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Karl Rahder
November 5, 2025
What a remarkable human being! I have fond but distant memories of Patrick in the late-1970's when I was at Evergreen and he was my Mandarin tutor. I would often drop by his place simply to socialize or talk about East Asian history. I'm so sorry he is no longer with us - I had hoped to someday catch up. Thank you Patrick, and God bless...
Alan Kemp
June 2, 2024
Your memory will be a blessing to so many. God love you.
Tobi Ellen Goldman
December 15, 2023
Love to you & yours, dear Patrick, on your newest voyage. Am sorry for your trials w/ illness this past year, but WOW, this obit says it all: you lived an Amazing, Impressive!! life!! You managed to pursue & do SO-O much: worked hard, tho choosing usually WoRK that you enjoyed; knew ALOT about so many fascinating areas-both practical & academic; wisely pursued what you loved & what brought you JOY. Not surprisingly-due to your innate kindness, integrity & goodness-you were well-loved! by those who had the privilege of meeting & knowing you.
So many wonderful memories, over so many years in many different locales-up & down the beautiful Pacific Coast of the USofA that we both frequented!-Santa Cruz,CA, Homer & Anchorage Ak! Mud Bay, Tenino, Seattle & Oly WA-what great memories I have of any time I was Lucky enough to cross paths w/ you in any of those wonderful Pacific Coast locales!!
Thank you!! 4 checking w/ ur students at the time, as research to assist me in selecting the correct Japanese middle name for my newborn son, over 36yrs back, so kind of you, AND I regret not having a chance to say my goodbyes to you directly but knew you were busy with your immediate family members.
Sail on, dear friend, w/ Joy & Peace & Freedom in your heart & soul. w/ Love & gratitude from Tobi G
Susan Christian
June 19, 2023
Patrick rented a large room with a little kitchen in it in my house on Totten Inlet back in the eighties and surprised me by building a dory in that room as well as living in it. Soon afterwards he built a beautiful house
in the forest where all of his children thrived and visiting was a privilege I loved. We also shared a funky house in Olympia for one winter with our friend Sam Bradley, RIP, who was a shrink, which came in handy. Patrick was the nicest father I ever knew, and his kids are some of the nicest grownups I know. Our separate life events led us astray from the familial early quality of our early friendship. I will miss him for the rest of my life.
Robert Matson
May 6, 2023
I had Dr Cavendish as my Mandarin professor in Pierce College in 1990. I recall he was a respectful, humorous and a well learned man . I enjoyed being his student and collaborator in some small projects. I will never forget him. Peace to him and condolences to the family,
Robert Matson
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