he was a classy and dignified person. I was yes sir, no sir and being truly respectful. I learned early on you certainly knew where he stood! In my opinion, you have many of your father's traits. I recall conversations at the Market with your Dad regarding the activity behind his business... the Dugout being next door. Rather animated. Patti and I wish to express our sympathy to you, Shara and Abigail. May happy memories give you a sense of peace.
Marty Christopher
August 30, 2017
Dear Joy,
So sorry to read about Dave........he certainly was one great friend.........I think I was on the softball team when Dave finally "hung up his cleats".......he was always a "great competitor".......
Will miss you good friend......
God Bless.......Marty & Margaret Christopher
{formerly of Lansing}
Ray Price
August 29, 2017
Derek and family so sorry for the loss of your dad.I enjoyed many years of playing ball with your dad. Always gentleman. Condolences and prayers to you and your family
Garry and Gay Huddle
August 29, 2017
Joy and family,
We are very sorry to learn of Dave's passing. We keep you all in our thoughts, knowing that you will greatly miss this fine man.
Sincerely,
Marlon Byrd
August 29, 2017
Hey D Barr, I am sorry for your loss. Keeping you and your family in prayer.Marlon B.
Vicki Mumme Rosa
August 29, 2017
Joy and Derek - my heartfelt sympathies. Have many fond memories of Dave over the years. He will be greatly missed.
August 29, 2017
Dear Joy and Derek,I'm sorry to learn of Dave's passing. I believe he is in heaven washing his car or boat, and whistling with happiness. Most summer mornings I awoke to his joyful whistling!! God bless you all. Love,Marti Agard Spaker
August 29, 2017
Dear Joy, Dereck and Shara, please know that there's a great big hole in my heart reading that Dave has passed away. Rest in peace old friend.
JB
Butch Wyllie
August 29, 2017
Joy, so sorry to hear of Davids passing. My sincere condolences.
Aurelia Giorgi
August 29, 2017
My condolences to Kimmie, Joy and Derek. Many wonderful memories. David (Mr.B.) was a true force and had a very positive influence on me during my teenage years! My love and thoughts to you all. Re George
Arnold Tunison
August 29, 2017
Sad to read and hear about. Not only did I have investments with his business but played against him for many years in the Ithaca Softball League. As many will say, RIP David!
Heidi Miller
August 28, 2017
I grew up with the Barrs on Cayuga Lake.
He and his family were kind, friendly and wonderful neighbors.
Michael Pichel
August 28, 2017
My sincere condolences to David Barr's family and friends.
I first met David in 1964 at his officees on Seneca Street. I remeber his kindness and friendlliness..
Frank Uhle
August 28, 2017
David, thanks for the memories of fishing together and others, you are in my prayers, Frank Uhle
August 27, 2017
For Joy, Derek, Shara and Abigail and Kim/
I send my deepest sympathy to all of you.
I was deeply sorry to learn about
David's passing.
Love, Natalie
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