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Arlen Ness Obituary

Arlen "Al" Ness passed away peacefully at Providence Mother Joseph Care Center, on Tuesday, July 8, 2008 at the age of 78. This date marked the 58th wedding anniversary of Arlen and his beloved wife Frances. Arlen was born on February 3, 1930 in Rockford, Illinois to Oscar and Ina Ness. Arlen joined the Army and was stationed at Fort Lewis where he met Frances Roloff. The two fell in love and were married July 8, 1950. Shortly after, Arlen was sent to Korea in the second division. He was injured in combat and nursed back to health in a Japanese hospital. Upon recovering, Arlen served as a guard for General McArthur before coming home and receiving an honorable discharge. After returning, Arlen and Frances made their home in Olympia and Lacey.
Arlen had many different careers throughout his life, but he found teaching inmates employment skills at the Washington Correction Center located in Shelton to be his most meaningful work. Arlen took great pride in this job until his retirement in 1994.
Arlen's hobbies included photography, painting, traveling and collecting lighthouse and tall ship replicas.
Arlen is survived by his wife, Frances; son, Terry Ness; two granddaughters, Olivia Ness and Karen Jorgenson. He was preceded in death by his brother, Gerald Ness.
Arlen loved to socialize and made a lasting impression on everyone who crossed his path. He will be remembered for his generous heart, ready smile and unique way with words. We will always treasure his "special birthday song" and vow to carry on his tradition.
Viewing will begin at 11:00 a.m., Monday, July 14, 2008 at the Masonic Center, 455 North Street SE, Tumwater. The funeral service will follow at 1:00 p.m. A reception for friends and family will be held at son, Terry Ness' house at 3:00 p.m.
Please leave condolences online at: www.funeralalternatives.org.

Arrangements with Funeral
Alternatives of Washington,
(360)753-1065.

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Published by The Olympian on Jul. 11, 2008.

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Robert Cantrell

March 26, 2019

I'll think of Arlen every time I'm riding.so Sorry for your loss. Bobc.from mi

Jan Petrie

July 11, 2008

Dear Fran, Terry, Karen and Olivia,
May God's grace and comfort carry you through the days ahead as we all share in your loss. Al was such an important part of my life for so many years and I will miss him immensely. Please take care and let those around you know how special they are and that they are loved!
Love, Jan

Mendy Prince

July 11, 2008

Terry and Olivia I'm terribley sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Denny and Carol Brooks

July 11, 2008

We always enjoyed visiting with Al and Fran. They were wonderful neighbors for 29 years. We will miss him terribly. Please know the family has our deepest sympathy. May God bless.

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