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Jean Frank Stark
January 28, 2024
I´m often reminded of Jane when we go out to breakfast at a local place. The smallish room is set in an old barn. The farm windows, wood floors farm-house feel bring back memories of the Dickenson family.
I wish I´d had more time to get to know Jane. I always appreciated her way of seeing, and getting to the heart of things and people.
Jean Stark
January 29, 2020
Remembering Mrs Dickinson in her home, cooking eggs and bacon for who ever was there and it seemed like many people came to the farm. It was a home of joy filled with singing, art, knitting, humor, food, cats, a dog.
In assisted living when I visited Jane she was as sharp as ever. She made me laugh, and helped me see things more clearly.
I feel lucky and grateful to have known her and the joy she brought to my family.
Linda Godfrey
January 28, 2019
Shes still my all- time,#1 hero.Ruth Bader Ginsburg is #2and theyre both Cornellians! Xo
Kay Mistlebauer
January 28, 2019
I still alwaysremember Jane. She was a wonderful woman. Full of humor , and grace; she had a big heart.. She had RA disease and was at all the RA Support Group Meetings she could attend . I enjoyed her wit and her kindness.
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Peggy Frank
February 28, 2011
For Amy , Rachel , and Anne , I wish for you the solace and comfort that cherished memories of your Mom bring you , and the reflection of her in the eyes and hearts of your friends and family. It was such a gift to spend some time with you Amy , at the State Diner last week with my Mom and Dad - all of us remembering Jane with love and appreciation - our families Mill Street Pond picnics , barbecues at the Methodist Church , coffee at Toads , my visits with her in Freeville the last few years - all so special - like her. She became a dear friend. My deepest sympathies to all of you and your families.
Mike Carver
February 22, 2011
You will be sorley missed. With out a doubt a wounderful aunt and
friend.
I never missed an oppurtinity to visit with you and learn from you
and now I am glad I had all of those visits---Thanks for all!!
Your loving nephew Mike
To the immediate family, I just now I learned of this due to electronic
errors, I will contact all of you.
February 22, 2011
You will be sorley missed. With out a doubt a wounderful aunt and
friend.
I never missed an oppurtinity to visit with you and learn from you
and now I am glad I had all of those visits---Thanks for all!!
Your loving nephew Mike
To the immediate family, I just now I learned of this due to electronic
errors, I will contact all of you.
Gerry C
February 20, 2011
She was THE Mighty Queen of Freeville!
Kay Mistlebauer
February 19, 2011
Dear Amy and family,
I so enjoyed Jane at the RA Support Group Meetings. She kept our meetings lively.
She will be missed.
I can truly say everyone in the group
loved Jane.
My Deepest Sympathies ...
Gerry & Ethel Curkendall
February 18, 2011
To Rachel, Anne, Amy, and Dickey, We're so sorry we missed Jane's funeral. We have just now(2/18/11) learned of her passing. She was a dear friend for over 60 years, as were all of you whenever you visited Newark Valley. We will always remember and chuckle over Jane's wry and insightful sense of humor. Remember that when Jane and Buck were first married,. they lived in my parents' apartment on the family farm in Newark Valley. Ethel and I have many fond memories of our friendship. She was a unique and wonderful lady.
February 11, 2011
To All: Grey and I feel like we are your family, and all of you, ours because of the old-fashioned visiting, dining and the sheer enjoyment of the friendships that have been carefully nurtured. Our pure sympathy, condolences and as always: Much love and many hugs, The North Lansing Larisons
Jack Schickel
February 11, 2011
Dear Amy and Bruno,
My deepest sympathy on the passing of Jane. She surely must have been a wonderful mother and friend. I regret never having met her. I wish you and all the family the very best.
February 8, 2011
Anne,Rachel, and Amy, I am sorry to see the passing of your mom. My deepest sympathy to everyone in your family. It is a sad time when we have a parent pass. Hopefully the memories of all the good times spent in the Freeville community will carry you through. Sincerely, Linda (Elston) DeWitt
Carol Sue Uitos
February 7, 2011
I remember your mother from when I treated her in physical therapy several years ago.We always had interesting conversations about history, books and the independence of women. She was a lovely, kind person. My condolences to all of you and your families.
Stephanie Mulinos
February 7, 2011
Dear Rachel, Amy and Family,
I want to offer my sincerest condolences on the passing of Jane. Though I did not know her well, I had the same fondness for her that I have for all of the women in your family. I have admired the mighty Queens for many years – your strength, vitality, intelligence, and humor, and I know that Jane embodied all of these qualities. She was blessed with a full life and has left a remarkable legacy. My prayers are with you and your family as you mourn her passing and rejoice the life she led.
