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Marion Jolly Obituary
FORMERLY OF LANSING - Marion W. Jolly, age 77, formerly of Salmon Creek Road, Lansing, NY, passed away peacefully on Friday, December 14th, 2007, at the Groton Nursing Facility. Mrs. Jolly was born October 28th, 1930 in the town of Dryden, a daughter of the late John and Julia Buchanan Wiiki. She was graduated from Dryden High School in 1948 and on August 7th of that year was married to Clayton Jolly in St. Paul's UM Church, Ithaca, NY. Mr. Jolly passed away, July 30, 2003. Marion was employed as a secretary at the Tompkins County Trust Company, GLF/Agway, Ithaco, and retired from the Lansing Middle School office. Marion enjoyed dancing, music and making her own tapes, but most of all she enjoyed her family and loved to spend time with her children and grandchildren.
Survivors include her children, Joanne Jolly of Lansing, Rev. David (Donna) Jolly of Kingston, NY, Stephen (Peggy) Jolly of Lansing, and Diane (Robert) Parker of Lansing; her siblings, Ray (Margaret) Wiiki of Lancaster, CA, and Irene Tweitman of Melbourne, FL; seven grandchildren, Matthew, Christopher, Bryan, Sarah, Mindy, Robin and Jovon Jolly; one great-grandson, Benjamin Jolly; a brother-in-law, Donald (Beulah) Jolly of Holiday, FL; two sisters-in-law, Gladys Franz of Anacortes, WA, and Florence Wiiki of Freeville.
She was predeceased by her bothers, Roy, John, Jake; a sister, Julia Wiiki and an infant brother.
Funeral services will be held at 2 p.m., Wednesday, December 19th, 2007, at the Perkins Funeral Home, Dryden, NY, with Rev. Dale Austin officiating. Burial, delayed until spring, will be in Willow Glen Cemetery, Dryden. Friends are invited to call from 5 to 7 p.m., Tuesday at the funeral home, 55 West Main St., Dryden, NY. Those wishing to remember Marion are asked to consider a memorial, in her name, to the United Methodist Church of Freeville, P.O. Box 229, Freeville, NY 13068. www.perkinsfuneralhome.com
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Memories and Condolences
for Marion Jolly
Charles Wiiki
January 14, 2008
I am saddened by the loss of Aunt Marion. She was a kind and thoughtful woman. I have so many wonderful memories of her. I will remember her always.
Chuck Wiiki
David Jolly
January 11, 2008
In memory of my mom;
Mom had her ways of letting us know she loved us, and that she expected us to do our best at whatever we did. I recall her saying often, "Do a job big or small, do it well or not at all." It is not that our mom had no grace for the times we all fell short of the goal, she certainly did have grace second only to her love. Simply put she wanted the best for people and thought we should give our best as well. The day of my marriage to Donna, when the service was over she called me aside. She said, "Dave I have a gift for you that isn't wrapped. If ever you and Donna have a disagreement, you are not welcome home alone." This is a woman who understood the vow about, "and two shall become one." She didn't hold one person up to the standards or talents of another, and it wasn't about her judging or anyone having to hold themself up to a standard of the crowd. Mom we know you are at peace in a place with God which has no tears, no pain, that today you and dad dance like never before and he even likes it. As to us we miss you, we will for all time until we see you again. With love and thanksgiving for all you and dad did for us all. Dave (Jolly)
Ray Wiiki
January 9, 2008
Diane:
Thank you for sharing the most thoughtful and heartfelt message from Dr. Brennan. As I read it, my mind went back to the letter Marion received from the earthly home where our sister Julia had been living prior to leaving for her heavenly home. It was virtually the same message.
Sister Irene had taken the reins for Julia's care after our mother died in 1958, and she did wonders for many, many years, even with the heavy load she had of her own.
In the latter part of Julia's life, Marion was the principle giver. Then, when it came Marion's time, she became the recipient, and you kids took over. It warms my heart to see the legacy of love in action becoming a family tradition.
In the wicked and perverse world we are living in, nothing is as powerful as the love of God being put in action by those who care and believe. Thanks to all who had opportunity to sign this guest book. I know there are many more who share the same love but do not have access or means to express their love.
When it comes my time to go, please don't grieve. I'm looking forward to our family reunion second only to seeing Jesus Christ Himself in all His glory.
Ray Wiiki (Lancaster, California)
Diane Parker
January 8, 2008
In Memory of Marion Jolly . . . My Mom
Throughout all my life you’ve been a constant support, a great role model, and filled with encouraging words. I have been truly blessed to not only have had a wonderful mother, but you have been my best friend as well. We shared everything – the good times and the bad, secrets and feelings, laughter and tears.
