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JANA KELLY SHEETS
BAHAMA, NC - Jana Kelly Sheets of Bahama, NC, age 35, died Wednesday, January 6, 2010, at home surrounded by family. Jana's long fight against her rare disease, lymphangiomatosis, has been chronicled in several newspapers. As founder of the Lymphangiomatosis & Gorham's Disease Alliance, a charity dedicated to patient support and organizing research interest, Jana was known throughout the worldwide patient and medical professionals communities concerned with these two catastrophic, mainly pediatric diseases. She had devoted the last 4 years of her life to the cause of patients and families affected with these rare, poorly understood, orphan-diseases. Jana was also a founding Board Member of the Lung Transplant Foundation, Durham, NC.
Jana was born in Basking Ridge, NJ and lived in Mendham, NJ, Berlin, NJ, Ithaca, NY, and Delray Beach, FL, moving with her loving and caring husband, Eric D. Sheets, to the Durham, NC area for a life-saving double-lung transplant 6 years ago at Duke University Medical Center. She graduated from Ithaca High School in 1992, and attended Ithaca College. Until she was no longer able to work, Jana was a product manager, and special assistant to the vice president of Rexall-Sundown, a supplement product company in Boca Raton, FL. Jana was a devout Christian who honored her Lord and Savior every day.
Eric and Jana spent so many wonderful years together since their marriage on Sanibel Island, FL in 2003, living first in Delray Beach and then in their current home in Bahama, NC. A highlight of her life included the many frequent visits to their NC home by her stepson, Gavin D. Sheets, 12, of Delray Beach.
Jana is survived by her dear soul mate – who loved and cared for her in her most difficult times – Eric Sheets; and her stepson, Gavin; and by her mother, Suzanne E. Fitzsimmons, Greensboro, NC; father, Jack Kelly, Boca Raton, FL; sister, Megan B. Kelly, NY, NY; brother, Brock Fitzsimmons, Port Charlotte, FL; stepmother, Carol Harris Kelly of Boca Raton, FL; stepsister, Jessica Harris, Orlando, FL; stepbrother, John Harris, Delray Beach, FL, and her two "babies" – the Kitties – Roxy and Techno. Jana is also survived by her mother-in-law, Joyce Sheets, Boca Raton, FL; sister-in-law Nikki Cook and husband, Corydon; and niece, Libby Cook of Weston, FL. Surviving relatives include more than three-score others including aunts, uncles, and cousins from Florida to New Hampshire, from New Jersey to California to Alaska. Jana was predeceased by her grandparents, Helen and Michael Kelly of Jersey City, NJ, and Beatrice and Joseph Wohlers of Harrington Park, NJ; and most recently by her former stepfather, Lloyd Fitzsimmons, Port Charlotte, FL.
On behalf of Jana, her family wishes to express our deepest gratitude to all who took an interest in Jana's health and happiness, and her work at the LGD Alliance. Special gratitude is given to Robert Cady, MD, Tim Damron, MD, both of Syracuse NY, Scott Palmer, MD, Tracy Holland, RN, R. Duane Davis, MD, and Jerry Eu, MD, of the Lung Transplant Team at Duke University Medical Center, the entire therapy staff at the Duke Center For Living, Chrissy and Gale – Duke Home Hospice team, the medical, nursing, critical care and therapy staffs at DUMC, Rev. Todd and Laura Maberry, close friends of Jana: Amber, Suzanne, Heather, Kristine, Dr. Laura, Teresa, Dave Cece, Ann Monthei and the many other friends and family who were such loving friends to Jana and Eric through good and hard times. We remember fondly, also, pal and friend of Jana's, the late Onjo Stevens. Special thanks to the VAC clinical teams at Children's Hospital Boston, Cincinnati Children's, and Wisconsin Children's. We wish to express very special thanks to a person who wishes to remain anonymous - a very honored friend of many years who has been Jana's angel. Please know that every one of you are dear in our hearts and will remain there eternally.
A celebration of Jana's life and work will be held at Duke Gardens, Durham, NC, at 2 p.m., Saturday, January 16, 2010. Dress is casual. Further information on the location is at www.hr.duke.edu/dukegardens. All who touched Jana's life are invited. No flowers, please. Jana has suggested that anyone wishing to honor her life and her work may make a gift to the LGD Alliance, 19919 Villa Lante Place, Boca Raton, FL 33434.

