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Alan Gonzalez Obituary

San Antonio - Alan Gonzalez, 25, passed away on December 21, 2024. He was born on September 24, 1999, in McAllen, Texas.

Alan is survived by his parents, Daniel and Dora Leticia "Letty" Gonzalez, of McAllen; and his older siblings, Amanda Danielle Gonzalez and Adrian Gonzalez.

He is preceded in death by his paternal grandparents, Patricio "Pat" and Nora R. Gonzalez, of Pharr, and his maternal grandparents, Eusebio Andres and Dora C. Gonzalez, of Pharr, originally of Linares, Nuevo Leon, Mexico.

Alan was born to be an educator, following in the footsteps of his mother and both grandmothers.

He graduated from the University of the Incarnate Word in 2022 with a Bachelor's degree in Elementary Education with minors in Reading, Special Education, and Kinesiology. A Dean's List recipient, Alan also volunteered with UIW Special Olympics events and fundraisers. He served as a founding member and Historian of the UIW Kappa Delta Pi Education Honor Society. In the Spring of 2021, Alan was the recipient of The National Society of Leadership & Success Award.

The San Antonio community was blessed to have an elementary teacher like him among their ranks for five meaningful semesters. Upon completion of his student teaching at Franklin Elementary in the Fall of 2022, he was immediately hired at Woodlawn Academy in the Spring of 2023. Mr. Gonzalez then transferred to Carvajal Elementary in the Fall of 2023, where he was named a 2023-2024 Rising Star Teacher at San Antonio ISD for his and his students' classroom excellence.

As a teacher, Mr. Gonzalez would wear tennis shoes to school and would challenge his 2nd-grade students to run races during recess and join them on the playground.

He had a very giving heart and always prioritized his students' joy and learning in a fun way. On a teacher's salary, money was always tight, but he would rather spend his final $20 on Dollar Store prizes for his students than groceries for himself.

In his last conversation with his mother, Mr. Gonzalez happily told her about how he celebrated the holidays with his students by reading them a book called "Too Many Tamales."

Growing up, Alan had several amazing educators and youth sports coaches who deeply inspired him. He played baseball, basketball, football, soccer, swimming, and truly enjoyed running track hurdles and relays at Palmer Elementary, Liberty Middle School, and the City of Pharr Parks & Recreation summer program.

Alan was a Class of 2018 honor graduate from Pharr-San Juan-Alamo North Early College High School. He was a Raider Boys' Varsity Track & Field hurdler and relay racer, and was also the Team Manager for the Lady Raiders' Varsity Volleyball Team. He was part of the PSJA North Student Council, National Honor Society, Theatre Department, Yearbook, and UIL Mock Trial Team. He was also selected to participate in Texas Boys State for his community leadership.

After graduation, he would spend his summers helping his alma mater's volleyball team train and prepare for their upcoming season.

His passion for volleyball began while playing with his church youth group at La Trinidad United Methodist Church in Pharr. Before Alan was even old enough to join the youth group volleyball team, he practiced and held his own against the older kids.

In college, he was the only freshman starter and served as the three-year captain and libero of his UIW Men's Club Volleyball Team.

While teaching at Woodlawn Academy, he was thrilled for the opportunity to play at the Students vs. Staff volleyball game fundraiser.

He was currently a travel select volleyball assistant coach for the Texas Champion Academy and previously for San Antonio Lightning, helping dedicated middle school girls prepare for high school competition. Alan played adult co-ed indoor volleyball in the Rio Grande Valley and for Platinum Sports San Antonio, as well as sand volleyball at Sideliners in San Antonio. He was also a state-certified volleyball referee.

Alan lived each day of his 25 years to the fullest. He never had enough time for everything he wanted to do, but he made the most of every hour with teaching, volleyball, and fun. In his scarce free time, Alan enjoyed playing the piano, painting, and listening to live music with family and friends.

Alan was sunshine in human form. His contagious laughter will always remain in our hearts and his beautiful legacy will live on through the many lives he impacted in the classroom, on the volleyball court, and beyond.

The best way to describe his kind heart is: Alan was everyone's best friend! He made everyone feel special and loved and cherished, whether you'd known him his whole life or had just met him.

Alan was a diamond and every girl's best friend, favorite dance partner, quinceañera chamberlain, prom date, Cotillion escort, and even a Bridesman. Throughout various stages of his life, Alan was always Mr. Fun, and felt most comfortable surrounded by his loving girlies. It is only fitting and deeply meaningful to honor him with an all-girl pallbearer group.

Serving as pallbearers are: Analyza Garza, Heaven Rios, Jennifer Huerta, Brehanna Casias, Victoria Oviedo, and Jacklyn Salinas. Honorary Pallbearers are: Ashley Kristine Garza and Bianca Garza Rossetti.

