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Carl R. Shirley Jr.

1943 - 2023

Carl R. Shirley Jr. obituary, 1943-2023, Columbia, SC

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Carl Shirley Obituary

Carl R. Shirley, Jr.

March 20, 1943 - September 19, 2023

Columbia, South Carolina - Carl Richard Shirley, Jr. was born in Tryon, NC on March 20, 1943, first child of Major Carl R. Shirley and Ina Carolyn Fisher Shirley. He was predeceased by his parents and two younger siblings, Joel and Susan. He is survived by his adored spouse of fifty-four years, Paula Williams Shirley; his sister, Linda Ann Felder of Sumter; nieces and nephews; and a beloved Beagle, Gaby. He began high school in Anchorage HS, Alaska, and graduated from Dreher in Columbia in 1961. He earned a BA (English), MA (Spanish) and PhD. (Comparative Literature) at USC. He was part of the SC Experiment in Closed Circuit TV (1958-59), at Dreher, working as a student technician, and began as a printer (hand set type) in the art department at the new SCETV in 1960. These years at ETV opened the door to lifelong friendships and knowledge of television and radio that he treasured forever.

He left SCETV in 1967 to teach as a graduate assistant at USC, was appointed to the rank of Instructor in 1969 (on a one-year contract) and retired in 2001 as Distinguished Professor Emeritus. He led USC students in summer studies in Monterrey, Mexico from 1970 until 1974 and taught classes there. His love of Mexico grew and he eventually spent a sabbatical and went on vacation there.

In his professional career, he taught Spanish language, literature, culture, and comparative drama. He created a course in Ethnic American Literature that he taught yearly for two decades in the Honors College. His articles and reviews were published in the Latin American Theater Review, Western American Literature, Multi-Ethnic Literature of the US, Translation Review, Arizona Quarterly, the Dictionary of Literary Biography, and Hispania among others. He and Paula wrote Understanding Chicano Literature, published by USC Press in 1988.

During these years, he became a Dean's advisor to incoming freshmen and undecided majors in the College of Humanities. In his view, his most significant accomplishment was receiving the Ada B. Thomas Award for Faculty Advisor of the Year shortly before his retirement. He loved advising students and appreciated their struggles.

Carl formed close and lasting friendships among his colleagues in the Department of Foreign Languages and Literatures. They respected him for his professionalism, level head, fairness, and sense of humor.

Since early childhood Carl loved cats and dogs. During the years after he finished high school, he was unable to have a pet. As soon as he and Paula were married, however, he brought home a German Shepherd. Over the years, they adopted several cats and dogs. He adored them and they reciprocated. The ashes of two dogs will be buried with him.

Instead of flowers, please donate to Pawmetto Lifeline of Columbia or the SCETV Endowment.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The State on Sep. 27, 2023.

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EA

September 30, 2023

My deepest condolences. May God's Holy Spirit be with the family. I pray that he brings comfort to you all at this difficult time.

Barry Bost

September 28, 2023

Paula, so sorry to hear this. Carl was one of my first instructors at USC in 1967 and we had remained friends. He was an excellent teacher and a good guy.

Maria Smoak

September 25, 2023

Dear Paula - I am just now seeing this notice of your dear Carl's passing and being laid to rest today. During a trip to Croatia for the past two weeks, you came to mind several times as I remembered our many conversations about your love of traveling and your many adventures. You were such a wonderful help to me and such a joy to work with as a volunteer in the Hispanic Ministry at St. Peter's. Please know that both you and Carl are in my prayers. I send you much love, Maria

Joe Wetzel

September 25, 2023

Dearest Paula, I am overwhelmed by your and our loss. I know innumerable friends have offered condolences. Sorry, mine are late, but medical issues slowed me down. On learning the sad news I felt like I was hearing Paul Bunyan had passed. It seemed impossible for this giant of a man in all respects. Consider this note a great big hug! Love.

Elizabeth G Poole "Libbie"

September 24, 2023

Paula,
Thank you and Carl for making Shasta, my yellow lab, a home and taking such good care of her for the rest of her days. I know how much love there was between you three. You made her life heaven on earth. It broke my heart to give her up but I knew that she was in the best hands. She and Carl loved their strolls through your neighborhood saying "Hello" to all of the friends along the way. My condolences to you and remember Carl and Shasta along with all of his pet friends are together again. Take care.

Rebecca Swanson

September 22, 2023

Paula, I am so very sorry for the pain of losing your beloved Carl. My heart goes out to you in love and support as you begin to adjust to a new way of living, without the one you "love the most". I fully relate to the trauma you are experiencing, and send loving thoughts and positive vibes your way. I appreciate and celebrate Carl's life and yours.....both are examples of lives well lived. My love to you, Rebecca (Becky) Swanson

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