I close my eye’s and see you so clear. You’re teaching me to walk, helping me learn, and holding my hand on my wedding day. Always constant and always memories of love. I recall Joanne and I flying for my first flight to see you and dad in Florida. Years later you and I would fly together for your first flight and enjoy a trip to see Aunt Irene in Florida. Sprinkled throughout you’d gave me a turn to comfort you. I’d hold your hand when you lost your brothers and sister, after daddy went to heaven, and during your final hours.
I recall when the most difficult times of life for me would occur; there you were there with a pot of your homemade goulash, fresh raspberries, cookies, or an apple pie and an ear to listen, a hand to hold, and words filled with love. Also the tears of joy we shed when Bob and I told you and dad we were getting married. I remember you thanking dad for 55 wonderful years of marriage and four great children when we didn’t think he’d make it through the night.
I remember the many weekends we spent together downstairs talking and laughing during your last summer. Your last birthday and the wonderful speech of comfort you left for all your children. The last Thanksgiving we were together (and much of the 48 Thanksgivings in between). I also remember so clearly holding your hand during your final hours. Being alone and (in a voice only a mother could love) singing Amazing Grace and Sweet Chariot while you were in a comma and knowing somehow you heard me.
The most comforting thought I have is that I believe I will see you again one day and we will walk side by side. Until then I will be missing you. Remember to tell daddy I love him and I’ll rest assured you kept your promise and had a wonderful Christmas in heaven.
Love always - Diane (your daughter and your best friend).
Diane Parker
January 4, 2008
Family and Friends
We received this following from one of mom's physician's and I was deeply touched, so I thought I'd share . . .
Dear Mrs. Parker
I noted with sadness that your mom, Marion Jolly, had passed away. She was truly a valiant lady and I admired her attitude in the face of numerous medical problems.
Her surviving so long is a testimony both to her attitude and to the tremendous support she received from the entire family. I believe it is the most intensive and coordinated nursing support provided by family that I have ever witnessed. There have seen patients who have survived longer as invalids, but never anyone with the combination of challenging conditions that your mom had. Nonetheless, she clearly appreciated the time she had, and I enjoyed seeing what was possible.
I know you are a close-knit family and that support will get you through this difficult time.
Sincerely yours,
Peter T. Brennan, MD
What a testimony to mom and the kids she and dad raised, and one great physician.
Patricia Mims
January 1, 2008
Dear Family,
This is an unusual request because I didn't know Marion or Clayton Jolly but I believe Clayton's father may have been the grocer who owned Jolly's store on Queen and Aurora Streets in Ithaca? Because of my wonderful childhood memories concerning the store, I would appreciate an email from a family member. Please accept my condolences for Mrs. Jolly.
Sincerely,
Patricia Stillwell Mims
Yvonne Wiiki
December 31, 2007
Diane,
I remember so many fun times at your house which usually included French toast, the snow mobile, laughing a lot and trying to “be quiet” (because Clayt would be sleeping) at the same time. I have sooo many great memories!! Marion and I had the same birthday and I always think of her on our birthday. You are in my thoughts in your time of loss. You will be missed Aunt Marion.
Hazel Ciocci
December 26, 2007
I was so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.
Flo Wiiki
December 26, 2007
It was always a joy to visit Marion.I could walk in any time of the day.Some of the time I wouldn't even call to let her know I would be coming.I would be greeted with a big smile,then ask if I wanted a cup of coffee,my answer was always yes.If I didn't show up when she thought it was time for me to, I would get a phone call from her.I think it was her way of saying it's time for you to drop in.We would always have a laugh or two maybe three or four talking about the silly things that happened in the past years we had a lot to talk about.She never for got to send me a birthday card,I got my last one the end of November (07)She will be missed by all.
Lauriann and Dave Nicewander
December 18, 2007
Joanne, Dave, Diane and Steve,
I am so glad I got to see Marion this past Sept. It is a nice memory. She is in a better place and at peace.
kathy berggren
December 17, 2007
JoAnne--My heart goes out to you during this time. I know your Mom so appreciated your constant help and love. Kathy Berggren
Carolyn Wenzell
December 17, 2007
Pastor Dave and family,
You are in our prayers. May the love of the Lord comfort you at this time. Your Mother is now at peace and at home with her Lord.
Karen and Ron Markisenis
December 17, 2007
To Pastor Dave and family,
We are praying that you'll be surrounded by the Lord's comforting love and filled with the peace that only He can give.
Jessica Holmes
December 17, 2007
My thoughts are with you Bryan & Chris as well as the whole entire family. Keep your heads up! I just lost my grandfather on November 8th, so I know the pain!! She's in a better place and just know she was loved by many!! Stay Strong!
Shirley Cobb
December 17, 2007
Dear JoAnn So sorry for your loss. I know the extra sorrow,as I lost my mom 33 yrs. ago during this time. Prayers are with you. Shirley & Bob
Ray Wiiki
December 15, 2007
There is not enough room to tell all the good things I know about Marion. Be assured that Jesus is saying to her, "Well done, thou good and faithful servant. Enter now into your rest."
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