Alice Marie Clay

Alice Clay passed away Wednesday, September 22, 2004, after a brave battle with cancer. Alice was 75 years old. She was born in Staten Island, New York on November 14, 1928. She was a caregiver for over 20 years, and worked for "old people", as she called them -- people who, in reality, weren't much older than she was, but who were sick, infirm, or dying.She was always physically strong, vital, and alive. Her willingness to serve also manifested itself in what she did for the church, such as folding bulletins, supporting orphans overseas, being the designated driver for friends who weren't able to get to church on their own, and tithing, even when it was a hardship. She simply did it, with no questions asked and with an unwavering faith. She was a woman of faith, and courage to do what she felt was right. She had a childlike delight in nature; nothing excited her more than seeing a deer, raccoon, eagle, or any wild creature.She marveled at sunrises, sunsets, and all the seasons with their beauty. She watched in awe as all the flowers opened and the fruit ripened. She was an avid flea market shopper. She loved crafts, crossword puzzles, and reading. She loved to walk, and would walk around St. Martin's College or Capital Lake. Our Mother loved the ocean, and would pick up shells and rocks; they are everywhere in our home as a constant reminder of all those shared moments throughout our lives. Our two dogs, "Blazer" and "Fuzzy", who together we saved from the dog pound, were a constant source of love, joy, and comfort. Grandma always had a treat or a new toy to present to them at the door.Alice is survived by four daughters, Robbie Clay, of Wisconsin, Donna Graham, of Lacey, Kathy Nichols, of California, and Julie Prewett, of California; one stepson, Dan Weber, and his wife, Joan; three sons-in-law, Marcus, David, and Robert; three sisters, Eleanor Scarpato, Doris Winters, and Ruth Woods; five grandchildren, Keith, Brian, Rozelle, Diana, and Danny; several great- grandchildren; and many nieces and nephews and their families.A special thanks goes to all the wonderful, caring staff at Mother Joseph's -- there are too many of you to name, but you all know who you are. Thanks also go to Providence SoundHomeCare and Hospice, and to Mom's nurse, Steven, who made the unbearable bearable. Our family will never forget the love and kindness you all gave my mother in her time of need. Thank you.A service will be held at Providence St. Peter's Mother Joseph Care Center, 3333 Ensign Road, Olympia, on Saturday, October 2, 2004, at 11:00 a.m. Memorial donations may be made to Mother Joseph's or to Providence SoundHomeCare and Hospice.