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Widmer, Steven Lyle

Steven Lyle Widmer, President and founder of Energy Optimization Services, Inc. passed away on Saturday, January 5th, 2013 at Alden Estates of Barrington, IL. Steve had been battling Melanoma cancer since March of 2011.

Steve was born in Oshkosh on July 31, 1956 to Ken and Jean Widmer. He graduated from Oshkosh West High School in 1974. He graduated from UW- Stout in 1983 with a major in Product Development and minors in Industrial Design, Art and Business. He had a long and prosperous career at Mercury Marine as an Engineer, with many patents in the Stern-Drive & Inboard Propulsion Systems Division.

On July 18, 1992, Steve married Debora A. Thompson at the Heidel House Resort in Green Lake, WI. They moved to Bartlett, IL shortly after their marriage and resided for the next 21 years.

Husband of Debbie; father of four, Sierra (Pablo Rodriguez), Ryan, Alexandra, Jennifer; son of Ken and Jean (nee Sawsville) Widmer; son-in-laws of Dennis and Joan (nee Engel) Thompson; brother of Daniel (Kim) Widmer, Bonnie (Mark) Heise, Lori (Tom) Ramsett and his late infant brother, Ronnie; brother-in-law to Joseph Thompson and James (Lisa) Thompson. Uncle of eleven nieces and nephews: Whitney, Danielle, Joshua, Trevor, Brandon T., Connor, Justin, Cole, Steven, Brandon H. (Jeane), and Merrick.

Steve was an avid outdoorsmen, who loved to fish and hunt. His passion was boats and spending time on the water. He was a true gentleman, a wonderful friend, a loving father and an adoring husband. He will be deeply missed by all who knew him.

Visitation Tuesday, January 8, 4 -9 pm at Countryside Funeral Home, 950 South Bartlett Road, Bartlett, IL 60103. Funeral Mass on Wednesday, January 9, at 10:30am at Resurrection Parish, 30 W. 350 Army Trail Road, Wayne, IL 60184. A memorial has been set up by dear friends: The Steve Widmer Family Fund, c/o American Chartered Bank-Bartlett, 388 S. Main Street, Bartlett, IL 60103. Further information can be found on Mylifeline.org under find a friend Steve Widmer. 630-289-7575 or www.countrysidefuneralhomes.com.

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Published by Oshkosh Northwestern on Jan. 7, 2013.

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Scott Villwock

February 21, 2013

I was so sad to hear of Steve's passing. I have so many great childhood memories with Steve, I just wished I would have been able to spend more time with him over the years.
My deepest sympathy to Ken, Jean, Debbie and the rest of his family and children. I will truly miss him!

January 14, 2013

The Widmer Family, We were so saddened to hear about the loss of Steve. May you find strength in your faith and Steve's memories to get through this. The Cuda Family

Maureen Waller

January 12, 2013

Deb & Family, My deepest sympathy. May your fond memories and passing of time ease your sorrow. My prayers are with you.

Chris "Oswego" & Barbara Janssen

January 9, 2013

Our sincerest condolences to your family on your loss. May you find strength in each other. We will keep you all in our prayers.

Candace Pales

January 8, 2013

Deb,Sierra,Pablo,Ryan,Alexandra and Jen. Our sincere sympathy and prayers go to you and your family. May God's grace give you strength and comfort. We will continue to pray for you... The Pales Family (Chris,Candace, Brittany and Nick)

Ty Dobbins & Elaine

January 8, 2013

Bonnie, Mark and Family-Sorry for your loss. Your in our thoughts and prayers.

January 7, 2013

Ken and Jean we are so deeply sorry for the loss of your son. So hard to believe, and so young. God only knows why. We are with you in prayer and know that we all send our love. He will be deeply missed. God Bless, Paul and Kathy, Jessica & Aaron Williams (Neisen)

January 7, 2013

We are terribly sorry to hear of your loss Deb and family. May Steve rest in peace and may you find comfort in the beautiful memories you have of him....
The Larry Dearman Family

Rick Steiner

January 7, 2013

I'm shocked and saddened by Steve's passing, he was a great childhood friend. My deepest sympathy.

Brent McFarland

January 7, 2013

Damn. This has me shocked and saddened. My love to Deb and the kids.

January 7, 2013

Ken,Jean and Family,
We are sorry for your Loss. You all must have wonderful memories to cherish.

Linda Leaman
Jason Meyer

January 7, 2013

With my deepest sympathy to Ken and Jean Widmer, I always enjoyed Ken coming to Camera Casino with pictures of his family and he showed how proud he was . So sorry to hear about Steve.

Brian and Cindie Buchholz

January 7, 2013

With deepest sympathy and prayers for Steve's family and friends. He was a true friend to me, and I will miss him forever.

January 7, 2013

sorry for your loss.Joe Fischer

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