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Dale Rutledge Obituary

Dale Rutledge Dale Rutledge, beloved father, grandfather, great grandfather, uncle, cousin to many, and friend to many more, left this world on June 14th, 2013, to start eternity with his Savior, and with the many friends and relatives who preceded him. One of five children, Dale was born in Olympia, WA, on September 5th, 1920, to Albert and Ollie Rutledge, going home to the family dairy farm in Littlerock, WA, a couple of days later. While growing up through the depression and war years, he discovered he loved to work the land, and that he had a natural ability to convince plants to grow. Combinations of circumstances and personal decisions would ultimately result in him remaining on that farm his entire 92 plus years. He was enrolled in the Littlerock grade school in 1927, and in due course moved on to attend high school in Rochester. While in high school he was active in its music program, demonstrating a natural ability to sing and play the piano. After graduating in 1938 he maintained contact with many of his fellow graduates, regularly attending yearly reunions until time and a dwindling alumni participation finally made such meetings impractical. On March 2nd, 1946 he married Mary Wagner, a young lady he had met earlier through their mutual association with the Grange organization, purchased some land abutting the family dairy, built a house, and settled down to raise a family of three boys and three girls. As their life progressed, he expanded the farm's operation by adding turkeys and chickens, and finally in the 1960's converted the whole operation to beef, its current configuration. Mary preceded him in death in 1983, and for the next 30 years he kept her memory close until they were finally joined once again. She was the one constant in his life and repeatedly stated she was the best part of his life. As caretaker and owner of the 1860 homestead farm, and as a descendant of one of the original families in the Littlerock area, he eagerly accepted the burden of continuing local and family traditions, and maintained a life-long passion with family history. His marked ability to remember dates, occurrences, relationships and anecdotes firmly established him as not only the family historian, but also the go-to guy if anyone needed information about local historical events or past residents. He was active in the Grange for many years, maintaining membership for more than 65 years, serving as a local officer, and working within the association as an advocate for other farmers and ranchers. He also took advantage of the organization's social life to square dance, play the piano and participate in many smorgasbords and get-togethers. Serving as a representative of local farmers and ranchers on the Thurston County ASC Committee for several years, he worked to improve agricultural methods, as well as coordinate related efforts with governmental agencies. He was a member of the Faith Baptist Church in Chehalis, WA, for more than 15 years, during many of which he was the church pianist, stepping down only when age diminished his ability to play at the level he felt was needed. He often said playing the piano at church was his greatest joy. Dale is survived by three sons, Tom (Wendy), Tim and Phil (Tammie) Rutledge; three daughters, Nancy (Ron) Fowler, Nora (Don) Bergstrom and Beth (Cody) Miller; a sister, Louise Jensen; a niece, Olive (Rex) Jordan; eleven grandchildren, and eleven great grandchildren, as well as numerous 'in-law' nieces and nephews. He will be remembered as a Christian gentleman who cherished his family, loved his music, valued his faith, cared for his land, and held a deep pride in his heritage. Funeral services will be at Mills and Mills in Tumwater on Friday, June 21st, at 10 AM. Interment will follow at the family plot in the Odd Fellows Cemetery in Tumwater at 11:30. Those wishing to leave remembrances are encouraged to do so with a contribution to the missionary fund at Faith Baptist Church on Coal Creek Rd. in Chehalis (fbc-wa.org).

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Published by The Olympian on Jun. 19, 2013.

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June 27, 2013

Dear Nancy, Tom and Rutledge Family,
Your Father Graced us with his Presence...A Sweet Breath from Heaven
and there is Gratitude to have looked into his Beautiful Blue eyes when I
last saw him.
Blessings....Linda St.Peter

June 23, 2013

Dear Tom, Nancy and the Rutledge Family,
My deepest sympathy to all of you for the loss of your dad. I would have attended the service had I known about it. What a wonderful and interesting man he was. I would have loved to spend a little time listening to his stories about the vast history he knew. May the good memories you have continue to light up your lives.
Sincerely,Thelma (Lind) Mosebar, Olympia

Carol Rainwood

June 23, 2013

Phil and family, sorry to hear of the loss of your Dad. I always enjoyed seeing him working in the yard as I drove by, and he'd wave to our big yellow bus. Alas, Littlerock has lost one of it's great, quiet men. God bless you all, Carol Rainwood

Wendy (Sandy) Hansen

June 22, 2013

Tim, Nancy and Family~~I was saddened to hear about your Dad's passing. He was such a part of Littlerock, it seemed like he would always be around. He was always so kind. Take Care.

Gordon Watson

June 22, 2013

Tom and Wendy,my sincere condolences.Tom those few times I had with you and your father were great.All the best to you and yours.

June 22, 2013

The Rutledge family, so sorry about you loss, as every time i saw your Dad, he was so friendly and caring how you were doing. It was a reminder what a believer he was. He now with is Lord. Our prayers go out to your family. Bill Ziesemer

Dale at 1812 monument, Washelli Cem.

Linda Lind

June 21, 2013

The WA State Society U.S. Daughters of 1812 wishes to express our condolences to your family. We were so pleased that Dale and Phil attended the War of 1812 Bicentennial Monument Dedication last June at Washelli Cemetery in Seattle, which among others, honored their 1812 patriot ancestor William Rutledge.

Jim Vosper

June 20, 2013

My condolences to all of Dale's family. I got to know Dale fairly well over the past 30 years or so and very much enjoyed our visits and discussions of genealogy and family and local area history. He was a link to bygone era and was a true Christian gentleman. I am sure he has been welcomed by God and the family and friends who have already passed. It was a privilege to account him as a friend.

