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Margaret Lum Obituary

Sept. 20, 1929 - March 5, 2013
Margaret Chan Lum was born Sept. 20, 1929 in Sacramento and passed away on March 5, at the age of 83. She was preceded in death by her husband, Ton G. Lum. She is survived by sons, Paul (Shawn) Lum of Vacaville and Thomas (Connie) Lum of Annandale, VA; grandchildren, Neil, Russell, Lauren and Evan; three brothers, Paul, Bill and Ben Dong; sister, Marian Frisby of Sacramento.
Preceded in death by her brother, Sim Dong and sister, Clara Chinn.
Born in a humble neighborhood close to the California State Capitol, she attended Sacramento schools and Sacramento City College before transferring to Stanford Nursing School in San Francisco. After graduating, she was accepted into a masters program at UCLA, but chose not to attend. She traveled to Europe, married, worked as a school nurse, earned a masters degree from Sacramento State University, supported her husband's farming business, and raised her children in Dixon. In 1979, she graduated from McGeorge School of Law. She was a practicing family attorney for nearly three decades. She had varied cultural interests, maintained many friendships among her community, church, and profession, and was a source of encouragement to many members of her extended family.
A funeral service will be held on March 15, at 10 a.m., at Dixon Community Church, 955 East A St., Dixon. Burial will follow at Silveyville Cemetery. Arrangements entrusted to the care of Milton Carpenter Funeral Home.

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Published by The Reporter on Mar. 14, 2013.

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Linda OConnor

September 19, 2013

Margaret, you are my M.O.M. (my other mom). You were always so warm and welcoming. I am glad I briefly reconnected with you in 2012. Paul & Tom, and other family members, my condolences to you all. Margaret was a first class lady, always upbeat, with a bright smile. Her grace and beauty is unmatched. With love and blessings, Linda Perry O'Connor

Pam (Burris) Lewis

March 18, 2013

Mrs Lum was such a sweet lady, always had a kind word and a hug for me. Tom and Paul, I am so sorry in the loss of your mom. She was such a lovely lady! Hugs

Deanna Myhre

March 14, 2013

My condolences to Margaret's family. We've been friends for years, first through our profession at the Courthouse and as women lawyers, then personally. She was a fine lady. I will miss her sweet smile and company when we saw each other downtown as we shopped. We spoke of her long term illness (my husband has had lymphoma for nearly 10 years). We joked about the fact something else - more than likely "old age" would take us all before lymphoma did! At 74 I didn't see her as often, but I shall surely miss her and our infrequent encounters in Costco in downtown Vacaville.

Harvey Dong

March 11, 2013

Thanks Auntie Margaret for all the good times, support and conversations. Glad you were able to tell your life stories for future generations. We'll miss you and always remember you. Condolences to entire family. With love and affection. Harvey & Bea Dong.

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