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Published by Ithaca Journal on Jan. 8, 2010.

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Gary Ravas

January 18, 2010

I am so sorry of your loss. Jana was a very active individual and will be close to many in both their thoughts and prayers!

chuck johnson

January 13, 2010

Jack, my thoughts and prayers are with you and Jana's family. I only had the pleasure of meeting Jana twice at family functions and she was a delightful young lady. You have so much to be proud of having such a wonderful daughter. God Bless You.

Jerry & Vicky Welch

January 12, 2010

Eric, our prayers are with you and your family

Brian, Lynda and Tyler Schrimpsher

January 11, 2010

Our hearts go out to you at this time and in the days ahead.

January 10, 2010

Jana- It was wonderful to meet you, you had this amazing ability to relate to just about anyone. It was truly a privilege to know you.
God Bless you, Eric, your family and large network of loving friends.
The Yu Family

January 10, 2010

Eric, Our thoughts & prayers are with you ...remember Jana ay have left this earth but she is always with you.....Paul & Jamie Sellers

Celia Hooper

January 10, 2010

Jana's life is such a legacy and I know you were proud of her work and life, although too short. You are in my thoughts, Celia Hooper

Amber, Jason, Jaymes, and Sierra Lesovoy

January 10, 2010

Sue, Megan, and Brock,

We are so sorry for your loss. Jana was a wonderful, happy, smiling person, and we feel very fortunate to have known her. You are all in our thoughts.

Nancy Richeson

January 10, 2010

Sue: I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your beautiful daughter. The last couple of days I wore the necklace she made that Linda and you gave me a few years ago. Wearing her necklace kept you in my thoughts. Please know I am thinking of you during this painful time.

Lin

January 10, 2010

Dear Sue, Megan, and Brock,

I know how much you all love Jana and the large hole that is now in all of your hearts. I am sincerely sorry for your pain and sadness. You must be so proud of your sister and daughter for her strength, courage, and the way she lived her life. I also love Jana and believe she will live on in all of you.

Tonya Orr

January 10, 2010

My heart is just breaking. Jana came into our family's life just about 5yrs ago and touched us in so many ways. Our daughter Dyan Marie Orr was going through such pain from this devistating dieses. Jana gave us hope even after our daughter passed in July of 07, that someday there would be a cure. She gave our daughter the will to fight and our family. Dyan fought so hard for two years knowing that she had a great friend out there doing the same. I am compforted with the fact they (Jana&Dyan) finally got to meet, and are in the arms of our Father. I am so sorry for your loss, but also so very proud to have known and been a small part of her life. She gave so much and asked for so little in return. God Bless your family and may he grant you peace. Forever a friend Tonya Orr

Bob & Carolyn Dodge

January 10, 2010

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

Theresa Peters

January 10, 2010

I love Jana so much. She had a constant aura of kindness and compassion, as well as strength and courage. She is someone I will look to throughout my life for inspiration and peace.

Kevin Matthews

January 9, 2010

Dear Eric,

Although no words can really help to ease the loss you bear, just know that you are very close in every thought and prayer and may you take comfort in knowing an angel is watching over you. God Bless you and Semper Fi my friend.

Chrissy Gresham

January 9, 2010

I will never forget Jana and the relationship we developed over the past few months. The smile that lighted up my day, that sweet voice, and the unbelievable love that she shared with Eric. It was a privelage to be with you all in the last days. I will never forget the feeling of her head on my shoulder. You will be greatly missed my friend...