Jim Vosper

June 20, 2013

My condolences to all of Dale's family. I got to know him rather well over the last 30 years or so and will miss talking over history and genealogy and other issues with him. He was a link to a bygone era and really was a Christian gentleman. May God bless all of you. Jim Vosper, Oakville

June 20, 2013

To Nancy, Tom, Tim, Philip,Nora and Beth,I will always remember your father and the wonderful man he was. It's wonderful to know that he has gone home to Heavenly Father and your beloved mother, Mary. I will always cherish the fun times on the farm. I hope and pray that each one of you will find peace and comfort in your lives. I miss everyone and wish I could have been there. Peace be with you. Your loving cousin, SUE ( daughter of Bill and Rosemary Wagner)

Doug Page

June 20, 2013

Mark, Robin, Rachel & Jacob and of course Nancy. I am very sorry for your loss. I know your father, grandfather and greatgrandfather was an important influence in your lives and he will be missed. I want you to know you are in my thoughts and prayers and Hope your saddness can be replaced by the many, many good memories that were imprinted on your hearts and minds. With sympathy Doug Page, Robin's older brother.

Lauraine Maddox

June 20, 2013

God Bless you Nancy & Ron. Oh what a WONDERFUL father and man your Dad must of been. I TRULY wish I would of known your Dad, Nancy. The knowledge, history, and stories he must of told. I would of so loved to hear many of them. Nancy & Ron and ALL Family and friends, you all take ever so such good care and PRAISE GOD for the many memorie's and stories. So much love and I am SO SORRY for your loss. Love, Lauraine x0x0x0x0x0x

June 20, 2013

Dale shared many stories while I cut his hair. I usually only had a few minutes at a time with him, but I could have listened to him for hours. He remembered so many times and events in the area. A truly wonderful man. I will miss him.
Cathy Hawkins (Southgate Barber Shop_

Laine Romero

June 19, 2013

Dale was such a unique & wonderful man and I feel so lucky to have known him, even for the very short period of time that we visited. He shared so much about the family history - of which I am a part. Dale is a descendant from Thomas Rutledge who came here by wagon train. I am a descendant from Elizabeth (Lizzie) Rutledge (Thomas' sister) born here in Tumwater in 1854 in a blockhouse!
There was never any question that we were family...and Dale made the absolute BEST apple pie!!!!! in his wood burning kitchen stove.
So now, at least one of us knows who the parents of William C. Rutledge were....see you again one day Dale.

Renee Mayhew-Ellestad

June 19, 2013

So sorry to hear of Dales passing. His brother Reg was my step father. I will keep your family in my prayers.

Rhea Holms

June 19, 2013

Tim and Family I was sad to hear of the loss of your beloved father Dale. He was a very kind man. I had the privilege of visiting the farm when my mother Doris and step father Reg Rutledge were up for a visit. My mother always spoke highly about Dale and Mary. I was amazed that Dale grew and canned the items he grew on a wood stove no less. I loved listening Dale and Reg talk about growing up on the farm. That the post office was in the house. Dale will be missed by all that knew him. Heaven has a new Angel named Dale. My sympathy to the Rutledge family.

Shirley (Hedgepeth) Ostergren

June 19, 2013

Nancy and Family, So sorry to hear of your Dad's passing. He was such an honorable man, family man, and all around good man. Please accept my our sincere sympathy. Shirley & Family

Jerri Honeyford

June 19, 2013

To the Rutledge family. I only had the great pleasure of visiting with Dale once when he told about the building, roofing, and reroofing the wonderful old barn. It is one of the oldest barns in the State of Washington and he was proud of it and gracious enough to invite me in to talk about it.

Christine Van Berkom

June 19, 2013

To the family of Dale, we knew him for many years when we lived out in Littlerock, a wonderful person, he will be missed. The Van Berkom family.

Jan Wagley

June 19, 2013

What a blessing our dear cousin Dale has been in my life since I was very little we have visited the Rutledge homestead. Even with my own children, and my Mother. My Mother and Dale had a very special relationship, she loved him dearly ~!! My Grandmother is Laura Rutledge, I know they are visiting with all of the other family ~!! Our thoughts, prayers and love we send to you. We will miss you and the wonderful visits we have had the recent years and looking at old pictures with Phil ~!!!

Richard & Laura Wharton

June 19, 2013

Rutledge Family, Our thoughts and Prayers are with you during this sad time. What great memories you must have, a true pioneer. Our Sympathy, Richard & Laura Wharton

Mari McAninch

June 19, 2013

Two of my cousins and I were privileged to spend an afternoon at Mr. Rutledge's home a few years ago, visiting and discussing old times. His cordiality and hospitality will long be remembered. Please accept my sympathy for your loss.

June 19, 2013

Dale Rutledge was my Uncle who was a very kind and gentle man. He was a born again Christian and was proud of it and I have many fond memories living in the family homestead with my grandparents Albert and Ollie (Olive) and helped with may chores starting at an early age. I will miss him terribly and know I'll see him again in Glory. Niece, Olive Jordan

Jack Lenzi

June 18, 2013

Dear Rutledge family, it was a pleasure to know your father. He was a man of desired conversation and a person of much and deep knowledge, I enjoyed the visits we had together and now feel a great loss for me, as well to all of his sons and daughters that I have met through the years. I felt so close to him as I truly respected him. May God give peace to your hearts and understanding for your thoughts.
Jack and Nancy Lenzi

June 17, 2013

Grandfather, It has been an honor to be part of the Rutledge Heritage. I have loved living on the farm these past 32 years. We are blessed to have our Daughter, Victoria experience roots here as 5th generation. God Bless you....

Tammie Rutledge

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