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Gary Graff Obituary

GRAFF, GARY W.; of Davisburg; surrounded by his loving family, passed away March 7, 2016; at 64 years of age. Loving husband of Brenda for 36 years; beloved father of sons, Jason (Tara), Matthew (Rachael) and Nicholas Graff; grandfather of Jacob, Madison, Tyler, Collyn, and Lillianna; son of Marjorie and the late Clifford Graff; brother of John, Michael and the late Paul Graff. Gary, an insurance claims adjuster, owned CSI Claim Solutions for 28 years and serviced southeastern Michigan. He enjoyed riding Harleys and was a member of Michigan Independent Riders Group. He was also: veteran U.S. Army-Vietnam, master scuba diver and instructor, and private pilot. Most important to him, was spending time and having fun with his family and friends. Family will receive friends Saturday, March 12, 2016 from 6:30 to 9 p.m. and Sunday 10 a.m. to 4 p.m. at COATS FUNERAL HOME-CLARKSTON. In lieu of flowers, please “Pay It Forward” to the John King “Gabby” Benefit Fund, envelopes available at the funeral home. To send a condolence message visit www.CoatsFuneralHome.com

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Published by The Oakland Press from Mar. 8 to Mar. 9, 2016.

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Collyn Graff

March 7, 2023

miss ya will never forget you

Nick Nicolay

March 11, 2016

Not only a great person ,also a wonderful friend and business associate. my deepest condolances

Paul (All Seasons Appraisal)

March 11, 2016

I am deeply saddened to learn of Gary's passing. He gave generously to me both of his time and counsel. I will miss his wisdom, unique sense of humor and his relaxed, easy-going demeanor. My sincerest condolences to Brenda and Family.
Goodbye my Friend.

Kathie Wright

March 10, 2016

Walled Lake Collision is so sorry to hear about your loss! Gary was such an awesome guy and a pleasure to deal with whenever he came into our shop. He will surely be missed.

Alan Hukkala

March 9, 2016

Gary will be missed very much from all of us from Heritage collision and frame was such a great man !

Tom Pilecki

March 9, 2016

Gary was a GREAT man. I have known him through the business for over 20 years and he was one of the most respectful, classiest people I ever knew. Over the years we have many discussions of life and family and riding motorcycles. He was one of the best and will be missed. I am going to miss seeing him come into the shop and joking about Brenda not telling him to bring my coffee for me. I am honored to call you a friend. R.I.P. my friend, I look forward to seeing you again someday.

Paul Pearcy

March 9, 2016

A man that will be truly be missed in our industry and in life. I have had the privilege of working with Gary for many years. A true professional in every way. Our sincere condolences to Brenda and family. I can speak for everyone here at Ray Laethem Motor Village we all will miss him. Another "GOOD GUY" gone way too soon. R.I.P Gary Graff you will be missed.......

Karen McMurray

March 9, 2016

I'm praying for Brenda and family. I remember they were one of my first appointments when I opened my Allstate insurance office 28 years ago. I had so much fun with them I didn't want to leave! I always enjoyed talking to Gary. I'm was shocked and sadden to hear he had passed. You will be in my prayers and memories forever.

John Krasinski

March 9, 2016

Gary was a wonderful man in person and in his professional life as the owner of CSI. I have known him for many years, an all around great person who will be truly missed. Our thoughts and prayers go out to his family. Gary was one of a kind you will be missed.


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Dan Dennison

March 9, 2016

Worked with Gary for many years, He was always easy to work with, a really good guy, He will be missed by all here at Milosch palace collision,Our condolences to Brenda and the Graff Family.

Lafontaine Automotive Group

March 9, 2016

Gary was a great man. Have known him for years in the Auto business. He will be deeply missed by all. Lafontaine Automotive would like to send their condolences to the family. Our thoughts are prayers are with them.

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