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John Varga Obituary

JOHN VARGA
1941-2010


One of Lansing's deeply rooted families lost a much-loved member last week. John Nicholas Varga passed away at Solari Hospice Care in Las Vegas, NV on March 13, 2010. He had many admirers in the town of Lansing, many who will no doubt be smiling in the coming days as they reflect back on their moments with him.
John's parents were Steve Varga Sr. and Susie Varga of Davis Road in Lansing, NY. They had five children. John was their third, born in Ithaca, NY on January 31, 1941.
As a child John was always very friendly. He enjoyed sports and playing football. His sense of humor showed through everything he did. John resembled both the Syrian and Hungarian sides of his family with his broad smile and rich brown, mischievous eyes that always seemed to be laughing. He worked on the family farm before graduating from Lansing High School in 1958. He then proudly served four honorable years in the United States Air Force.
John's talents reached far and wide. He worked for his brother Steve's excavating business for four years and as Production Supervisor at Borg Warner for ten years. To many in the area, John is particularly remembered for his time spent as Building and Grounds Keeper at Lansing Central School District. He wore his blue shirt, jeans, and red suspenders almost as often as his bushy moustache. This attire was so familiar that on "John Varga Appreciation Day," his colleagues at Lansing Middle School all dressed in blue shirts, jeans, and red suspenders and donned phony facial hair to honor him.
In 1964 John married Joyce Maine, the mother of his son. They eventually built a house in Dryden where they enjoyed several years raising their only child, John Douglas Varga. John's second marriage was to Gloria Larkin. Like his brothers, John built his own home on Davis Road, which he shared with Johnny, Gloria, and her children, Richie and Lori Jayne.
While John's personal relationships came and went, his real partner in life was always his son Johnny. The closeness shared between them was palpable; "Big John" and "Little John" had always been a consistent duo. They lived together for many years, both in Lansing and later in Las Vegas. All extended members of the Varga clan enjoyed how the two playfully harassed one another, often whimsically threatening each other, and each referring to the other as "boy."
John's role in the family had always been that of comedian. A favorite pastime of his was relentlessly teasing his sisters-in-law, particularly Dixie. John adored his brothers, Steve (whom he called "Junior" the way that his mother did), Jim, and Louie. It was obvious that he enjoyed their company and they enjoyed his, often meeting regularly to have coffee, chat or play cards. Steve, Jim, and Louie have missed his companionship since he relocated to Las Vegas.
The Varga family will always have happy memories of jovial John... Father to Johnny; Brother to Steve (Wendy), Jennie, Jim (Gloria), and Louie (Dixie); Uncle to Stevie, Rob, Terry, Susie, Erica, Scott, Richie, Renee, Jamie, Josh; a close Great Uncle to Cierra Cain, Lindsie, Macie, and Justin Rifley, and several others that were not fortunate enough to know him; and a lovable friend to all. The Vargas invite you to help them celebrate and remember John this summer, details to be announced in the coming months. We are sure that wherever John is now, he has found the nearest casino and is charming many friends there.
Those wishing to remember John in the form of a contribution are asked to consider Solari Hospice Center, 5530 South Jones Blvd, Las Vegas, NV 89118 or a charity of one's choice.

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Published by Ithaca Journal on Mar. 19, 2010.

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Penny lee Todd

July 4, 2017

Prayers of comfort . Love and blessings to the family . Time to celebrate his life Penny lee and joyce Todd

Susie White

August 24, 2015

So sorry to hear of the passing of your dad , obviously I am years late in sending this but I have very fond memories of him

Penny Lee Todd

August 24, 2011

I grew up with the Vargas I am sad for your loss..Prayers to the family

Marty & Elsie Trinkl

March 28, 2010

To the Varga Familys.

We are so sorry to hear of John's passing. We have so many memories of John going back to the 40's. John was a very good friend.
Our prayers go out to the family during this difficult time.
You're in our thoughts,
now and in the days to come.

March 24, 2010

I have many great memories of John as a coworker at Lansing Elementary and more importantly as a good friend.
My prayers go out to the family during this difficult time.

Joe Lusk

Faye Ferris Grandall

March 24, 2010

I was so sorry to hear of John's passing. He was truly one of a kind with such an upbeat attitude towards life.

Scott, Sara, Aidan and Siena Miller

March 22, 2010

Nothing but the best memories of Uncle John. One story I always tell - He woke Johnny and I up at 5:00AM and told us we were going hunting. I thought this will be cool. 10 years old, shooting a shotgun, what could be better. Well, that was not the plan. Instead, he dropped Johnny and I off at the edge of the woods and told us to walk through making lots of noise. He was going to be waiting at the other edge of the woods. If we heard gun fire we should GET DOWN!!! Success! He scored a 6 pointer.

I also remember helping he and the rest of the family build his house in Lansing. I guess my first venture into architecture and construction.

Our deepest sympathy to Johnny. He lost his dad and best friend.

The Varga family has lost a wonderful soul - a father, brother, uncle and friend.

Bob & Kathy Kemple

March 22, 2010

John Varga was a "one-of-a-kind" special man. Thinking of him can't help but put a smile on your face. We extend our sympathy to his family.

