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JOHN WASLEY Obituary
WINTER HAVEN - Jay Wasley passed away Dec. 17th 2012 at Auburndale Oaks Heathcare Center due to lung failure.
Jay was born on Oct. 14, 1951 in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania to John and Kathryn (Kitty) Wasley. He was a graduate of Winter Haven High School and a member of the Blue Devil's marching band. Jay was an excellent drummer and was a part of the Southern Rock scene in Jacksonville in the 70s. He was a member of two bands that he truly loved, Cowford County and The Bonnie Gringo band. He considered his bandmates as brothers. After that he settled in Winter Haven where he worked for a respiratory service and continued playing drums in several bands and venues around Polk County.
Jay was preceded in death by both his parents and a loving stepfather, Jim Barnett. Jay is survived by his two sons, John Owen of Lakeland and Jordan Taylor (Loren) of Kansas City Mo. He is also survived by his sister, Susan Steorts (Jeff) of Winter Haven and his brother David James Wasley (Amy) of Houston Tx., two nephews, James Sherbino of Burlington NC and Mark Wasley of Houston Tx. and one niece, Maria Wasley, also of Houston Tx.
Memorial services will be announced at a later date. In lieu of flowers donations can be made to Good Shepherd Hospice of Auburndale, Florida.
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Sharon
August 9, 2013
I only just now found out about Jay's passing... I met Jay back when we were both around 20-21... I remember him as being a gentle soul with a sweet smile... May he rest in peace...
Jay Lock
January 14, 2013
I am so sad to hear this news. Jay passes from Darkness to Light.
Kirk Hallinan
January 13, 2013
My best friend. I've tried for over 4 years to find him. I hope all is well with his family
January 9, 2013
jay and i crossed paths several times in different bands...rip my brother
Tim Hallinan
January 9, 2013
Susan and family, I'm really sorry to hear the news. Jay was one of the easiest people to be around I ever knew. He will be missed.
Mike farmer
January 9, 2013
Jay was one of the most optomistic fellows despite his troubles. I counted him a friend and he always gave me a smile and "thumbs up". I will always remember him as a possitive force in my life. Gonna miss you, Jay.
catie sundell
January 9, 2013
I met John about 10years ago he reached out and helped save my life I will always be grateful. John will always hold a special place in my heart. He will be missed.
Kevin Roggen
December 28, 2012
Susan, sorry for the family loss. Great childhood memories of Jay and the family. Our love and prayers go out to you and the family.
December 26, 2012
Susan sending lots of love and prayers your way. we loved Jay and the memories will always stay. peace be with you You were a great sister and friend to him and I know he is smiling down on you... Julie Case
December 26, 2012
Susan my thoughts our with you along with my prayers..Jay was one of a kind I loved him and so did my brother David. Now he is at peace....love be with you julie case
Kip & Jennifer Alkema
December 24, 2012
May Jay FINALLY Rest In Peace ... He fought the good fight for longer than anyone thought possible. Which anyone who knew Jay, knows he didn't have any give-up in him. May God Bless him & his family. They will remain in our thoughts & prayers. We will ALWAYS Love & Miss You. Rest now my brother, REST ...
December 21, 2012
was in the band with jay our sophomore year at whhs. always thought playing the drums was cool. jay helped make it that way. keep drummin man. god bless you and keep you. bill robinson, villages fl.
Jane & Garry Bumgarner
December 21, 2012
Susan, Our thoughts and prayers will be with you and your family. You were a wonderful sister and caregiver. Rest, be still, let the Lord heal your heart.
Tom Dodamead
December 20, 2012
Jay is busy singing with the Angels now and keeping them all in rhythm.
December 20, 2012
Jay is Busy singing with the Angels now and keeping them all in Rhythm.
robert rackelman
December 20, 2012
David-Sorry for your loss-If you are in town, please get in touch. [email protected]
Wynn Ostrander
December 20, 2012
A good guy...........sorry to hear this news.
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