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Ralph Ness Obituary
Trumansburg: Ralph B. "Bud" Ness passed away on Saturday, February 5th, 2011, in Crystal River, FL. He was born on April 3rd, 1928 in Bath, NY to William and Marion Ness. He was predeceased by his brother, William and has a younger brother, Richard of Jamestown, NY. Bud was a veteran, serving in the U.S. Navy during WWII. He was a devoted husband to his wife, Beverly H. Ness of 62 years. Bud and Beverly founded Ness Funeral Home in Trumansburg in 1950. Bud generously served the Trumansburg community as village trustee, as mayor, and was the village clerk for 11 years. Bud was a school bus driver for Trumansburg Central School for 17 years. In 1992, he retired and entrusted the ownership of Ness Funeral Home to Joseph L. Sibley. In addition to his wife, Bud is survived by his four children and their families: Christopher "Kipper" and Mary Ness of Lockport, NY, and their 5 children, Matt and Heather Ness of Trumansburg, NY, and their 2 children, Mark B. and MarieElena Ness of Ambler, PA and their 3 children, and Regina "Reggie" and Doug Langley of Avondale, PA and their 2 children. He is also survived by great-grandchildren, nieces, nephews and many friends. Bud enjoyed woodworking, hunting and fishing. He was also a longtime member of the Trumansburg Golf Club, the Rotary Club and the Elks club. Calling hours will be held from 7-9 p.m. on Friday, February 11th, at the Ness-Sibley Funeral Home 23 South St, Trumansburg. Funeral Services will begin at 11 a.m. on Saturday, February 12th, at St. James the Apostle Church, 17 Whig St, Trumansburg with the Rev. John Tokaz, OFM Cap. as celebrant. The family graciously accepts either flowers or contributions in Bud's memory to the American Heart Association, 17 Technology Place, East Syracuse, NY 13057. For additional information, please contact the funeral home at 1-888-534-5446 begin_of_the_skype_highlighting 1-888-534-5446 end_of_the_skype_highlighting or www.ness-sibley.com
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Memories and Condolences
for Ralph Ness
February 28, 2011
Dear Kipper and Family, Our deepest condolences on the loss of your father. May God comfort you during these trying times. Your dad was a great human being and did so many good things for the Trumansburg community. His years of service will never be forgotten!
God Bless,
Randy Swift and Bette Jean (Gardner) Swift
Liz Leboffe
February 16, 2011
Dear Bev, Kipper, Matt, Mark & Reggie: I was deeply saddened to hear of Bud's passing. I have many great memories of my time growing up in T-burg with your family. Sometimes I can still hear the cow bell! May God comfort you during this time and continue to flood your hearts with His love and Bud's loving memories. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Liese Ness
February 15, 2011
Aunt Bev and all my cousins, I just heard of Bud's passing, and want to be sure you know that my heart goes out to you. I hope you are strengthened and encouraged, having known his gifts all your lives. Although I do not remember him well, what I do recall is filled with fondness. Be well, and may you find peace in your wonderful memories. Liese Ness (Hamburg, NY).
Vince and Ruth (Radenberg) Campbell
February 14, 2011
Bev, Kipper, Matt, Mark and Reggie,
We were deeply saddened to learn of your loss.
Fond memories come to mind when I think of your husband/father at St. James Church, the T-burg Golf Course or babysitting for the family. He always had a big smile and was very kind…just a pleasure to have known.
You have our deepest sympathy at this difficult time. We're wishing you and your family comfort and solace.
Peggy (McEver) McCauley
February 12, 2011
Kipper,Matt and family,
I was sadden to read of the lost of your father. I did not realize how involved your father was in the Trumansburg community. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
Carol Sue uitos
February 11, 2011
My condolences to you Bev & your family. My memories go way back to the days when I baby sat Kipper & Matt & also house sat. Bud was special to many people, but his kindness & humor will always be with me.
Nancy & Lew Cabello
February 11, 2011
Dear Chris,
We are so sorry to hear of your father's passing, he must have been a great man because he raised a wonderful son. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.
Paul Leboffe
February 11, 2011
Dear Kipper, Matt, Mark & Reggie: In many ways, your dad was a role model for me during my formative years in T-Burg, and I'm profoundly saddened by his passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your mom.
February 10, 2011
Bev, Kip, Matt, Mark, and Reggie I was sorry to hear of your loss. I'm glad I had the honor of knowing Bud. George Richardson (Stuart, VA)
Kathy Bowers Riddle Ricci
February 10, 2011
Dear Bev & Family, I am so sorry to hear of Bud's passing .... Keep your memories close and he will always be with you ... My love, thoughts and prayers are with all of you .....
M Hayward
February 10, 2011
Bud was a wonderful man, a rock to lean on when life dealt us blows. A privilage to have known him, and his family. May time bring you comfort. When I think of the people I have known, I think not of the great, but the good.
Dick&Ann Hitchcock
February 10, 2011
Bev and family,Rick just told us about Bud's passing,our prayers are with you and your family,your family will always have a warm place in out hearts Bev.T-BURG was a wonderful place to bring up our kids thanks to people like you and Bud! take care Bev and God be with you. Dick and Ann Hitchcock,Daytona Beach Shores
February 10, 2011
Dear Kipper and Matt and family,
So sorry to hear of your loss. May God bring you peace and comfort during this difficult time, for you and your extended family. Sincerely, Mary (Bentley) Dunham, Cortland, NY
Rick Mehlenbacher
February 10, 2011
Reggie,
I and the Class of 82, would like to pass on our deepest sympathy to you and your entire family. Coming from a small town like Trumansburg, One gets to know most everybody to some degree. But it was our privilage to not only have your dad as father of a classmate, But he was also a father that was there for every event in town and drove bus for many of those events out of town. I know that the children he raised are all contributing to society and it was because he raised his children to be such great people. That in itself speaks volumes about what a great person he was...
I hope that when you gather with friends and family That you know that those of us not physically there are there in spirit with you.
Rick Mehlenbacher
February 10, 2011
Dear Matt, I am sorry to hear of your Fathers passing. May your warm and fond memories of him keep you at peace.
Susan Besemer Kaulen, Hiram GA
Dick Brewer
February 10, 2011
Bud was my school bus driver many years ago and was always a great guy. Please accept my deepest sympathy.
February 10, 2011
Mrs. Ness, Kipper, Matt, Mark (Moose) and Reggie:
I wish I could say something to make you all feel better......
We've shared so many great memories. Your Dad (and Mom) were a big influence in my life and I loved being a part of the "extended" Ness family. God Bless you all and I'll see you on Friday....Rick Hitchcock
Jody McCoy-Woods
February 10, 2011
Dear Bev and Family,
We are very saddened to learn of Bud's passing. He was a wonderful, thoughtful, kind-hearted man and I pray that your memories of him will help you through these difficult days ahead. Respectfully, Jody, Rod Woods and family
Larry and Anita Clapp
February 10, 2011
Dear Bev, Kipper, Matt, Mark and Reggie and Extended Family:
We were saddened to read of Bud's passing. Please know that we send our condolences and that you are in our thoughts and prayers. Bud lived a full life and leaves a wonderful legacy. May the memories that you have of him help you through the difficult times ahead.
ed smith
February 10, 2011
Hay Matt so sorry to hear about you Dad he was a great guy. I/we had some great times, hunting, and just hanging out with him back in the days.
G.W. & M.E. Lourey
February 10, 2011
Dear Matt, Heather, Kirsten and Bryce, We are so sorry to read of your father and grandfather's death. Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers. Warmest regards, Greg & Mary Ellen
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