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Lucinda Reddington Cawley

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Lucinda Reddington Cawley, 67, died Thursday after a long illness at SUNY Upstate Medical Center in Syracuse, N.Y. The cause of death was complications of rheumatoid arthritis. Cinda is survived by her husband, John, Fayetteville, N.Y.

Cinda was born on St. Patrick's Day, March 17, 1943, in Scranton. Daughter of the late Dr. J. Frank Reddington and Dorothy Osmond Boland, Cinda graduated from Marywood Seminary in Scranton and from Georgetown University's School of Foreign Service in Washington, D.C. She married John Horan Cawley on July 3, 1965, in Scranton. The couple lived in Washington, D.C., and Denville, N.J., before returning to live in Scranton in 1973. There, the couple raised three children, Frances, John Jr. and Kathleen. John and Cinda lived on the Eastern Shore of Maryland from 2000 to 2009, when they moved to upstate New York to be near their children. Cinda was an avid and expert quilter and frequently created special quilts for friends and family to mark birthdays, weddings and births. She co-authored the book "Saved for the People of Pennsylvania: Quilts from the Collection of the State Museum of Pennsylvania," published in 1997, with her close friends Lorraine Ezbiansky and Denise Nordberg. She was also published in the Research Papers of the American Quilt Study Group and presented her research at the meetings of that organization, for which she served on the board of directors. She built a collection of antique fraktur-inscribed quilts (fraktur is a historic German typeface of calligraphy), using old census records to research the individuals whose names appeared on the quilts. These quilts are now in the Lucinda Cawley Collection at the International Quilt Study Center & Museum at the University of Nebraska-Lincoln. Cinda read voraciously and had a sharp mind and tongue. For years, she used stationary headed "do not suffer fools gladly…" Cinda was a contestant on the TV game show "Jeopardy!" in the 1960s. She had a special love of history; she extensively toured Civil War battlefields and presidential homes and collected textiles from presidential campaigns.

Cinda is also survived by two daughters, Frances and husband, John Lathrop, Fayetteville, N.Y.; and Kathleen and husband, Jeremy Coughlin, Fayetteville, N.Y.; a son, John Cawley and wife, Rachel Dunifon, Ithaca, N.Y.; six grandchildren; a sister, Frances and husband, Joseph Garvey, Scranton; a brother, John and wife, Silke Reddington, Scranton; and nieces and nephews. She was also preceded in death by a brother, William, who died as an infant in 1945; and a sister, Dorothy Reddington, Ithaca, N.Y., in 2004.

A memorial Mass will be held in St. Peter's Cathedral, Scranton, on March 15 at 10 a.m. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the American Quilt Study Group.

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Published by Scranton Times on Mar. 5, 2011.

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Maureen Mullen Dove

March 15, 2011

Dear John - It is unbelievable to me that Cinda is gone. The memories! We met our very first day at Georgetown and shared Quigley, Wasoski, Father Cebes, P St., Arlington, M. St, and so much more. I am so sorry that we were not in touch for the past few years. My sincere condolences to you and your children and grandchildren. Cinda was quite a lady - and I loved her. Maureen

March 9, 2011

The quilt world has lost a most valuable member and friend. Her knowledge of quilts and history was very influential to me when creating Quilt Odyssey. And when she lectured on quilting history, it was just like being there. I was fascinated by her mind and intellect and will miss her contributions to our FVF meetings.

Amanda Nestor

March 8, 2011

My thoughts are with the family at this diffcult time.

March 7, 2011

My deepest sympathy to the Cawley family. She shared so freely of her knowlege and her enthusiasm for quilts and I was privileged to be with her from time to time. She was a mentor par excellence and a great joy to be with. My memories are many and choice and I hope in time that their special memories will bring the family a bit of comfort and peace. Barbara Butler, Myersville, MD

Polly Mello

March 7, 2011

My deepest sympathy to the Cawley family. May God be with each of you at this very sad time. Our Cinda's soul is soaring in heaven with her cross legged angels.

