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Betty Haigler Obituary
Mrs. Haigler died Tuesday, September 8, 2009. Born in Columbia, she was a daughter of the late Albert and Myrtle Smith Joyner. She was a member of Dutch Fork Baptist Church. Mrs. Haigler retired after 38 years with BlueCross and BlueShield of South Carolina.
Surviving are her husband of 60 years, J. Ed Haigler of Irmo; son, Edward M. Haigler and his wife, Pansy of Chapin; daughter, Brenda H. Sloan and her husband, O’Neil of Lexington; son, Donald W. Haigler and his wife, Cynthia of Columbia; brother, Donald A. Joyner and his wife, Loretta of Columbia; sister, Theresa J. Summer and her husband, Lacy of Columbia; six grandchildren and seven great-grandchildren. She was predeceased by her brother, Thomas A. Joyner.
Memorials may be made to the American Lung Association, 1817 Gadsden St., Columbia, SC 29201.
Please sign online guest book at www.dunbarfunerals.com.
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Memories and Condolences
for Betty Haigler
Don & Sandra Brown
September 29, 2009
Dear Mr. Haigler & Family
I was talking with Aletha Whitlock this morning and learned that Betty died. I'm sorry I did not know she had passed so therefore was unable to attend the funeral. I also lost a cousin to cancer during that time. I go back a long way of knowing you and Betty. We went to Jackson Creek Baptist and then Parkview Baptist Church together when our children were little (so long ago) but you and Betty meant so much to us. I then worked with Betty at Blue Cross & Blue Shield. I am so sorry for your loss but just know that Betty truly was a blessing to a lot of people and she will be miss by them also. Just keep your eyes on the Lord and know that you will see her again someday. My heart is heavy for you and the family right now but if you let the Lord he will lighten the load a little more each day.
Lots of love in Christ
Allison Stroud
September 14, 2009
Dear Mr.Haigler,
You and Mrs.Betty truly mean the world to me and are the very reason that I am in this profession. It was always my upmost pleasure helping you both in any way that I was able. I will always remember Mrs.Betty's courageous fight and sweet soul! I'll miss your hugs and hope that you'll come by and visit sometime. Please do not hesitate to call if you need anything!
Much Love,
Allison Stroud (RT, Carolina Pulmonary and Critical Care)
Billie Sue (Joyner) Brown
September 12, 2009
Eddie, I was so sorry to hear of Betty's passing. I was out of town and unable to attend. I remember her most of my older cousins (maybe it was because she use to cut my hair). She was a sweet lady. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Robin Edenfield
September 12, 2009
My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Ms. Betty was very special to all of us.
Mike Barbee
September 11, 2009
Ed, Donnie, Cindy and family:
I will always remember Ms. Betty as the very first person who spoke to me the Sunday I attended Dutch Fork Baptist Church for the first time back in 2000. I always appreciated her for going out of her way to welcome me and my family and it was always a pleasure to speak with her at church. I am saddened to hear of her passing, but I hope you will be comforted by your faith and the fact that she is rejoicing in the presence of the Jesus now. She is more alive now than she has ever been and you can look forward to a time when you will be reunited. We will be praying for you during this time of grief and please let us know if there is anything we can do.
Joyce Plummer
September 11, 2009
Eddie, Mike, Brenda, Donald and family.
God bless you during this time of great loss.
As you know Betty was like family to me. With many fond memories of Easy Street and our carefree youth.
My love, thoughts and prayers are with each of you.
September 11, 2009
Aunt Betty was a very special person she will always be in my heart and the Family in our prayers.
Terry Denise Blake & Austin
LUTHER & FRANCES VINSON
September 10, 2009
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Beth McCamey
September 10, 2009
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
Teresa Shuler
September 10, 2009
Mr. Haigler,Donnie,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Donnie your mom was a sweet loving lady and will be truly missed . You are in my thoughts if you or your family need anything just call. Love and prayers
Teresa Shuler and family Ps Mom and dad wish to let you and your dad know they are also sadden by the loss of you mom and wish you and yours their love and compassion in your time of loss. Barbara and Jimmy Shuler.
Sarah Summer Oliver
September 10, 2009
Sorry to hear of Betty's death. We all grew up together on Parklane. All of you are in my thought and prayers.
Jack Joyner (Family)
September 10, 2009
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Aletha Whitlock
September 10, 2009
Mr. Haigler,
The insignificant dash separating the beginning and end of one's life... people won't remember the day you were born nor the day you depart; but they will always remember all the beautiful things you did to make others feel loved. Your wife's acts of kindness and compassion for others will live forever. My prayers are with you and your family.
Susie Brady
September 10, 2009
I am so sorry for your loss. Let the memories that you share comfort you during this time.
Susan Easler
September 10, 2009
Mr. Haigler, Brenda, Mike & Donnie,
I am so very sorry for the loss of your wife & Mother. Please know you are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Suasn Easler
DONNA EBERT
September 10, 2009
GONE TO FAST .......BUT NOW YOU CAN LIVE AGAIN ........AND WE WILL SEE YOU AGAIN WHEN WE LEAVE THIS EARTH.....LOVE YOU ALWAYS , THE EBERTS
Jennie Rush
September 10, 2009
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2009
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