Visitation will begin at 4 p.m., with a 6 p.m. Celebration of Life on Sunday, December 29, 2024, at Memorial Funeral Home in San Juan. Funeral service will take place at 12 noon Monday, December 30, 2024, at La Trinidad United Methodist Church in Pharr. Interment will follow at Palm Valley Memorial Gardens in Pharr.

Funeral services are under the direction of Memorial Funeral Home in San Juan.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Monitor on Dec. 28, 2024.

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Erica Peña ( Zayac)

January 9, 2025

I just wanted to say THANK YOU for being super kind and a positive influence to my autistic son Rudie. Thank you for allowing him to get out of his chair multiple times a day to give you his famous half hugs with pats on the back. He does not do that to just anyone. He really felt comfortable with you. Rudie will miss you Mr. Gonzalez! And also THANK YOU for purchasing his class pic last year, because I had forgotten all about it. We will make sure to keep it forever.

Deepti Kharod

January 8, 2025

I had the pleasure of teaching Alan in several classes at UIW, where his bright smile was a happy addition to the classroom. We all knew of his love for volleyball and how he enjoyed the arts. His academic excellence earned him membership in UIW's chapter of KDP, the Education honor society, where he also served as Historian before graduating. We will treasure our memories of Alan's laughter and love for teaching!

Kappa Delta Pi

January 7, 2025

We are sorry for your loss and extend our deepest condolences to Alan´s family and loved ones during this difficult time. We are grateful he was a proud member of Kappa Delta Pi. May Alan be forever remembered for the positive impact he made in the community, leaving behind a legacy of inspiration and excellence. With heartfelt sympathy, KDP Board and Staff

Isaiah

January 7, 2025

Mr Gonzalez was a good man and will be missed by everyone and his students especially.

Roy Garza

January 6, 2025

My boys favorite teacher, you will be missed.

Veronica and Mark Guerrero

December 31, 2024

We could not believe you passed on because there was no way this awesome awesome man has gained his wings too soon. Mr.Gonzalez had such a great impact on my son. He would draw him pictures at home to give to him at school from time to time just because. Mr.Gonzalez was Marks favorite teacher and he will always be and will forever be missed never forgotten. You and your family are in our prayers. Condolences from the Guerrero family.

Debbie Garza

December 31, 2024

Daniel and Letty , my sincere condolences for the loss of your precious son. I know no words will fill your void and sadness, I will pray for you and your family. May God bless you and comfort you during this very painful time.

Rosa Rakay

December 30, 2024

Alan mijo, you will be so missed. Today I went to see your family and I instantly felt the love and closeness your family brings just like it was during the elementary years at Palmer. It was a privilege to have had you and your siblings during those years. But today was a different closeness, one that you wanted us to feel, a love that we will take away from your loss. I cannot imagine the pain your mom, dad, Adrian and Amanda are going through but they are one strong family! Thank you Amanda for including me at the church, I felt more comforted by you and all the memories, pictures and video that was shared today. I needed it because Alan´s loss has been difficult to understand. Prayers for healing your hearts and always keep his memory alive. Alan left an imprint of his kindness and in a short amount of time his teaching of kids. I was so proud he went into education, how we need more Alans in education!

This passed hollween at our school trunk or treat <br />

Stephanie Torres

December 29, 2024

There so much I can say about this guy. But the one thing that comes to me is .... The love and big smile he always had even though some days where more then a handful at times
You and your family will always be family to us

Candy Garza

December 28, 2024

My condolences to Alan´s family and friends. My prayers are with you always. Alan was such a wonderful young man. Always loved having him at our family functions. Candelaria "Candy" Garza Analisa Garza´s aunt/ sister of the late Charlie Garza

Humberto and Annie Salinas

December 28, 2024

May the Good Lord Bless and give you the strength in this moments of grief. Please Accept our most Deepest condolences. From your distant cousins, Humberto and Annie Salinas

Vicky Rico

December 27, 2024

Daniel and Letty. I am so sorry for your loss. May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Daniel Hernandez

December 27, 2024

Alan was one of the kindest people I have known. Along with our friend Victoria, we would play volleyball and us three would grow our friendship through the sport. I am grateful to have known Alan, and to have seen him grow into the person he was on and off the court since his freshman year at UIW. My condolences to the Gonzalez family, as Alan was loved by all. His memory and spirit of friendship will stay with me always.

Julian Farias

December 26, 2024

Our Deepest Condolences and may he Rest In Peace.

Ms. Torres and Amelia Salas

December 25, 2024

Alan Gonzalez also known as Mr.G was my daughter's 2 and teacher last year. I remember him always with a smile that was contagious, and was always very respectful and nice. We are going to dearly miss him and he will always have a place in our hearts. I will keep him and your family in my prayers always. Rest Easy Mr. G

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