Sebrina Henderson

March 7, 2011

My condolences to the Cawley family. My you all provide strength to each other during this time of grief.

Susan Hinzman

March 7, 2011

Cinda and I knew each other at the quilt committee at the Maryland Historical Society some years ago. Such fun to share with such a knowledgeable and lively lady our love for quilts. Cinda's postings were so descriptive and let the rest of us know exactly what we had missed at meetings with her fine words. I knew that she had been ill, and I was so sorry to hear that Cinda is no longer with us...her legacy goes on. She was such a special lady to us all. I send total sympathies to her family.
Susan Hinzman

March 6, 2011

I cannot believe that Cinda is no more. My prayers and deepest condolences go to Cinda and those who are nearest and dearest to her. Cinda is an amazing lady and she will live on in all our hearts. With Much love. Hiranya from Parramatta,Sydney Australia

Melissa Conway

March 6, 2011

To the family of Cinda Cawley,

I was shocked and grieved to read this sad news about Cinda. My heart is with you John, and with everyone in the Cawley, Reddington, Lathrop, Couglin, and Garvey families. Each time Cinda and I spoke in the last several years, she gave me updates on John, Franny, Kathleen and their families, as well as nephews Christian and Bill. She took great pride and delight in everyone in her family. Cinda was a remarkable woman in every way, and the world is a poorer place without her. Please know that my thoughts will be with you all during this difficult time.

Yours ever,
Melissa

Sandra Biacchi

March 6, 2011

It has been said that when you are sorrowful look again in your heart, and you shall see that in truth you are weeping for that which has been your delight. This will be true with Cinda Cawley. I enjoyed her knowledge and wit when in her presence and of course her great passion for quilt history that she shared will all. She will be missed.

Lisa Bernfeld

March 5, 2011

Franny and John: I am so sorry to read about Cinda and Dodo. Betsy and I were in Scranton in Oct for the first time since my parents moved 22 years ago. We were so sad to see that your house is no longer there -- lots of good memories, especially with your father and with you and that playhouse.

March 5, 2011

I was fortunate to be Cinda's roommate at Georgetown U and we remained friends ever since. She was truly an awesome and unique woman who I am so pleased to say was a good friend. We should have had more time together in recent years but we did keep in touch and I was always so pleased to hear about her children

Donna Stickovich

March 5, 2011

I met Cinda in N.J and at Williamsburg. A lovely Lady! Donna

Ady

March 5, 2011

I only knew Cinda through her delightful, interesting and wonderfully knowledgeable quilt-sighting reports on the Quilt History List. She will be greatly missed.

Lynne Bassett

March 5, 2011

Cinda was a very special person--intelligent, warm, and sharing. She will be greatly missed by the quilt world! I am so glad that I had the opportunity to be acquainted with her. Please accept my sincere condolences.

March 5, 2011

I didn't get to meet Cinda but felt that I knew her from her detailed and lively descriptions on quilting history discussion boards. The world is less rich without her.

Sandy Lathrop

March 5, 2011

Our Family was truly blessed by her presence. She welcomed us into her family with warm affection and a great sense of humor from the moment we first met. We will miss her greatly when we visit with our son John and her beloved daughter Franny. Thankfully, Franny has the same loving qualities as her mother. She has never failed to make our family feel immediately welcome and loved at every visit. In that sense, Lucinda will always be present in our visits. For that, we will always be grateful as well.
With sympathy and love,
Jim and Sandy Lathrop

March 5, 2011

Cinda was a fellow AQSG member. We shared many wonderful moments flapping old quilts and discussing their history. Cinda will be remembered most affectionately by her friends in the world of quilt history for her Cinda-logs and the unselfish sharing of her knowledge of old quilts. My condolences to her family for their great loss.
Sue Reich, Washington Depot, CT

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