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Sarah Lithgow Obituary

Lithgow, Sarah Jane Price

1917-2012: Sarah Jane Price Lithgow died peacefully on Wednesday, March 14, 2012 attended by her daughter, Sarah Jane Bokaer. She passed her final years at Clare Bridge Cottage in Ithaca, New York. Sarah was married for sixty-five years to Arthur Lithgow, whom she met at Antioch College in Yellow Springs, Ohio, and with whom she lived a peripatetic and adventurous life in regional theatre, establishing Shakespeare Festivals, starting at Antioch and adding others throughout Ohio and beyond. For several years, when Arthur was at the McCarter Theatre in Princeton, NJ, she loved teaching elementary school in nearby Allentown. She is remembered by a generation of classical actors for delicious cast picnics and opening night parties, and she is remembered by all of her family and friends for her wit, her wisdom, and for her dancing the Charleston. A lively writer, she delighted her readers with stories of her rambunctious childhood, growing up in Rochester, NY, next door to the Eastman (Kodak) Mansion, with wild teenage winters in Florida. In the weeks before her death she repeatedly told her caretakers, "I'm being patient and polite and doing it right!" Sarah is survived by her children: David, Robin, John and Sarah Jane; and by thirteen grandchildren and six great-grandchildren.

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Published by Ithaca Journal on Mar. 17, 2012.

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Eleanor Soler

March 21, 2012

I never knew Sarah, as I never babysat the Lithgow kids. Named my daughter after Robin as I liked the name. I still think of the family as Yellow Springs folk like myself though I moved in 1961! And of course I have looked for John in movies and TV ever since Garp.
My condolences to the entire family.
Eleanor Wise Soler, niece to Dottie Laming

Denise (O'Connor) Teeter

March 20, 2012

My heartfelt condolences to the Lithgow family. She has a special spot in my "memory bank" from more than 50 years ago when I was on an Antioch co-op job at a school in MA. Your dad was teaching at Stockbridge that year, and David and Robin were students...Your mom and her cozy kitchen provided a warm family spot -- a respite -- with her wonderful sense of humor and warm spirit. She taught me to make bread! You all have wonderful memories to share with your own children and grandchildren.

Joaquin Lira

March 18, 2012

My sincere condolences to Sarah Jane and all the Family. You are all in my daily prayers and thoughts. Love and Huge Healing Hugs from your old friend.

Jackie Perry

March 18, 2012

I will miss seeing Sarah when I visit CB. She always made me smile. She would say "Oh, I'm so lucky to have you taking care of me. You do everything right!!" My thoughts and prayers are with you, Sarah Jane, and your family.

Jane Jane

March 17, 2012

Sending much love and sympathy.

Ross Haarstad

March 17, 2012

My condolences Sarah Jane. Looks like your mother lived a very full and long life.

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