A Catholic Prayer Service for Gary Francis Deming, 64, of Vacaville, will be at 10 a.m. Monday in Vaca Hills Chapel Funeral Home.
Father Michael McFadden of St. Mary's will officiate. Burial with full military honors to follow at the Vacaville-Elmira Cemetery.
Gary died March 15, 2005, in Vacaville.
Born March 12, 1941, in Inglewood, he was a resident of Vacaville. Gary served 20 years in the U.S. Air Force. He loved to travel and therefore enjoyed his
service years. He was proud that he was able to stand on every continent in the world except Antarctica.
He had three tours of Vietnam as a dental medical technician and after, went on missions in the area as a backup medic. He served in Thailand from 1969 to 1970 and during that time he was sent with a battalion of Thai Marines into a village in Laos where the water system had been destroyed. At that time, he was again serving as a med-tech. During this particular mission, while repairs were being done to the water system, he helped deliver a baby in the village.
He cross trained into the heavy equipment operations field in 1972 and spent the last eight years of his career at Travis Air Force Base. He loved his work and was always happy that he had changed career fields.
One particular assignment Gary was pleased to accomplish and was very challenging job was an 8-month tour with PRIME BEEF TEAM 77-8 to the Truk Islands of Guam and the Territory of the Pacific Islands. This was from July 1977 to February 1978. This had been an 8-year project to build a road of crushed coral around the island of FAFAN, so the people of the island could export fruits to Guam to produce income for the island.
The road was completed six months ahead of schedule by this team. Prior to the U.S.A.F., taking over the work, both the Marine Corp and Navy services had participated in the project. The 9-man team lived on the island of DUBLON and traveled over to FEFAN by boat twice daily.
After retirement from the U.S.A.F. in 1979, he then worked as a crane operator in shop 02 at Mare Island Naval Shipyard for 12 years.
Gary was a devoted member of the Vacaville Elks Lodge 2638 and also the Vacaville Moose Lodge 1967. He loved RVing, fishing, crabbing, and all travel in general. Rolling dice at the lodges was a "must" for him and all his friends. He was a devoted and loving husband and father. His family and friends were the most important things to him. His family was very lucky to have spent so many years with such a special and caring man. He will be dearly missed by family and all that knew him.
Gary is survived by his beloved wife of 34 years, Dianne of Vacaville; daughter and son-in-law, Cheryl and Scott Myers of Roseville; and son and daughter-in-law, Jeff and Valerie Deming of Folsom. His grandchildren, Kevin and Stephanie Myers. His aunts and uncles, Chuck and Audrey Christison of Minnesota and Earl and Nook Schwartzhoff of Minnesota. Several cousins who reside in Minnesota and Wisconsin. His beloved niece and husband, Joe and Kelly Gregg and their daughters, Sierra and Melanie of Oregon. Mother-in-law and husband, Otto and Mary Maly of Tulare; brother-in-law and wife, Robert and Pat Briggs of Arcadia; sister-in-law, Anne James and a special man in her life that Gary greatly admired, "Al."
In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to the C.H.E.M.P.I. Foundation, c/o Vacaville Elks Lodge, 302 Parker St., Vacaville, 95688.
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Stephen Brown
April 14, 2005
Dear Diane
Hi Diane so sorry too hear about Gary passing away.Gary was a great guy who certainly helped me as an up and coming operator.We always enjoyed his humor and the expression on his face; which is how he obtained the nick name butt face.(lol)Gary always was there if you needed something and he was the kind of guy that would do anything for you.I miss my MareIsland buddies that I had too leave when I transferred up here too Washington, but I had too do it.May the Good Lord comfort you during this time of your life and draw close too you.
Steve Brown
Sharyl Blackington
April 13, 2005
Dear Diane and family,
My husband Ken and I send you our deepest sympathy for your loss. I worked with Gary at Mare Island Naval Shipyard and he was truly a great guy. I learned a lot from Gary about crane operating and will never forget the many contributions he offered to us all with his experience. Some of my most fond memories were when we were all together in the lunch room laughing and talking about the days events. Gary was always one of my favorite people. I am truly sorry for your loss and may you find comfort in your memories. Warm regards, Sharyl Blackington (formerly Sharyl Carter)
Craig Flohr
April 13, 2005
Diane,
Tina and I were saddened to hear of Gary's passing. I enjoyed the time I worked with him at Mare Island. He taught me alot on Crane Operating. I wish we could have seen you and Gary when you were in Bremerton.
God bless.
Craig & Tina Flohr
Gary and Theresa Gabel
March 30, 2005
Hi Diane, My wife Theresa and I are really sorry to hear about the loss of a truly great friend, and such a wonderful person who had such a big heart to all that knew him. I spent several years working along side Gary at Mare Island and can see him now as I knew him then. The closure of the base left some of us a little further apart as we moved away from the area to continue with on with our lives. He was a friend to me and I will never forget him. We express our condolences to you and your family.
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Dale Johnson
March 28, 2005
Dear Diane, I was shocked and deeply saddened to hear about Gary today. It is ironic that I was just talking about him today. He was one of my favorite people when I worked at Mare Island. He really helped me when I was a young crane operator just starting out. I always looked up to him. I am glad I got to see him when you were up here a few years ago. Please accept my deepest condolences for your loss.
Dale Johnson
Lynette & Gene Stilley
March 28, 2005
Dianne & family. We were shocked to receive the notice in the mail of Gary's passing. The closeness of all of the crane operators at Mare Island is something that just can't be duplicated. I have very special memories of extremely good times that we all shared with Gary. You know how I felt about him. I will miss him greatly & am so thankful we had the opportunity to visit with you both a few years back. God bless you both. Our sincere condolences..Gene & Lynette
Don and Judy Walton
March 19, 2005
Dear Dianne and Family:
We were so very sorry to hear of Gary's passing.
May God surround you and your family with His love and peace during this oh so difficult time for all of you.
With our love,
Don and Judy Walton
Linda Carter-Stanley
March 19, 2005
Dianne,
So sorry to hear about Gary. I know how much you loved him. Take care and keep on RVing.
Chris & Toni Christopherson
March 19, 2005
Dianne & Family,
Toni & I are wishing you peace and comfort at this most difficult time.
We loved Gary and will always remember the great times at Dillon Beach.
Chris and Toni Christopherson
Vaca Hills Chapel
March 18, 2005
Offering our deepest condolences during this difficult time.
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