January 9, 2010

Eric, Jack and Gavin,

Jana's many friends will forever remember her for her courage and determination in fighting her dred disease. Four years ago, when I first came to know her at the Duke Center for Living, I admired her cheerful, friendly attitlude as she exercised diligently in gaining strength to fight for her life. After I came to know her I asked how she maintained such a cheerful attitude, knowing that her prognosis for a long life was negative. Her straightforward answer was, "I pray a lot."

Jana's efforts in creating the LGDA foundation illustrates her attitude,"If not for me, then for others." As you know, through the Alliance she hoped to fund medical research to enhance recognition of and a cure for Lymphangiomatosis and Gorham's Disease. Hopefully many doctors will follow her in these efforts.

Each of you and your family miss her greatly, but know that she continues to live through others who will benefit from having known her. I feel honored to be counted as one of her friends.

Sincerely,

Cy Matheson
Durham, NC

Megan Denison

January 9, 2010

"God saw you getting weary, he did what he thought best; he put his arms around you and said, "Come and Rest". He opened up His golden gates on that heartbreaking day, and with His arms around you, you gently slipped away. It breaks our hearts to loose you, you did not go alone; a part of us went with you the day God called you home."
My thoughts and prayers are with Jana's Family during this difficult time. She was an inspiration to anyone who knew her, especially the lives she touched through her teachings, her work. Jana, you will truely be missed.

bp

January 9, 2010

Jana, as a dear friend of my sisters, you have inspired me during a difficult time in my life. You were so beautiful and vibrant, always reminding us that illness is only part of who we are. You were so much more, to so many. You will be deeply missed.

January 9, 2010

I lived next door to Jack Kelly in Mendham for many years and remember his little girls well. I was fortunate to meet them again as lovely young women. It is so sad to lose someone so young. My sympathy and prayers go to all Jana's family. Mary Lee Cullen, Stuart, FL

Polly Wood

January 9, 2010

Dear Sweet Jana (Jayna as you used to like to spell your name in middle school), My love swells with Gratitude for the chance to have shared an important part of my life with you. I will never forget the wonderful, times we had. My heart goes out to your family and loved ones. May your bright spirit continue to soar!
Love Always through Time and Distance, Polly

Katie Mosher Patterson

January 9, 2010

I only met Jana though her "support" e-mail address at the foundation. She was very kind and took a personal interest in my questions. I know that her work has helped so many families -- and will continue to help others in the future. My thoughts are with her family and her extended network of friends and colleagues.

Dick and Pattie Stone

January 9, 2010

We mourn with you, the passing of Jana. While we didn't know her personally, we know that Jack devoted his latter life increasing awareness and driving for a cure. She must have been a very strong woman and we know that you are proud of what she was able to accomplish in furthering a cure and know that her spirit lives on.

January 9, 2010

Dear Suzanne,

My deepest sympathy to you and your family. Jana has a beautiful life to celebrate.

Ann Kolanowski

Bruce White

January 9, 2010

My thoughts are with her family at this time. I am honored to have met such a wonderful person. Stay strong, Eric.

Beverly Cordes

January 9, 2010

My sympathies to the family of Jana. I met Jana at the center for living and she was described as the little on with the beautiful blue eyes. She had a smile that exuded warmth and a fighting yet tender spirit. I am grateful I had the opportunity to cross paths with her because people like her are a true inspiration and leader. I pray God comfort you all in your time of mourning anf grant you peace.

January 8, 2010

Dear Jack and Sam,
Joe and I have such wondweful memories of your family when you lived next door to us in Mendham. Jana was always the quieter younger sister. I can't even imagine the grief you are suffering now. However you raised a wonderful and caring young woman.

Our deepest sympathy to both of you and her husband.