Kathleen Stanley
February 7, 2011
Through Amy, I feel as if I know the whole Dickinson family. My hearts go out to all of you. I have such a distinct memory of visiting Jane (with Amy, Emily and my son, Will) in Freeville on a gorgeous summer day some 10 years ago. The house and garden were both so warm and friendly -- as was Jane.
Will you girls be singing at the funeral? It would be tough, but I hope you can. Again, I have fond memories of listening to the three of you harmonizing in that sweet little church.
Bob Glazener
February 6, 2011
Dear Family,
I only met Jane one time. She was so kind and sweet that I have never forgotten our time together. One of Jane's lifelong friends, Joan Hance Spaulding, was my loving companion until her death in 2005. I'm certain that Joan and Jane are having a joyous heavenly reunion. I share your loss.
Karen Spaulding Knout
February 6, 2011
To Jane's family,
My heart goes out to you all. What great memories I have of our families togeather over the years. Your mother will be greatly missed by all who knew her. I know my mother has her arms open wide and ready to see her. Talk about a dinner party, they will have many.
Marcy Schnurle Howell
February 5, 2011
Anne, Rachel and Amy-
I always thought you had the coolest Mom in the world - she was smart, funny, insightful and outspoken. And always willing to impart her "words of wisdom" on us as teenagers visiting your home in Freeville. So terrific that those wonderful traits were past on to her daughters.
My thoughts are with you.
February 5, 2011
I knew Jane in high school, but came to know her more fully when she worked for Cornell and I was also employed there. Her life is a story of strength, courage, and a determination to make living meanin gful and worthwhile for herself and her children, no matter the difficulties she had to overcome to reach that goal. Her life was,and is, a lesson in how to rise above adversity and physical pain. My sincere sympathy goes out to all of her family. Joyce Holmes McAllister
Marcia Miller
February 5, 2011
To the family of Jane, Sympathy and prayers go to all of you at this very sad time. Jane was a very special person to me and many others. I did her hair for years and did so enjoy our talks.
Bless you all. Marcia Miller
February 4, 2011
My Aunt Jane was one of the heroes in my life. I'm afraid that she never truly knew how much of a blessing she was to me each and every day.
To my cousins Rachel,Anne and Amy and my Aunt Millie and Aunt Jean: I wish that I could diminish your pain. Know that you are loved.
Jane, you and Mom are reunited! I'll miss you both for the rest of my life. Your niece, Nancy
KITTY BARBOUR
February 4, 2011
MANY YEARS AGO WHEN I WOULD VISIT MY DAUGH TER SALLY BARBOUR AT CORNELL IT WAS JANE WHO MADE ME FEEL SO WELCOME.....HER WONDERFUL SENSE OF HUMOR AND KNOWLEDGE OF SO MANY SUBJECTS MADE HER FUN TO TALK TO AND HER LOVE SPILLED OVER IN EVERYTHING SHE DID. I AM BLESSED TO KNOW HER......KITTY BARBOUR (ORLANDO, FLA)
February 4, 2011
Jane and I agreed that this was the BEST bathroom graffiti ever--
When I die
I want to go peacefully
Like my grandfather
In his sleep--
Not screaming
Like the other passengers
In his car.
In tears,laughter,and love,
Linda Godfrey
Jean Stark
February 4, 2011
I will always remember the warmth of the Dickenson home on Mill Street whenever I visited as a young child. The love, singing, sewing, art, imagination and laughter made it "home" and Jane stood at the stove most of the time making meals, feeding the cats and Tippy and talking about some important event in the outside world. Her views were always thought provoking. Jane's humor and wit are the characteristics that most took my attention when I visited her last year. It's good to know, I thought, that through all the changes we go through in life there still remains our essence of love, laughter and light that shine through the years touching hearts and minds so acutely. I will miss Jane and I will remember the laughter and inspiration she has imprinted on me. My heart goes out to all who grieve the loss of Jane to our physical world. My prayers and love are with you Anne, Amy, Rachael and your friends and families.
February 4, 2011
Dearest Anne and Family,
I've had the great pleasure of knowing Jane's daughter Anne during our work days at the University of Rochester. Although I don't know your dear Mother, the remarkable woman she was shines through in you, every day. I hope that you and her family and friends will find some peace in the days to come with warm and happy memories.
