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Paul Ditmars Obituary
Paul Ditmars, devoted husband, loving father, grandfather, great grandfather, brother, uncle, passed away suddenly on Saturday, November 16, 2019, surrounded by his loving family.
Paul is survived by his wife Helen of over 50 years; and children: John Ditmars (Terri), Ed Ladd (Julie), Shirley Ladd (Chuck), Jerry Ladd (Sharon) as well as many grandchildren and great grandchildren.
He is survived by his siblings: Sally Cooper, Shirley Akey (Wayne), Peter Ditmars (Lois), MaryEllen (Bart) Colendini, Sharon Kaiser, and sister-in-law Patsy Ditmars, as well as numerous nieces and nephews.
Paul was predeceased in death by his parents, Charles and Martha Ditmars, and brothers James, and Charles "Buster" Ditmars.
After Paul retired from Morse Chain, he took great joy in farming the land on the Ditmars family farm and restoring the home and barns on the homestead.
Paul was a man of many talents and interests. He loved riding motorcycles, anything related to aviation, (he was a paratrooper in the 81st Airborne 1954-1958. He was interested in everything mechanical, and music of all kinds. He was an excellent classical guitarist and frequently took his guitar to gatherings to play for friends and family. He was a man of strong Christian faith, and was a devoted member of his church.
Most of all, Paul loved people, especially his family and many friends. Paul's infectious smile and twinkle in his eye, and his willingness to help everyone, made him loved by all who met him.
He will be sorely missed by so many. His death leaves a huge void in his family and the community, but his spirit will live on in all who knew and loved him. Services in Paul's memory will be held Saturday, November 23, 11 am at the First Baptist Church, in Trumansburg. There will be a reception to follow.
Perkins Funeral Home is assisting the family. www.perkinsfh.com
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Beth Prentice
December 10, 2019
He seems like such a wonderful man. I am so very sorry for your family's loss, Shirley.
Peggy Lentz Seely
November 25, 2019
Paul was my friend when I briefly attended T-burg Central School way back in the 1950s. I had the pleasure of catching up with him and meeting Helen at some of the reunions over the years. Especially enjoyable was visiting with classmates at Paul's farm when he hosted us there. May warm and joy-filled memories sustain his family and friends. Please accept my condolences for your loss.
Kathleen Morrow
November 22, 2019
My sincere and deep condolences to Helen and the Ditmars family. I met Paul and Helen through my late grandfather Bob Doane. Paul was a great person and an inspiration to many. May God Bless his soul.
Ida Clause
November 22, 2019
Paul, you were such an amazing man! You will surely be missed by everyone that has come to know & love you.
I remember when you played your guitar @ my Wedding. I will always cherish all of the great memories that you have given me & my family.
I, know in my heart, that your up in Heaven, cooking with my dad (Paul Brown & family friend Paul Tavano) in the cookshack for all.
This is not Goodbye... It's See You Later!!!! ❤
rose liske
November 22, 2019
My sincere condolences to all of Paul's family. I couldn't have asked for a better person to work with at Morse - hard working, honest and a delight to know. May your memories help comfort you.
Denise Kooperman
November 21, 2019
Such a wonderful man...so talented, warm and funny...our deepest sympathies
Denise and David Kooperman
Cindy Stannard
November 19, 2019
My deepest sympathies to Helen and family. I was saddened to hear this. Thoughts and prayers to you all.
Ivy Presthus
November 19, 2019
Condolences to Helen, Family, and friends. Ivy Presthus
Gil & Lil Costa
November 19, 2019
Our Deepest Sympathy To : Helen , John & family
Paul was my best friend in the service Airborne All The Way
He will surely be missed.
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