Mimi and Joe Lesnowski
Williamsburg Virginia

Judy Rosen

January 8, 2010

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Donnie Barham

January 8, 2010

Eric, Hang in there and keep your head up. The man upstairs will see you through it. He only takes the best for a short time until we see them again up there at home. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Joy Fink

January 8, 2010

My fondest memories of Jana are as a smiling,loving,5 year old. She was quiet, obedient, so willing to please with a warmth that surrounded her. All qualities she carried throughtout her short life that made her so special to so many people. My heart aches for the lost her family is experiencing but she lives on in each of us who treasured her friendship and love.

January 8, 2010

thoughts and prayers to the Kelly/Sheets family, Jana will always be in my heart.~ Tim Amici (Mebane N.C.)

Mike Tea

January 8, 2010

A tragic loss, of such a bright soul. My heart pours out to the close friends and family suffering at this time. You will be missed Jana.

Tracie Holland

January 8, 2010

There are those people who touch our hearts for a moment, and those who touch for a lifetime. Jana touched mine for a lifetime and I will miss the friend that God blessed me with for the last 5 1/2 years. Eric and family, please know you are in my thoughts and prayers as I know the difficulty you face. Please know I am here if you need anything.
All my love,
Tracie

herb neubauer

January 8, 2010

I feel honored to have known Jana since she began at the Duke Center for Living. Her presence and smile were always a welcome sight for all of us no matter how much she herself struggled and hurt. God will certainly welcome her home and she will be aguiding light for the rest of us left behind. Amen. May God rest your soul.

January 8, 2010

Meg and family please know that all of you are in my thoughts and prayers. Jana was a beautiful and inspirational young woman. I have many fond childhood memories of her that will forever live on in my heart.
~ Kim (Vann)Capalongo

Fred Wesemann

January 8, 2010

Eric, Gavin, and Jana's family,

My sincerest sympathy to all of you. Jana was such a warm and giving person, and her passing leaves a hole in so many lives. She was a great friend to Amber and an inspiration for so many others. She will be greatly missed by all who knew her.

Jack & Susan Elsey

January 8, 2010

I have shared in Jana's struggles and am walking the path she has now finished. I will always remember her and her sweet smile, even when she did not feel good.She will be missed by many of us who loved her. Our memories are all good and we will cherish those as we know you will cherish your memories. Your fellow transplant friend. Jack Elsey

Suzanne Maresca

January 8, 2010

My memories of Jana do bring me comfort! My thoughts and prayers are with Jana's entire family. I miss her so much! I know that she is an Angel for so many of us! Rest in Peace my Beautiful Angel Jana!

Jacob Rosen

January 8, 2010

"May there be comfort in knowing that someone so special will never be forgotten"

Brit

January 8, 2010

I know I am speaking on behalf of all of Jana's high school friends when I say that Jana deeply touched our lives and will be truly missed. She always wore a smile and was such a positive force. We will keep her in our thoughts and prayers. - Brit

Megan K

January 8, 2010

Sister Jane, my little birdie, I'll miss you every day of my life. Love, Meggy

January 8, 2010

Joyce, Eric, Nikki and Family- Let me express my deepest sympathies to all you on the loss of Jana. May God give you strength through the days to come.Always keep the fond memories close at heart! If I can help with anything, please let me know..

Love,

Wendy & Tony

lisa mc farland

January 8, 2010

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Vicki Stein

January 8, 2010

Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.

marie dexter

January 8, 2010

Eric, and Jana's family. I know that Jana rejoices in the presence of our Lord, Her eyes are filled with the throne, her ears with the Chorus HOLY HOLY HOLY. And she joins her precious voice with those.
I know your hearts are breaking. The Lord's heart shares your pain. He hates death too, as scripture says, the last enemy death will be done away with. He hates that we experience this pain even as He rejoices in welcoming His children home. He is with you and holds each tear you shed. Know you are in my prayers. Lean into the One who loves you more than anyone else.
Love,
Marie Dexter, Rachel Mayers mom

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