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Gary Allen Thresher

1941 - 2020

Gary Allen Thresher obituary, 1941-2020, Muncie, IN

Gary Thresher Obituary

Gary Allen Thresher

Muncie - Gary Allen Thresher, age 78, went to be with his Lord and Savior on October 9, 2020. He lived much of his life in Muncie, IN and passed away at Methodist Hospital in Indianapolis, IN after a brief illness. He was born December 17, 1941 in Muncie, IN and is preceded in death by his parents Everett and Velma (Haines) Thresher.

Gary is survived by his beloved wife of nearly 52 years, Joan (Gray) Thresher, whom he married on December 8, 1968, and with whom he spent the rest of his life being happy. He is also survived by his two devoted daughters, Jody (Miles) Shiveley and Gina (Ben) Sandman who enjoyed laughing with and learning from their dad. Gary was a loving grandpa to his three grandsons, Aidan Shiveley and Grayson and Graham Sandman, whose photos he would share with anyone who asked. Gary is survived by several aunts, uncles, cousins, and many close friends whom he adored.

Gary graduated from Muncie Central High school in 1959. He graduated from Columbus School of Business with a degree in accounting. He was a veteran, having served in the Army National Guard for 6 years. He worked as an accountant at Indiana Steel and Wire for 30 years, where he played on their softball and bowling leagues and made many friends with his quick wit and easy smile. Gary retired from Indiana Steel and wire in 1996.

Gary was a talented singer and piano player and enjoyed performing in numerous bands where he made enduring friendships. Some of the bands Gary played in were Roosevelt Johnson and the 7 C's, Sea Dream, Cavaliers, Little Ramblin' Band, and G Force. He was a man of faith and a lifelong member of Main Street United Methodist Church where he played on their basketball and softball leagues, served as Treasurer, usher, choir member, pianist, and active member of their Men's Club. He liked playing and watching sports and was an avid fan of Muncie Central High school basketball, and Ball State basketball.

After retirement from Indiana Steel and Wire, Gary worked several part time jobs. His latest was at the Delaware County Building as their mail clerk. He looked forward to going to work every day and made many friends. He reluctantly retired from the Country Building in 2019 due to health issues.

Gary and Joan had a beautiful life together. They adored their families, friends, church, and traveling. They went on trips to Niagara Falls, Cedar Point, Hoover Dam, Kings Island, Mackinac Island, Las Vegas, Branson, Hawaii, Florida, and took a cruise in 2018 to celebrate their 50th wedding anniversary. Gary was a gentle, kind man and often described as "one of the good guys." He will be missed by those who knew him.

Services will be held on Saturday, November 7 at The Garden at Main Street Church, 801 E. Main Street, Muncie, IN 47305. Calling hours are 12:30 - 2:00pm. Memorial Service at 2:00 pm. Masks and social distancing required. For those unable or who would prefer not to attend in person, live streaming of the memorial service will be available via Main Street Garden Group on Facebook.

In lieu of flowers, please make donations to The Garden at Main Street memorial fund, 801 E. Main Street, Muncie, IN 47305.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Star Press from Oct. 12 to Nov. 4, 2020.

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Fran Wehlage

October 16, 2020

I grew up a across the street from Mr. Mrs Thresher, I would sit on the big swing with Mr. Thresher, and help Mrs. Thresher with Girl Scout cookies, Gary was always kind to me and I always thought he was so cool because he played in a band. I have very great memories of growing up on Main Street and living across the street from the Thresher family. Prayers to the family, but, God got a very talented man in heaven. Rest In Peace.

donald say

October 16, 2020

was raised in a is&w family and have known gary most of my life!!!watched him play baseball and listened to him rock out!!! he was a great guy who will be greatly missed by all that knew him!!! thought and prayers to the family!!!

donald say

October 16, 2020

i was raised in a is&w family so i knew gary all most my whole life!!! was a really good guy and great musician!!! he will be missed by many!!! thoughts and prayers to the family!!!

Kimberly Shoemaker-Bennett

October 13, 2020

My thoughts and prayers are with the family. Gary was a very nice, kind and gentle man. He will be missed by all that knew him.

larry adams

October 13, 2020

Gary was definitely one of the good guys in life. Joan & family, our hearts are with you in this time of grief; our love to all of you. Larry Adams & family

Connie Hart Robertson

October 12, 2020

Joan we were together at Indiana Beach when you first met Gary. I knew right away that you two were meant to be together. I’m so glad for the 52 beautiful years you had together. I wish we had stayed closer through the years. If you ever want to talk please call Connie Hart Robertson. My husband Mike played sax on their record back in the old days. I’m so sorry Joan! Keep hugging those Grandkids when you to need to warm your heart.

TANYA DONATI

October 12, 2020

So sorry to hear about your loss! Gary was a great person and will be missed by all that loved and knew him! Sending our condolences to his family! Thinking of you during this difficult time

Todd and Tanya Donati

Sallie Matteson

October 12, 2020

Gary we have known each other all our lives. I will miss you. All my love and prayers go out to Joan. Jody, Gina and the rest of the family.
Sallie, Ed and Aunt Elaine.

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