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Coggshall, Gordon E.

Boonton, NJ: Gordon Eugene Coggshall, known as Gene, Papa, or Boss, age 67, died Tuesday, January 24, 2012. Born in Ithaca, New York on March 1, 1944 to the late William L. and Josephine S. Coggshall, Gene was a 1962 graduate of Ithaca High School and earned his Bachelor's degree in English from Cornell University in 1966. He went on to earn his Master's degree in Fine Arts, also from Cornell University. After a year gallivanting across the country with his close friend Bill Snyder and a stint playing bass and singing back-up in his band, The Back Alley, Gene taught writing at Ithaca College and then worked as a technical writer at Perkin-Elmer in Danbury, Connecticut. Later, he was an executive with Lab-Volt Systems in Farmingdale. At each stop, he fixed up a fixer-upper, culminating in the complete rehabilitation of a beautiful Victorian in Allenhurst. In his early thirties, Gene was diagnosed with Parkinson's disease and retired to focus on his writing and his four children. Whether he was patiently teaching them to drive, repeatedly turning their socks pink, or making math homework complicated, Papa never let his children go without his gentle, affable presence. He attended every concert, recital, soccer practice, baseball game, and Brownie meeting. G.E. Coggshall was a prolific writer of short stories, plays, and poems, scores published by small presses and hundreds written with care and humor for his many friends and family. Gene was predeceased by his beloved wife, Donna Brogle Coggshall, for whom he wrote clever poetry and made black coffee every morning. Surviving are his children, who inherited his love of language, cats, and ice cream, Emily Coggshall Kahn, and her husband, Daniel, Mountain Lakes, Jane Gordon Coggshall McConnochie, and her husband, Timothy, University Park, Maryland, Paul Daniel Coggshall, and his wife, Vanessa, Fanwood, and Elizabeth Learn Coggshall, and her husband, Paul Ellis, Jersey City. His grandchildren, to whom he surely passed on his love of music, puns, and ice cream, are Lily Josephine Kahn, Max William Kahn, Charlotte Simone Coggshall, George Muir McConnochie, and Emaline Lynn Coggshall. Also surviving are his siblings, William L. Coggshall, Jr., Menlo Park, California, and Joanne C. Thibadeau, Ithaca, New York. Memorial contributions in Gene's name may be made to the Parkinson's Disease Foundation, 1359 Broadway, Suite 1509, New York, NY 10018 (www.pdf.org). A memorial gathering for family and friends will be held at his daughter's home in Mountain Lakes on Saturday, January 28th from 3:00 p.m. to 6:00 p.m. All other services will be private. Arrangements were by Mackey Funeral Home (mackeyfh.com), 107 Essex Ave., Boonton.

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Published by Ithaca Journal on Jan. 27, 2012.

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January 31, 2012

I am deeply saddened to hear of Gene's passing. He was simply a wonderful, bright, joyful person possessed of a great sense of humor with whom I shared great times in our college days and a bit thereafter;. He was the bass player in our band the Bravados at Cornell circa 1965-66 and we played at fraternity parties and clubs throughout the area. That summer of 1966 Gene joined the Long Island version of the group and we had a triumph playing at the Staw Hat in Mineola, the hangout for the St. Johns University crowd in those days. We got Gene a room in Far Rockaway and he enjoyed going to New York City to be a part of the music scene. We have sounds of Gene singing on our records and pictures of him in the group-fond memories indeed. Deepest sympathy to his loved ones.

Bruce Bergman
Lawrence, N.Y.

Steve Knapp

January 30, 2012

Very sorry to hear this news. I played guitar with Gene in the Back Alley in 1966-67. He was a good guy, and we had good times. My condolences to his family.

January 27, 2012

My condolences to the family, Jack Garifine

Blanche Volbrecht

January 27, 2012

So sorry to hear this. I took care of Archie and Vera at their home in North Lansing . I got to know Jo and Bill really well and enjoyed that time with them. The stories that Archie related to me have been passed on down through the years. May God be with your family...

Gail McDaniel

January 27, 2012

Although I never saw Gene as an adult, I remember him well from especially our elementary school days. I always liked him a lot, and his family.

I'm sorry for your loss, and hope you do well, with him present in your memories.

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