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Jay Bardin Obituary
He was born October 21, 1948, in Columbia, SC, and was a lifelong resident of Lake Wales. He was a writer, musician, chef and an artist, and was a member of Mensa, a high IQ society for intellectual exchange among its members. He was an avid reader and attended the Episcopal Church of the Good Shepherd.
Jay was preceded in death by his father, Jesse Redwin Bardin Jr., a brother, Robert Douglas Jahna, and father, Emil R. Jahna Jr. Survivors include his mother, Jeanne A. Jahna of Lake Wales; sisters, Rebekah Susan and Ron Johnson of Babson Park, and Gretchen Jahna of Lake Wales; brothers, Phillip Bardin of Elloree, SC, Allen Bardin of Columbia, SC, Emil R. and Marilyn Jahna III of Babson Park, and Jim and Susan Jahna of Babson Park; and many nieces and nephews.
The funeral service will be held 2:00 p.m. Thursday, November 18, 2010, at Marion Nelson Funeral Home with Father Thomas C. Seitz Jr. officiating. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Good Shepherd Hospice (105 Arneson Avenue, Auburndale, FL 33823). Condolences may be sent to the family and the webcast of the service can be viewed at www.marionnelsonfuneralhome.com.
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for Jay Bardin
Jay Herron
November 23, 2010
I met Redwin back in '70 at Micanopy! Over the years we kept popping up in each others spaces and places. One interesting fellow,Redwin was!
My most fovorite memory was getting lost one late night driving in Peggi's field up here at the farm in Archer Beach (the Sand Hills). Under the cups and influences we drove in circles trying to find the house,it took hours...and we were in view of the house as we were being watched going in circles and zig zags. I will never forget that night or Jay Redwin Bardin.
Larry Sumner
November 20, 2010
Dear Jeanne,
I was so sorry to hear of your lost. As we kids all grew up together at Hesperides, Jay was so often the center of attention. Where have the years gone? I remember well coming over to your house with Terry to watch Walt Disney on Sunday nights with Jay. As I grew older I often borrowed Emil's tuxedo for special occasions. Your family was always such good neighbors and friends and always there for us when we needded you. Thank you for all you did and may God comfort you and yours in this time of need.
Sincerely,
Larry Sumner
Diane Jent
November 18, 2010
Jay was sitting across the aisle from me when we went on a USF art history train trip to New York in 1967. We had never met but became friends and remained so through the years. Jay could always make me laugh no matter what was happening at the time. He was a treasure. My thoughts and prayers are with Jeanne and the family.
Laurie Douglass
November 18, 2010
It has been a little while since I have seen our peer family member from the Sand Hills of Archer, FL. Although unable to attend the service today, I will be there in spirit. May God bless you Jay - a wonderful friend and person. I will miss you, but am left with many fond memories. Rest in peace, with love, Laurie
Peggy Laseter Lee
November 18, 2010
Although I hadn't seen Jay in years, I thought of him often. I have wonderful memories of time spent together. My thoughts are with the family. Jay was a wonderful person and will be missed.
November 17, 2010
It has been a long time since I have seen Redwin, probably when his step mother, Ann Brodie passed away. Redwin and I sort of grew up together during his visits with Jay and Ann and his step-brothers, Allen and Phillip. I have fond memories of those times when our lives were simpler. I know that he is in a better place now and I will remember him fondly. God's Peace be with those that remain.
Martha Wortham Fowler
Columbia, SC
Joyce Metts Grimes
November 17, 2010
The last time I saw Jay was in the Atlanta airport many years ago. In the 70s I took an art class he taught through the Columbia Museum of Art. Although I had absolutely no artistic talent, I enjoyed his laughter and sense of humor as he critiqued my originals. I have smiles and happy memories of Jay. Joyce Metts Grimes, Ballentine, SC
November 17, 2010
Jeanne I'm an old friend from the past but you and family have never been out of my heart. Very sad your little Jay had to leave. You and family have my deepest sympathy and love. Betty Walsh McNulty-Treacy [email protected]
Dave Smith
November 17, 2010
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Pam Haynes
November 16, 2010
When I was little, when Jay would come to town in his VW we would all say "Our hippie cousin is here" and a run home to see him. Lots of fun then. In the later years, Jay and I had many laughs on late night phone calls....many funny memories...rest in peace cousin.
Cynthia Gilliam
November 16, 2010
I knew Redwin as a little boy visiting in Columbia SC. He was very bright with a highly developed sense of humor and a happy smile on his freckled face. I regret losing touch with him and offer sincere condolences to his family on his loss.
Julie (Norris) Walters
November 16, 2010
So sorry for your loss...my thoughts and prayers are with your family during this time.
November 16, 2010
It's sad to say good-by to a long time friend. Good-by Jesse.
Chris
Judy Walker
November 16, 2010
May the comfort of God help you during this difficult time. May the love of thoes around you help you through the days ahead.
Peace, prayers and blessings.
Cindy Miller Wegman
November 16, 2010
Jay brought so much sunshine into my life. He was a joy, and will be sorely missed.
Laura&Wayne Helm
November 16, 2010
Ya'll are in our thoughts and prayers.
THE CARAWAY'S
November 16, 2010
SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS. OUR PRAYERS ARE WITH THE FAMILY AT THIS TIME.
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