March 21, 2010

I AM SO SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT JOHN. WE HAD SOME GOOD TIMES TOGETHER AND I WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER HIM WITH FOND MEMORIES. NOW IS THE TIME FOR THE FAMILY TO COME TOGETHER. PEGGI KNAPP {ALTAMONTE SPRINGS}

Libby Casey (Pinel)

March 20, 2010

Diane said it best with her recollections of Johnny. There is very little to add. I felt the same feelings and had the same thoughts when I heard of Johnny's passing.

There are so many memories of John that I will cherish forever. When I bought my house, I asked Johnny about it. I knew I could not take care of a house by myself. Of course Johnny said he would be there for anything I needed... and he was. He built my Florida room; he added a bathroom; he put new flooring the kitchen to only mention a few. One night water started pouring out in the bathroom. I did not even know where to cut off the water. A call to John and he was there within minutes. There was such comfort knowing that he could be counted on and I think it gave him great pleasure to be able to give of himself to others.

Of course he seemed to enjoy hanging out with "his girls" A call to John at 8:00 or even 11:00 on a Friday night "Hey John, want to go to the Turning Stone?" "Sure" "We'll pick you up in 15 minutes"

It seem only fitting that John would pass in the midst of March Madness. If you looked under the wall covering in the break room of the Elementary School, there would always be brackets sheets carefully hidden from view,marking the winners until the final game was played. He probably has the inside track on the winners this year.

John was a kind and gentle man. He lived life to the fullest and lived it "his way". Those of us who knew him were better off because we did. There are so many stories to tell about Johnny and those stories will keep him alive in our hearts. But it is not the stories that made the man, it was the man who made the stories. I will miss John. I had not seem him in awhile but that could never diminish the friendship nor the gratitude I feel for having had John as part of my life.

So read again the wonderful words written by Diane - she captured him so well.My thoughts and prayers are with all the family and friends who will miss John but will always smile when they think of him. Along with all the stories and all the memories I will cherish, I will also choose to think of John sitting at the heavenly casino where another Royal flush has just come his way.

Jerry & Ella Holden

March 20, 2010

Dear Varga Family,
Our sympathy to you all for the sad loss of a treasured family member.

Mickey Brill

March 19, 2010

Louie and Dixie,

Sorry to hear about John. He was a great guy and I know he will be missed. I remember playing cards with John and he was always a real character. Thinking of you guys in Virginia.

Mickey Brill

Chet Brion

March 19, 2010

I came to know John as a fellow umpire. John and I were partners for two years in the early 90's. I will always remember his sense of humor and his "gentle" way of telling folks what he thought was right. He was a delight to know and I will always remember the good ole days. I know he is at peace.

Marcia & Jim Miller

March 19, 2010

To the Varga familys, We send sympathy and prayers to all at this very sad time. Marcia and Jim Miller

Diane Daniels-Kone

March 19, 2010

Nothing can be said about John Varga without recognizing first that he was an original. While it’s true that we are all unique, it’s safe to say that John was more unique than most. It didn’t matter what the event or occasion – no matter how grand or mundane –John did it his way. (usually donning a pair of red suspenders).

He loved to help, whether you wanted him to or not – it didn’t matter what the situation was – if you were moving to a new house, John was there with his truck. If you were building an addition to your house, John was there with his hammer. If your sink leaked, he was there with his wrench. If you were sad, his shoulder was there to lean on. If someone wanted a golf tournament at Cedarview, John was the one to plan it. If the school needed someone to sell football tickets from the bed of a truck, John did it. If you were planning an impromptu trip to the casino, John would volunteer to drive. But that was John– your need was his need, your pain was his pain, your joy was his joy.

He embraced life with that seemingly endless supply of energy and good humor that was his hallmark. I called him by many names (JV, Johnny Vegas, Varg and just plain Johnny). But, I am most proud to have been able to call him “my friend.”

He was incapable of pretense in any form. No matter the circumstance or the occasion, John was always unapologetically John. Whether he knew you only 10 minutes or 10 years – if you were in need, and he could help – there he was. But better still was that he never expected anything in return. He did what so few are truly capable of and gave of himself with a pure heart. Maybe that’s why so many people were drawn to him – down deep, we really wanted to be more like him… fun loving, adventurous, and true to ourselves.

His son and brothers, nieces and nephews, sisters in law and friends will miss him – make no mistake, but we dishonor him if we spend too much time in our grief. John was not one for self pity. He held his cherished memories close to his heart, gathered his grief and sadness and using the love of those around him as his beacon – he continued on with his adventure.

If greatness is measured by wealth or power, then I guess John wasn’t’ a great man. But if greatness can be measured by the grief displayed at a little girl’s passing, if greatness is measured by living a full and active life and always reaching for the “jack pot,” then John was a great man. If greatness is measured in one’s devotion to their son, brothers, friends, work, community and heritage, – then Johnny Varga was an icon.

Johnny once told me that he hoped to die at a blackjack table. Well, he didn’t do that. However, you can be sure that he is flying with the “high rollers.”

My thoughts and prayers today are with John, Jr., Lou, Jim, Steve and their families.

Goodbye old friend.

Diane Daniels Kone (Umatilla, FL and Sylvan Beach, NY)

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