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Patrick Cavendish
September 22, 1937 - April 2, 2023
Tenino, Washington - Patrick Cavendish was born on September 22, 1937 in Winchester, UK to Patricia (nee Atchison). He died of leukemia on April 2, 2023 at the age of 85, surrounded by family and friends in Tenino, Washington at the home he shared with his loving wife, artist Mryna Orsini. As a boy, Patrick attended boarding school, spending his holidays on the Isle of Wight where his grandparents lived and where he learned to sail. Fascinated by languages and human history at a young age, he excelled at school and stayed on to take "S levels" in French, German, and Spanish in preparation for university. Patrick began studying Chinese after being conscripted into the Royal Air Force in 1956. In 1958, he passed the Civil Service Examination in Chinese with Distinction and went on to study at Cambridge, graduating with a First in History in 1962. He studied Chinese History as a postgraduate at the University of London and then spent a year at Columbia University in New York City before returning to Cambridge. He received his PhD in Chinese History from Trinity College in 1968. In that same year, Patrick moved to Santa Cruz, California with his first wife and their two boys to take up an Associate Professorship in Chinese History at UC Santa Cruz. Later, taking a break from academia, he sailed to Alaska and then moved to Olympia, Washington where he met his second wife, with whom he had a daughter and a son. He built a house for the family in the forest west of Olympia and created one of many wonderful gardens. During the mid 1980s, Patrick taught Chinese at The Evergreen State College and English as a Second Language at Centralia College and Saint Martin's College. He began working at Pierce College in 1989, eventually becoming the Director of International Education. After 23 years of service to Pierce College, Patrick retired in 2012 and received a trophy from the Korean Consul for his significant contributions to the Korean community. In 2017, he married Myrna Orsini and spent many wonderful years painting, gardening, travelling widely, and helping to run Monarch Sculpture Park. Patrick was beloved by people around the world for his warmth and authenticity. He will be remembered for his endless intellectual curiosity, his fantastic stories, and the loving way he cared for his family and friends. Patrick's joie de vivre and quick, dry wit made him the life of the party even during the very last days of his life. Patrick is survived by Myrna, his sister Hannah Walton, and his four children, Alex Cavendish, Toby Cavendish, Hannah Cavendish-Palmer, and Will Cavendish. Donations in his honor should be sent to Monarch Sculpture Park at P.O. Box 1125, Tenino, WA, 98589. Other payment methods are available at www.monarchsculpturepark.org.

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Published by The Olympian on May 6, 2023.

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Karl Rahder

November 5, 2025

What a remarkable human being! I have fond but distant memories of Patrick in the late-1970's when I was at Evergreen and he was my Mandarin tutor. I would often drop by his place simply to socialize or talk about East Asian history. I'm so sorry he is no longer with us - I had hoped to someday catch up. Thank you Patrick, and God bless...

Alan Kemp

June 2, 2024

Your memory will be a blessing to so many. God love you.

Tobi Ellen Goldman

December 15, 2023

Love to you & yours, dear Patrick, on your newest voyage. Am sorry for your trials w/ illness this past year, but WOW, this obit says it all: you lived an Amazing, Impressive!! life!! You managed to pursue & do SO-O much: worked hard, tho choosing usually WoRK that you enjoyed; knew ALOT about so many fascinating areas-both practical & academic; wisely pursued what you loved & what brought you JOY. Not surprisingly-due to your innate kindness, integrity & goodness-you were well-loved! by those who had the privilege of meeting & knowing you.

So many wonderful memories, over so many years in many different locales-up & down the beautiful Pacific Coast of the USofA that we both frequented!-Santa Cruz,CA, Homer & Anchorage Ak! Mud Bay, Tenino, Seattle & Oly WA-what great memories I have of any time I was Lucky enough to cross paths w/ you in any of those wonderful Pacific Coast locales!!

Thank you!! 4 checking w/ ur students at the time, as research to assist me in selecting the correct Japanese middle name for my newborn son, over 36yrs back, so kind of you, AND I regret not having a chance to say my goodbyes to you directly but knew you were busy with your immediate family members.

Sail on, dear friend, w/ Joy & Peace & Freedom in your heart & soul. w/ Love & gratitude from Tobi G

Susan Christian

June 19, 2023

Patrick rented a large room with a little kitchen in it in my house on Totten Inlet back in the eighties and surprised me by building a dory in that room as well as living in it. Soon afterwards he built a beautiful house
in the forest where all of his children thrived and visiting was a privilege I loved. We also shared a funky house in Olympia for one winter with our friend Sam Bradley, RIP, who was a shrink, which came in handy. Patrick was the nicest father I ever knew, and his kids are some of the nicest grownups I know. Our separate life events led us astray from the familial early quality of our early friendship. I will miss him for the rest of my life.

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Robert Matson

May 6, 2023

I had Dr Cavendish as my Mandarin professor in Pierce College in 1990. I recall he was a respectful, humorous and a well learned man . I enjoyed being his student and collaborator in some small projects. I will never forget him. Peace to him and condolences to the family,
Robert Matson

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