My sincerest condolences to you all,
Patti Pascarella
February 4, 2011
Dearest Anne and Family,
I've had the great pleasure of knowing Jane's daughter Anne during our work days at the University of Rochester. Although I don't know your dear Mother, the remarkable woman she was shines through in you, every day. I hope that you and her family and friends will find some peace in the days to come with warm and happy memories.
My sincerest condolences to you all,
Patti Pascarella
Corey Gettig
February 4, 2011
Jane was my first friend when Bill and I moved to Ludlowville. I have wonderful memories of her and all her children. I know she has found peace and no longer hurts as she once did. May you rejoice in all the wonderful memories you have of her. I send my deepest love to you all, Corey
Patti Pascarella
February 4, 2011
Dearest Anne and Family,
I've had the great pleasure of knowing Jane's daughter Anne during our work days at the University of Rochester. Although I don't know your dear Mother, the remarkable woman she was shines through in you, every day. I hope that you and her family and friends will find some peace in the days to come with warm and happy memories.
My sincerest condolences to you all,
Patti Pascarella
Cathy Lance
February 4, 2011
I remeber the cats at the farmhouse on Mill Street. I also remember the time Anne and I decided that the cats in the barn needed a home and I convinced my dad to come and get one for me. That little kitten put up the biggest fight, and attempted to shred my poor Dad as he tried to get his hands on it. We abandoned the idea and retreated to the house for first aid where the 'house cats' looked down on all the fuss from their favorite spots in the kitchen. Jane provided the nursing and we all had a great laugh about it afterwards.
My condolences to Rachel, Anne, and Amy and all the family.
Amy Jo Richards
February 4, 2011
My thoughts and prayers to your family. Heaven has one more angel.
Doris Hyde
February 3, 2011
So sorry to get this news. Love & prayers to the girls & families. Her pain has ceased at last and all will be well again in time. <3 <3 <3 <3
Mary Lee Buerman (Frank)
February 3, 2011
My heart is so full of love and gratitude for all the memories I have of Jane. A friend of my parents and then a friend of mine, Jane was family. She was always full of humor, great honesty, and much love. To all of her family, my thoughts and care are with you. I will miss her so.
Nancy Goody
February 3, 2011
Amy, so sorry to hear of your mom's passing. Thinking of you.
February 3, 2011
Randy and I have many fond memories of Jane. She was a schoolmate of ours and we have kept up all these years. However, we have not seen her in these last years but she has always been on our minds. One does not forget dear Jane. I remember her sincere interest in our lives and never really complaining about her suffering. I loved discussing books with her even though we didn't always agree. She leaves a wonderful legacy of humor, perseverenace in adversity, love of family and life to inspire us all.
Barbara and Randy Shew, Lake Helen, Florida
Dick and Ginny Lance
February 3, 2011
While still at the dairy farmhouse on Mill Street, Jane invited us to keep our small flock of sheep in her pasture. The creek rose after a heavy rain and we made a quick trip to the pasture to pull wet sheep onto high ground. We and Jane got a good laugh over this. She laughed a lot - I remember.
We're saddened to hear of her passing.
Michael Busch
February 3, 2011
Jane, Jane, Jane...my world is diminished without your presence. We had so many wonderful, beautiful, amusing times together for so many years. I'm so blessed to have had you as my friend.
Frances Kuffel
February 3, 2011
To Jane's wide wonderful family & her 2,000 friends: I have been thinking of you these last months & now, of course, you are on my mind constantly. What a gift Jane is -- & what gifts she brought her children up to be. All of you are dear to me, nearly as dear as Jane herself continues to be.
Tom Roedl
February 3, 2011
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Julie Ball
February 3, 2011
To all the Dickinson family and extended family. We will remember Jane fondly...she was unique, intelligent and compassionate. I will remember sitting in her living room making Christmas decorations, with a fire going and hot cocoa....
She will be missed.
Miriam Brody
February 3, 2011
Jane, our companion of the lunchroom and the hallways of Gannett Center... my last memory of her, as were so many others, is of laughing together. I had told her I had had my cavernous dark noisome basement cleaned out for my grandchildren. Gone were the cobwebs, broken furniture, treacherous litter, where they tunneled and hid unsafely. "Miriam," she said sadly (only whispering then) "You ruined it for them." Indomitable woman. We'll miss her.
Patricia Cain
February 3, 2011
My thoughts and prayers are with our entire family. We will miss Aunt Jane.
Deena
February 3, 2011
Peace to you.
February 3, 2011
My sympathies on the loss of your mother. My prayer for you is that you will find peace in the memories that you treasure. We very much enjoyed your visit with our book club. It was the highlight of our year!
Barbara Hulbert
Friends Through Reading Book Club
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